Did YOU MISS ME?... Awkward?!?

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
December 14, 2019 5:40am CST
As the usual routine, I am having classes online on weekends. I need to work hard and relax next week. I am planning not to teach online. To cut it short, I am teaching a young male student tonight. I did not have any classes with him for a long time. Me: "How are you?" Student: I am happy to see you again, teacher. Me: "Did you miss me?" (Kidding up...) Student: I miss you so much. Me: Smiling @#! (Awkward...) At this particular moment, I suddenly felt awkward. Perhaps I am not used to hearing this statement from the male population. I find it cheesy for a minute. But I need to brush off the malicious thing in mind. "What do you think about giving cheesy pick-up lines to others?" "How do you feel if someone misses you?" Image Credit: 38.media.tumblr.com
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@crossbones27 (52905)
• Mojave, California
14 Dec 19
Haha. I know what you mean. We like the macho stuff. I will punch you in the face like everyone else teacher. See, not awkward. Maybe not that far sorry was in Marine Corps how we talk to each other but you get my point.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
You got my point. For this young fellow, I feel not right. At age 18, he needs to be careful of saying such a phrase. If he is in my bloodline or a close buddy, it would not be awkward. It is most likely not a cheesy phrase for people who are close to me.
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• Mojave, California
18 Dec 19
@Shavkat Becareful also buddy, not all built like you. I love it, but if going to be a true teacher you have to take all forms. That is really a code among teachers and they take it seriously just like us big brutes.Funny thing I am not even that big, but I do not play with people that choose to be ignorant.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Dec 19
@crossbones27 I get your point. I am not putting into a serious matter. It is strictly no personal information needs to be released to my online students. I sometimes bothered if their mothers are calling my attention while having classes with their kiddies.
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@rebelann (117211)
• El Paso, Texas
14 Dec 19
People say that all the time, I rarely think anything of it and usually I don't really believe them.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
I guess I need to use this phrase all the time. There is no problem if I say this to my family members.
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@rebelann (117211)
• El Paso, Texas
15 Dec 19
The only people I know that use that phrase with me are my close friends @Shavkat
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
@rebelann I would feel more comfortable if saying or hearing this phrase with people close to my heart.
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@msdivkar (23356)
• India
14 Dec 19
I am not used to hashtag code messages.
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@msdivkar (23356)
• India
15 Dec 19
@Shavkat I did not understand what you meant by "Smiling @#! (Awkward...)"
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
What do you mean? I am sorry. I am lost with your words.
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
@msdivkar It is a mischievous smile.
@LadyDuck (502251)
• Italy
14 Dec 19
I am not embarrassed when it comes from young kids.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
I agree. I used to say it to my little niece and baby nephew.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
@LadyDuck I do agree on that. At least, they will know that we love them.
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@LadyDuck (502251)
• Italy
15 Dec 19
@Shavkat Kids are spontaneous, you can trust them and there is nothing wrong in what they say.
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@AkoPinay (11496)
• Philippines
18 Dec 19
I'll take it as a joke.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
18 Dec 19
I did take it a joke. I was laughing for a bit. I guess he realized that he blurted out an awkward sentence.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
14 Dec 19
The next time you will be millionaire.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
I am hoping for that. If it happens, I am not going to ignore my evil relatives.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
@JustBhem I will slap this money to their faces.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Dec 19
@Shavkat Exactly.
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
17 Dec 19
That's awkward especially if you're straight.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
19 Dec 19
Yes, it is. I did not expect that he will say his claim.
• United States
15 Dec 19
That is quite crazy..what is wrong with him saying that to you? It is not appropriate especially if you are teacher and then both males..what
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
19 Dec 19
I did expect that he is going to say this. But I don't feel at ease when he said it.
@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
16 Dec 19
I think it is nice to ask students or other people.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
16 Dec 19
I think it is fine without malice at all.
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
It really does look awkward if it was a male student saying that, unless he's gay though.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
19 Dec 19
I hope he is not. I think he did not net say it intentionally.
@thelme55 (79311)
• Germany
17 Dec 19
It depends who misses me but if it is a student, I might feel awkward when it is an adult man.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
19 Dec 19
I felt awkward because it is a young adult.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
1 Jan 20
@Shavkat I think it is nice if someone misses me.
@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
14 Dec 19
Some time thing gone over our expectation
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
15 Dec 19
I think we cannot control certain things. We sometimes need to think before doing something.
@Fa_Maverick (9491)
• Australia
29 Jan 20
Honestly, cheesy pick-up lines are the best thing ever that's my view probably because I have a sense of humour that can laugh at them. When someone misses me I feel sad and guilty to be honest. It makes me feel like I have been a bad friend and neglected them.