Update on Where I've Been

@kareng (80243)
United States
December 5, 2019 10:20am CST
Good morning all. I didn't mean to disappear but first things come first. My mom was a bit disoriented and took a fall Sunday evening and ended up with a big knot that opened up. So we headed to the ER to check things out. It was a good thing we did because she had some bleeding on her brain. She also required 3 stitches to close up the wound. She was admitted to ICU around 2 am. The emergency room was packed and we had to wait for a room in ER. They were lining people up in the hallway. She got bumped up because they sent her for a CT scan first. By the time she got in a room her blood pressure was sky high, so we had to get that treated and blood clotting drug to stop bleeding. She was then sent to ICU. We had another wait for a room in ICU. We finally got her settled around 2:30 am. Knowing that she would be sleeping, I decided to go home. The next day the bleeding was till happening so she stayed in ICU. Then the following morning her CT scan showed the bleeding had stopped. She was ready to go to a regular room. As the story goes, we had to wait for a room to be available in the cardiac unit. We got her settled in and when the new shift came on, they decided to move her down in front of the nurses station because of her dementia. The nurse on duty when she moved did zippo and just wanted to get off work. I was a bit ticked off. She stayed on her cell phone constantly. So I've been spending my time at the hospital. We are waiting to see what her doctor is going to do about her Afib now. Otherwise, she is ready to come home. Photo Credit: Pixabay
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
5 Dec 19
I would have reported her to the chief there.No need to be on the phone.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
I gave her the benefit of doubt on that one since they all carry a cell for work purposes. However, today's incident was inexcusable, so I think I pegged her right.
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
7 Dec 19
@kareng did you by any chance reporting her to the officials there.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@amadeo Not yet but I will be making a phone call Monday morning. I did fill out card for comments on her and one for an outstanding nurse in ICU.
@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
6 Dec 19
I am so sorry to know that you needed to bring your Mom to the ER. I hope she feels a little better now. Surely you are having a hard time. Take care.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thank you, Anna. Just taking it one day at a time.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@LadyDuck Hopefully the bad part is over and we can enjoy the holidays.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
7 Dec 19
@kareng How sad to have problems just before the Christmas holidays.
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@betlynfrnds (4071)
• United States
5 Dec 19
That is so stressful. I'm sorry you and your family had to deal with all of this. Hopefully everything settles down soon and your Mom makes a full recovery. I'm also sorry about Nurse Zippo. They seem to pop up in most hospitals. By the way, I'm glad to see you back.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thanks! This nurse definitely didn't need to be working in the cardiac unit or actually at all. Mom was discharged late this evening.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@betlynfrnds Me too! I'm glad to get her away from that awful nurse too!
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• United States
8 Dec 19
@kareng Some people are most certainly in the wrong profession. I'm happy to hear that your mom was discharged.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Dec 19
It sounds like you've been through a nightmare. I hope your mom is doing better and could come home.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Yep, it was bad. If it was up to her she would not have gone. My husband told her flat out, YOU ARE GOING. She got to come home tonight!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@just4him Me too!
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Dec 19
@kareng I'm glad she's home.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
6 Dec 19
@kareng I hate when they are suppose to do their job and they spend the time on the phone instead. That is so sad. I am sorry. How is your Mom now?
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Head injury all better. We have to make an appointment to go get stitches out. She came home tonight. Yay!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
9 Dec 19
@Hannihar Nope it was not a fun week at all.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
8 Dec 19
@kareng Head injury does not sound good.
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• Agra, India
5 Dec 19
I wish you mum.recovers soon
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thank you. She was discharged late today.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@amitkokiladitya Thank you!
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• Agra, India
7 Dec 19
@kareng I wish her all the good health
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
6 Dec 19
I am sorry you have had to spend time at the hospital. Hope your mom stabilizes soon. Boo to the cell phone nurse.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
She got to come home tonight! We had another problem with cell phone nurse today. I'll be posting on her in a jiffy.
@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Dec 19
Glad she is doing good now. That would be scary. Good nurses like dementia patients close so they can watch them closer. But she should have got off her phone unless it had to do with her work. I know our hospital uses them now for that.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Yes they all keep cell phones on them now to call for assistance when needed. We had another run in with her today so I think my assessment of her was correct. She doesn't need to be working in a hospital period.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
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@wolfgirl569 (135583)
• Marion, Ohio
7 Dec 19
@kareng I just read about it.
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• United States
5 Dec 19
oh dear, what a horrible time! did'ja know that'cha can fire that nurse? not literally, but ya can demand that she's no contact with yer momma'n they get'cha one who's there to tend patients. trust me, i've fired many, 's well 's doc's o'er the years fer various reasons. i so hope that her a-fib 'tis under control, that bleedin' remains stopped. i'm sure 'tis stressful fer her, too, bein' there't the hospital with all that confusion. sendin' healin' hugs ~
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
We only had to deal with cell phone nurse on Monday and Friday so that was good. Updating on her in next post. She got to come home late today!
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• United States
7 Dec 19
@kareng so glad she got to come home, hon.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@crazyhorseladycx Me too. The bleeding on the brain was very scary!
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Dec 19
Praying for your mom! I hope you were finally able to bring her home.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thank you. I got to bring her home tonight! Stay tuned for a post on cell phone nurse!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@moffittjc She was awful! Karma will catch up with her soon!
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@moffittjc (128824)
• Gainesville, Florida
8 Dec 19
@kareng I saw your post on cell phone nurse!
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
6 Dec 19
I hope the nurse had a good reason to be on her cellphone. Otherwise, it is inexcusable.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
I agree. From what I observed about her in her work environment she was never tuned in to her work. I'm glad we only had to deal with her on Monday and again today! Problems both days! Update on cell phone nurse coming soon.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
6 Dec 19
I am so sorry, I hope she will be home soon.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
We made it out of there late this evening. It would have been earlier if not for "cell phone nurse!"
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@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
5 Dec 19
What a stressful time for you. I hope your mom can recover soon.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thank you. I'm sure she will be back to her self or as close to herself as she can be soon.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
5 Dec 19
Oh! That sounds terrible. Sorry you had to go so much of trouble. Wishing a speedy recovery for your mom. That nurse attitude is not appreciated at all. Being on phone while she is on duty is not professional.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
Thanks for the well wishes for mom! I agree on the cell phone. I didn't say anything because they carry cells here for work purposes, but I don't think that was her case at all.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
7 Dec 19
@kareng Wishing your mom a speedy recovery. You could have politely pointed that out to her. But anyway all well now.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
8 Dec 19
@arunima25 I don't think it would have done any good. She had "that" attitude written all over her. Karma will get her.
@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
5 Dec 19
This must be a worrying time for you. I've never experienced uncaring nurses in the UK, but when my husband was in hospital in Barbados they were awful.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
She got to come home today so we will be taking it easy for a few days.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
5 Dec 19
This has certainly been a stressful time for you. Hope your mom is doing OK.
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
7 Dec 19
She was discharged late today and by cell phone nurse. I'll be updating on today's episode in a few minutes. Going to knock a few more notifications out!
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