Not the best Christmas yet '19
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
Holiday, Florida
December 25, 2019 5:59am CST
Dialed 911 already this morning. Clay was having a fit over no money for booze and daughter had none nor I and he knew better then to ask me. For some reason he thought she was holding out on him, got mad and trashed our tree. I called the cops but she didn't want him to go to jail today and told them he got sick and fell into it?
yes I let it go cause I don't really loose my temper much.
I sure hope all my friends here are having a good Christmas at least. know I should be thankful for a roof over my head, internet, electricity so I can breath, and food.
Mostly because I had to foot the bill for it all this time. Daughter spent her pay on presents for her grand kids. yes, not thinking I might have wanted to buy for mine but could not. 
Plus now I have to wait till middle of January to get paid again. 
But they are giving me a whole 26 dollars more a month. yay....notice this is sarcasm 
Here's hoping my daughter has finally reached her limit with this crazy man. Angel on top of the tree got broke too after 6 or so yrs of having it.
Guess grand daughter was lucky she went over to her bf's for Christmas. 
I will be glad when she returns today.
This is why I don't post a lot. I get depressed and sorry to bring you all down especially on a holiday. Couldn't help myself this time sorry friends.
that's whats on my mind though. Praying you are all having a better day. 
Plus now I have to wait till middle of January to get paid again.
But they are giving me a whole 26 dollars more a month. yay....notice this is sarcasm
Here's hoping my daughter has finally reached her limit with this crazy man. Angel on top of the tree got broke too after 6 or so yrs of having it.
Guess grand daughter was lucky she went over to her bf's for Christmas.
I will be glad when she returns today.
This is why I don't post a lot. I get depressed and sorry to bring you all down especially on a holiday. Couldn't help myself this time sorry friends.
that's whats on my mind though. Praying you are all having a better day. 22 people like this
24 responses
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 20
just wish she would stop letting him get away with so much
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
25 Dec 19
No matter what sending you big hugs Bun.xxx
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Dec 19
you too Anna I hope you had a good one
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@LadyDuck (502737)
• Italy
27 Dec 19
@bunnybon7 I had a good one thank you Bonnie.
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@GreatMartin (23670)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
25 Dec 19
Sorry for your problems but why is that man in YOUR life??? Why does your daughter allow him to disrupt all of you? I know, I know--it is easy for an outsider to ask those questions but he is dangerous to all around him!
Hey, don't complain about $26--I am only getting a $17 raise on my Social Security!!
Bonnie, just keep on telling yourself--and say it out loud--2020 is going to be a good year for you! I do that every day and it works most of the time!
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Dec 19
you made me smile. That is a wonderful idea I am giving it a try.
I am giving it a try. 
@ptrikha_2 (49775)
• India
25 Dec 19
Folks in US too have these problems! This is quite disturbing. Putting up with an abusive person is so so tough.
I hope that your daughter gets over the troubles soon enough.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
26 Dec 19
That is all I have to say about him.1 person likes this
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Dec 19
@TiarasOceanView certainly true. In fact he should be doing all he can around here to help
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
29 Dec 19
@bunnybon7 Yes he needs to fend for himself not be depending on you two to support him and on top of that being violent.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)
• United States
25 Dec 19
We are all here as a listening ear when you need it. You shouldn't feel bad about venting, we have all done that here before.
I hope that your daughter will kick that clay to the curbside. I feel for her because it seems as if she is blinded by love, and not really thinking of all the things he's done and she's probably made excuses for. I'm sorry that Christmas started out bad for you but I hope it gets better.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Dec 19
probably not at this point . Not enough money or place to go.
I will just have to bare it. thanks
@wolfgirl569 (135966)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Dec 19
Sorry today has started like that.
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@LindaOHio (222726)
• United States
25 Dec 19
I'm sorry that you're having such a bad Christmas. Regardless, wishing you a peaceful and blessed Christmas. Try and enjoy it.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
25 Dec 19
So sorry to hear that! It's tough to put up with an abusive person. Mylot is a place you can always vent out. There are many who would always listen and comfort.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
26 Dec 19
Christmas is a not a happy event for everyone. I have a family member similar to yours so I know how they can destroy your world. This year he decided to stay away so our Christmas was peaceful. I hope your problems get smaller and you can get this toxic person out of your life.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Dec 19
Been dealing with him off and on for 11 years now. Mostly because my daughter is my only caring child willing to care for me and help me but her big heart extends to him.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
26 Dec 19
@sprite1950 it is and I keep hoping but not happened so far.
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
26 Dec 19
@bunnybon7 Maybe one day she will see him for what he is. It must be awful for you.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54730)
• United States
27 Dec 19
I hope that 2020 is a better year for you.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Dec 19
thank you darlin'
I appreciate that
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@Tampa_girl7 (54730)
• United States
28 Dec 19
@bunnybon7 it starts in a few days
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@RasmaSandra (98106)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Dec 19
I am so sorry you all had to go through that at Christmas. Virtual hugs and I sure hope this was a lesson learned
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
28 Dec 19
especially drunks
now all I have is the memories and these photos of it. Still mad about it. I loved that angel so much
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@HazySue (39265)
• Gouverneur, New York
30 Dec 19
@bunnybon7 I have found that many when they are drunk care for only themselves.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Jan 20
@HazySue yes true with all drunks
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 20
sometimes she tries but he seems to wiggle his way back in some how.
bad love is certainly blind
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Jan 20
thank you. am looking for a better year now
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@porwest (112924)
• United States
4 Jan 20
@bunnybon7 2020, you would think, would be a good year coming for everyone. Get it? 2020? Anywho… 
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