The groom arrives at the wedding
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382104)
Rockingham, Australia
January 31, 2020 7:35pm CST
I've just realised I used the same photo in two posts but too late to do anything about it now. This shows the happy couple in all their splendour and carries on from the previous post. When the groom’s family arrived, some of their group entered first but then came the groom and boy, was he resplendent! His hat and suit were all matching and, as you can see in the photo, both bride and groom were highly decorated and had garlands round their necks. He was presented with a framed certificate. I've no idea what it said but a welcome scarf was draped around it.
At one point, the bride’s sister ‘stole’ her shoes which were auctioned off among the guests. I guess the money went to the couple and the shoes were eventually returned. Notice the bangles on the bride.
They were seated side by side on throne-like chairs. at some point, there was ritual washing of the hands and feet. Later the couple sat on the floor in front of their ‘thrones’ and more rituals took place. Garlands were exchanged and those watching clapped after each exchange. At some point, they must have been pronounced man and wife as there was louder cheering and people drifted off.
Somewhere about here, we were taken off to a venue a few hundred yards away where a meal was served. There was a long queue waiting for food and we joined the end of the line. We weren’t there long when someone collected us and moved us to the head of the queue. We apologised for jumping the line but no-one objected. We were met with the same courteous and kind behaviour the whole day.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
@Tampa_girl7 Mostly we only see it at Easter in Catholic churches although I wouldn't know about others.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
1 Feb 20
Wow what a very colorful photo you got there of the couple. That "stealing" of the bride's shoes is cute because it is like raising funds for the couple. Our counterpart for that is the pinning of money on the gown of the bride on their first dance. Again, thank you for sharing.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv gee, even the band has a share of the bounty. You are lucky to have attended such a cultural event. I hope we can also experience that in case we would go there.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@Alexandoy Last night we watched another Hindu ceremony. This one was held at sunset.
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@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv wow you had attended 2 already.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Feb 20
It's all so very colorful.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 20
@JohnRoberts There was red bouncing off the walls at the wedding.
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@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Feb 20
@JudyEv Red is considered a lucky color in Asia.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
1 Feb 20
The money that comes from returning the shoes to groom doesn't go to couple. Brides sisters, cousins and her friends who were part of stealing the shoes share it. It's a fun ritual where sisters and cousins from bride side play tricks to steal shoes while those cousins and friends from groom side are in charge of protecting the shoes.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
10 Feb 20
@arunima25
Yes, and at times, the hard bargain can be fun as well. I saw one case where the groom was not convinced for quite some time, but finally relented!
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Feb 20
I love that photo they have such happy smiles. It sounds like a really interesting wedding. What did they serve?
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@RasmaSandra (98004)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
3 Feb 20
@JudyEv that sounds awesome wow great food spread
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Gosh, now you have me! There was plenty of rice, chicken and lamb dishes, some spicy but some not. Also some yummy fish 'nuggets' but nuggets in shape only. Various vegetable dishes including beetroot which was almost rock hard and lots of condiments including yoghurt and dahl, chutneys and relishes. Cabbage, spinach and cauliflower seemed to be popular too.
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@ptrikha_2 (49753)
• India
10 Feb 20
You surely enjoyed the wedding a lot. Well, normally the girls' sisters and brothers- real and cousins "steal" the shoes of the groom, and demand some amount.
There is bargaining at times as well.
All is later "settled", with lots of fun. Things might be a little different in Nepal than in various states of India, but overall things are quite the same in Hindu weddings.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 20
I'm sure that is what was happening here. They were all enjoying the joke a lot.
@allknowing (153530)
• India
1 Feb 20
That is hospitality which you will find even in India where guests specially from another country get the place they deserve. That is not called jumping the queue.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (17240)
• China
1 Feb 20
It was a really lively and solemn wedding ! You were given polite reception there.
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@JudyEv (382104)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Feb 20
Haha. I'm not sure. The groom has been living in Ohio and has a strong American accent.
























