The groom arrives at the wedding

@JudyEv (382104)
Rockingham, Australia
January 31, 2020 7:35pm CST
I've just realised I used the same photo in two posts but too late to do anything about it now. This shows the happy couple in all their splendour and carries on from the previous post. When the groom’s family arrived, some of their group entered first but then came the groom and boy, was he resplendent! His hat and suit were all matching and, as you can see in the photo, both bride and groom were highly decorated and had garlands round their necks. He was presented with a framed certificate. I've no idea what it said but a welcome scarf was draped around it. At one point, the bride’s sister ‘stole’ her shoes which were auctioned off among the guests. I guess the money went to the couple and the shoes were eventually returned. Notice the bangles on the bride. They were seated side by side on throne-like chairs. at some point, there was ritual washing of the hands and feet. Later the couple sat on the floor in front of their ‘thrones’ and more rituals took place. Garlands were exchanged and those watching clapped after each exchange. At some point, they must have been pronounced man and wife as there was louder cheering and people drifted off. Somewhere about here, we were taken off to a venue a few hundred yards away where a meal was served. There was a long queue waiting for food and we joined the end of the line. We weren’t there long when someone collected us and moved us to the head of the queue. We apologised for jumping the line but no-one objected. We were met with the same courteous and kind behaviour the whole day.
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@TheHorse (238313)
• Walnut Creek, California
1 Feb 20
Interesting that the washing of feet is a ritual in several different religious traditions.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv @TheHorse some of the churches around here practice foot washing in their services.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
I thought that too. Several took turns doing it.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@Tampa_girl7 Mostly we only see it at Easter in Catholic churches although I wouldn't know about others.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
1 Feb 20
Wow what a very colorful photo you got there of the couple. That "stealing" of the bride's shoes is cute because it is like raising funds for the couple. Our counterpart for that is the pinning of money on the gown of the bride on their first dance. Again, thank you for sharing.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv gee, even the band has a share of the bounty. You are lucky to have attended such a cultural event. I hope we can also experience that in case we would go there.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@Alexandoy Last night we watched another Hindu ceremony. This one was held at sunset.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv wow you had attended 2 already.
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@rebelann (117237)
• El Paso, Texas
1 Feb 20
That must have been almost embarrassing for the two of you but nice to be in the front of the line. Amazing how different weddings are from culture to culture.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Yes, we were made quite a fuss of which was nice in a way, if unexpected.
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@rebelann (117237)
• El Paso, Texas
1 Feb 20
It sounds like you two were the guests of honor @JudyEv
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@rebelann In a way we were but there was a lot going on that needed attending to too.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
1 Feb 20
The bride is a cute young woman. They were so kind to move you to the head of the line, I think that those people are really nice.
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@LadyDuck (502491)
• Italy
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv The groom and the bride both look very young.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@LadyDuck I find many Asian people do look young for a long time. I think the bride is about 23 or 24 and the groom a bit older.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
They were really kind. No wonder people keep coming back time after time.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Feb 20
It's all so very colorful.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
They are into red, aren't they?
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@JohnRoberts There was red bouncing off the walls at the wedding.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv Red is considered a lucky color in Asia.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
1 Feb 20
The money that comes from returning the shoes to groom doesn't go to couple. Brides sisters, cousins and her friends who were part of stealing the shoes share it. It's a fun ritual where sisters and cousins from bride side play tricks to steal shoes while those cousins and friends from groom side are in charge of protecting the shoes.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
10 Feb 20
@arunima25 Yes, and at times, the hard bargain can be fun as well. I saw one case where the groom was not convinced for quite some time, but finally relented!
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Thanks for the explanation and I did learn that after I'd posted my discussion.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
1 Feb 20
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@wolfgirl569 (135770)
• Marion, Ohio
1 Feb 20
They look wonderful
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Like something from a movie.
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
1 Feb 20
I guess they welcome and regards you as a very special guests
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@rakski (156506)
• Philippines
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv that is great to hear
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
They did which was very kind of them.
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb 20
I love that photo they have such happy smiles. It sounds like a really interesting wedding. What did they serve?
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv that sounds awesome wow great food spread
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Gosh, now you have me! There was plenty of rice, chicken and lamb dishes, some spicy but some not. Also some yummy fish 'nuggets' but nuggets in shape only. Various vegetable dishes including beetroot which was almost rock hard and lots of condiments including yoghurt and dahl, chutneys and relishes. Cabbage, spinach and cauliflower seemed to be popular too.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
2 Feb 20
They make a beautiful couple! You were honored guests. How nice!
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv I understand.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
It's almost like a reverse racism where we were almost 'paraded' for their friends - a bit like a status symbol. I hope that doesn't sound too harsh. It's hard to explain. But they were certainly very kind.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Feb 20
It sounded like a beautiful wedding. The bride and groom are gorgeous all decked out in their finery.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv Yes, there is.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
And there is a lot of 'finery' isn't there? So many bits and pieces.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
1 Feb 20
What a beautiful phot. Tha bride is pretty as well. Very interesting wedding.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
She made a beautiful bride. I'm so glad we attended.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv Yes, indeed. I am glad you have experienced that awesome wedding ceremony.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
2 Feb 20
@JudyEv Why is the groom wearing sunglasses? You two were special guests. Love the picture of the bride and groom and thanks for sharing with us about the wedding .
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
I don't know why he's wearing sunglasses. Perhaps it was very bright when he left his home.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv I see.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
2 Feb 20
That's such a beautiful picture! They were indeed quite nice with you
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
We were treated very kindly, thanks.
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@nela13 (59365)
• Portugal
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv yes, they were very kind and that is so nice when we are in a foreign country.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Feb 20
This is a fantastic wedding. I like their gowns, very colorful and beautiful.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Some of the gowns and jewellery would have been worth a fortune.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
10 Feb 20
You surely enjoyed the wedding a lot. Well, normally the girls' sisters and brothers- real and cousins "steal" the shoes of the groom, and demand some amount. There is bargaining at times as well. All is later "settled", with lots of fun. Things might be a little different in Nepal than in various states of India, but overall things are quite the same in Hindu weddings.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 20
I'm sure that is what was happening here. They were all enjoying the joke a lot.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
1 Feb 20
That is hospitality which you will find even in India where guests specially from another country get the place they deserve. That is not called jumping the queue.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
Certainly no-one minded in the least. They were very hospitable.
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• China
1 Feb 20
It was a really lively and solemn wedding ! You were given polite reception there.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
Yes, the folks were very kind to us.
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@Juliaacv (56257)
• Canada
2 Feb 20
They are a good looking couple, so happy smiling so nice on their big day.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
I'm sure the bride was very tired by the end of the day.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
1 Feb 20
Were the sunglasses part of the wedding dress code?
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Haha. I'm not sure. The groom has been living in Ohio and has a strong American accent.