Preparing for the future - just in case

@JudyEv (325758)
Rockingham, Australia
October 15, 2019 6:46pm CST
About a week ago, we purchased a digital version of a booklet called ‘Just in Case – Think Ahead’. The author, Heidi Wyeth, wrote it after she lost her husband very suddenly. She realised there was a need for a comprehensive guide as to what to do to leave your affairs in some sort of order so that whoever had to deal with your estate could do so with less problems and stress than might otherwise be the case. There are numerous tables and charts to fill in which details all the information the executor of your estate will need. There are extensive lists of the sorts of documents, vital and less so, that you might want to keep together so they’re easily accessible. There are spaces to document your wishes as regards your funeral service, arrangements for your pets, special requests, etc. Having purchased a digital version, information regarding our passwords, account numbers and other details can be safely kept in the document. Now all we have to do is get around to filling in all the details. The photo is my favourite Nepalese photo of Lake Fewa. I haven't been there but Vince took the photo.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
16 Oct 19
It is something we all have to think about, I think its great be sure to tell someone where this is, so they can follow it. I absolutely LOVE this photo, Sell me a copy please!
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
I've PMd you in case you're dinkum.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
16 Oct 19
It is a practical thing to do which will make it easier for the surviving family member on what to do; saves some arguments, etc.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
True - and part of the advice is to have all the documents that will be needed in a folder so they are easy to find.
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@rebelann (111171)
• El Paso, Texas
16 Oct 19
I love that photo, it's stunning. I don't have any heirs so when I pass this will all go to the government of the state of TX and I really don't care if they any problems, it won't affect me while I live and I'm betting my ghost won't give a hoot.
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@rebelann (111171)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Oct 19
Actually we're all in the same age group and I'm the healthiest of the bunch @JudyEv Carol has diabetes, Hank has bipolar depression and suffers from war injuries, Linda is diabetic. I'm the only one that doesn't take a lot of medications.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
Do you not have a few special bits and pieces that you'd want to give to friends? Of course, that is easily catered for just in a will I guess.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
@rebelann For a long time, I hadn't thought about the fact that certain people might die before me but I can understand.
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@wolfgirl569 (95185)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Oct 19
That could be very useful.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
It would make it easier for those who come after.
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• United States
16 Oct 19
a very useful book 'ndeed! i've been tryin' to get the hubs to sit down'n lets make our wills, get health directives done, etc. he refuses... i jest love that pic!
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• United States
16 Oct 19
@JudyEv same here, such's gotta go through probate. which can such the estate dry if'n certain folks 've the desire to do so. so glad y'all've that part tended, hon.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
At least we've done all that but we don't have everything in one spot and easy to access. If you don't have a will here, the government takes a big cut out of the estate for starters.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
16 Oct 19
We took care of that years ago, but continually have to make updates and small changes. Everyone should do that.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
17 Oct 19
@JudyEv It’s important to have all that information ready for the boys.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
@DianneN That's the part we need to address.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
We've had it done too for ages but what we don't have are the documents all together and readily accessible. Also getting passwords for bank accounts would be tricky for an outsider.
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@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
18 Oct 19
That sounds like a very useful thing to do.
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@snowy22315 (169965)
• United States
19 Oct 19
@JudyEv You never do.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
I guess as you get older these things cross your mind more but even for younger people, you never know what can happen.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 Oct 19
That is a great photo! That book can be very useful and helpful.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
20 Oct 19
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
We just have to fill in all the details now.
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@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Oct 19
That is something we need to do.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
It makes sense really, especially if you are getting older.
@just4him (306234)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 19
That's good information to have for your loved ones. I remember that picture. It's gorgeous!
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@just4him (306234)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 Oct 19
@JudyEv Yes, it does.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
It makes it so much easier for those left behind if our affairs are in order.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
17 Oct 19
Its like an unlovable thing to do but we can't evade this. And planning and doing this is certainly one of the best thing to do while we are still alive and aware.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
No one really likes to talk about such things but as we get older we do need to address these issues.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Oct 19
We need to face this.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
17 Nov 19
@JudyEv Judy, thank you for sharing that with us.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Nov 19
You're welcome. We made a start on filling it in just the other day.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
18 Nov 19
@JudyEv A start is very good.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
16 Oct 19
It is a good thing to do. It makes things easier for the person who is left behind to deal with it.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
That's our thinking. It's surprising how much red tape you have to go through if you are an executor and it can become quite stressful.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
@Happy2BeMe Vince has been executor several times and there can be a lot of work involved if things aren't just so.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
20 Oct 19
@JudyEv very true. It is a difficult task.
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
16 Oct 19
beautiful picture I think it's morning scene
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
It's very peaceful, isn't it?
@shaggin (71666)
• United States
16 Oct 19
That's actually a really good idea! The photo is gorgeous!
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
Thanks. Now we just have to get around to filling in the book.
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@piya84 (2581)
• India
17 Oct 19
I havent think about it yet thanks for reminding me. btw that picture is beautiful.I enlarged it to see it more clearly.
@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
The photo is one of my favourite sunset photos. I'm glad you enjoyed it.
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
16 Oct 19
Our Wills have been signed, we have written down what we want that has to be done after we go. I hope I forgot nothing, I still have to be sure that my husband writes down all his passwords, I already did and he knows where they are stored... if he remembers.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
20 Oct 19
@JudyEv My husband does not want to use the "cloud", so our passwords are stored (encrypted) on USB keys that are stored inside our drawer. Everything "online" is never safe, the hackers are very smart in our days.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
The passwords are probably the biggest issue in a way but I think ours are 'encrypted' in some way and stored in a 'cloud'. Hopefully they are safe.
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@Fleura (29129)
• United Kingdom
16 Oct 19
And, I have to add, this isn't just for 'old' people - you never know what will happen suddenly. Especially important if you have children, to appoint guardians and avoid their being taken into care!
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
Exactly. It's just commonsense really to let people know your wishes should anything happen to you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Oct 19
I think everyone should have that.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
It's a good idea really.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
16 Oct 19
That is something I haven't thought about but it makes sense.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Oct 19
If your wishes aren't known, then it can be difficult for those left behind.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
20 Oct 19
@JudyEv that is true.
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