Emergency Room and personal medical, skip if you like

@GardenGerty (169585)
United States
July 14, 2020 5:06pm CST
I took hubby for a procedure yesterday. He left without a catheter. He could urinate on his own when he left. He also took one strong antibiotic pill--standard practices. It made him sick at his stomach. Ever since his treatment for prostate cancer, hubby has had issues in this area. He has had many many months of being catheterized, and re catheterized. He has a lot of internal scar tissue it seems. As yesterday evening wore on, he drank all the fluids he was supposed to, but gradually became unable to urinate. We were trying to wait to drive to Wichita for "office hours" instead of the ER. At 3 a.m. he could not take it. We went to Wichita. At the ER the very capable nurse was the one on duty. She has helped him before. She was unable to. help him. By then it was 7 a.m. and they had called the urologist to come in. He also had no luck, so took Bob to surgery, so he could be anesthetized. Dr. W. says Bob is on his mind a lot because this is not making sense. He has a plan to act on next month. Bob is up from his nap, eating homemade bread and he looks good. Some pain he has been having since mid February seems to be gone. I sure hope so. I hope it just stays away. So today, besides driving for about three hours total, and sitting for six and a half hours total, and a one hour nap at home and baking bread. I have done nothing. Tomorrow will be a better day.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Jul 20
That is a lot of driving. Always hoping for a better day.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
The hard part is the driving in the dark, and then the city driving. A huge bird, likely a vulture, must have been on the center line cause it flew up and nearly hit the windshield.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
15 Jul 20
@GardenGerty I do not like night driving. Stay safe.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
@CarolDM The highway we take is sort of rural, so there is always the potential for a deer or another animal to be on it. It concerns me in the daytime and then even more if it is dark.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
15 Jul 20
Please, do not say that you did nothing today, you helped your husband tremendously and that is your priority. Don't forget to rest tonight!
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
That nap was delicious. I am looking forward to bed time any time now, really.
@wolfgirl569 (135988)
• Marion, Ohio
15 Jul 20
You did a lot. It was just in the middle of the night. Glad he is feeling and looking better today.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
He is doing so much better right now.
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@wolfgirl569 (135988)
• Marion, Ohio
16 Jul 20
@GardenGerty Hope he continues
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
15 Jul 20
That was a long day. Poor Bob and poor you.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
16 Jul 20
He is feeling much better now.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
16 Jul 20
@GardenGerty I'm so happy to hear it.
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Jul 20
I'm so sorry he's still having trouble and needs the catheter. I hope the plan the doctor has works.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
16 Jul 20
I think it will.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Jul 20
@GardenGerty That's good.
@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 20
Hope tomorrow gonna be much better
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
I tend to believe it will.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
@sophie09 He is feeling much better.
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
@GardenGerty im pretty sure it will
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@snowy22315 (209167)
• United States
15 Jul 20
I hope the doc can figure out the solution so that everyone can feel comfortable, and this is manageable soon.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
It may be more surgery to remove some scar tissue.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
14 Jul 20
You helped your husband get through this day - and that I think is a lot of something. I hope tomorrow will be a better day too.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
I think it will be.
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@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Jul 20
@RasmaSandra (98106)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jul 20
That was a lot for one day but at least you got it all done. I hope you now have a very relaxing evening,
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
My evening was not too bad. Hubby woke up feeling good this morning.
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@sallypup (69227)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Jul 20
I hope better days are ahead for your husband. You must be wiped out.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
I am wiped out. I will feel better in the morning.
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@JudyEv (382542)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Jul 20
You said your day took a turn for the worst and it certainly did that. I hope something can be done for Bob.
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@GardenGerty (169585)
• United States
15 Jul 20
It seems that (maybe, fingers crossed) what was done yesterday had the unintentional effect of fixing the pain that started all of this mid February. He feels better and is moving better than he has in a long time.
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@JudyEv (382542)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Jul 20
@GardenGerty That's good news at least.
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