Am I wrong for taking it personal, what do you think?

@gr8nana6 (6614)
Conyers, Georgia
August 8, 2020 8:54am CST
1.. You come into a room and the person there gets up and leaves to go to their room. 2.. The other person comes out of their room, notices you're up and leaves. 3.. Then sends their mate to bring them food and drink. 4.. The few times they do stay, they ignore you when you try to say something to them. Ok I don't know about you, but I do take this personal. No wonder I am depressed, I can't wait to get the hell out of this toxic environment. I hope everyone has a nice weekend.
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@GreatMartin (23675)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
8 Aug 20
Oh have fun!! Say hello with a big smile on your face whenever you see them!! Ask them something like 'how are you doing?' Drive THEM crazy!!
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@jstory07 (135435)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Be nice to mean people it drives them crazy.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
That's an idea, never thought of that, thanks for that . Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
@GreatMartin I did what you suggested, when they came back from the store I smiled and said "Hi how are you". You should have seen their faces, they looked at me like what the hell. It was priceless, the highlight of my day!
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@LadyDuck (461395)
• Switzerland
8 Aug 20
I would take it personal too. Their way to behave is unacceptable.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
I totally agree Anna, oh well another month and a half or so and I'll be gone. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@LadyDuck (461395)
• Switzerland
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 They surely want to hurt you, it's horrible!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
9 Aug 20
@LadyDuck Oh well not for much longer.
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@Juliaacv (48912)
• Canada
8 Aug 20
I would take that personally also, and I think that it sounds like that is their intention. I hope that moving day comes quickly for you.
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@Juliaacv (48912)
• Canada
8 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 I think that I can kind of relate. My mother and 2 of my 3 brothers are no longer in my life, they said some unforgiveable hurtful things to me. I decided to leave them and their drama out of my life, and I have not regretted that.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
@Juliaacv That's exactly what I am about to do.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Oh heaven knows so do I. I have never felt the way I feel right now and I have been through a lot. I just never thought that one of my kids would treat me that way. Having to take medicine for depression is something completely new for me. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@wolfgirl569 (96990)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Aug 20
I would enjoy the peace and quiet.
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@wolfgirl569 (96990)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Hopefully the move comes soon.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
9 Aug 20
@wolfgirl569 Yes me too.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Yes I would too, but every time one of them does come into the dining room where I'm at they start slamming things around. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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• Philippines
8 Aug 20
I hope you can get out of that kind of environment.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Yes me too, it can't come fast enough. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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• Philippines
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 You, too, Maria.
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@Adie04 (17360)
8 Aug 20
If that happens once or twice, I would still think it is coincidence. But if it happens often, something needs to be addressed.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Happens all the time. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@Adie04 (17360)
9 Aug 20
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@snowy22315 (171738)
• United States
8 Aug 20
It would bother me too. I don't know what your history is with them..can you talk to them about it at all?
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
If I did then it would just get worse, I'll just hope the time goes by fast until I can leave. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@rebelann (111544)
• El Paso, Texas
8 Aug 20
That is downright rude of them. Do you know why they would do this to you? Not that I need an answer, but you know how curious we all get here. I hope you can leave very soon.
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@rebelann (111544)
• El Paso, Texas
8 Aug 20
Just think @gr8nana6 they'll have to mooch from each other now, I hope you get out of there very soon.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
I'm sure they are p'off because I am going to leave and the gravy train is going to stop. Plus I have stopped buying all the toiletries and extra food etc. I used to put in over $500 every month but that stopped now. I am tired of being broke every month. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
@rebelann Yes by the end of September thank god. They'll be in a heap of trouble, because I been paying the cable bill all myself and all the other money they'll have to come up with on their own. I say good luck to them, cause I know they won't make it.
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@jstory07 (135435)
• Roseburg, Oregon
8 Aug 20
You should take it personality. I hope you can leave soon.
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@jstory07 (135435)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 I hope you are able to get a nice place of your own.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
9 Aug 20
@jstory07 No I am moving down there with my other daughter, to help her with her hubby (who is still recovering from his stroke in December) so she can get back to work. I am glad because I do get along with them and they have always treated me right.
@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Thanks, yes at the end of September. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@moffittjc (118913)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Aug 20
Kill them with kindness, as they often say. Be super cheery around them, greet them, ask them about their day and how they're doing. And then sit back and watch what happens (and do it with a grin on your face).
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
12 Aug 20
@moffittjc I won't, I have decided to let it in one Ear and out the other. I only have 45 days and I'll be gone.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
12 Aug 20
Great advice, Thank you so much for visiting.
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@moffittjc (118913)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Don't let those other people ruin your happiness!
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@just4him (309595)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Aug 20
Yes, I would take it personally. I'm glad you're moving. When will it happen?
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Thanks towards the end of September, not soon enough for me. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@just4him (309595)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 I know you'll breathe a sigh of relief to put it all behind you. You're welcome.
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@JudyEv (327605)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Aug 20
I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It is very degrading. I hope you are able to move soon. Have I got this right? You're moving soon?
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
19 Aug 20
@JudyEv Yes I am, it just got even worse last night. I was called every imaginable name, not to my face but he was ranting to my daughter very loudly so I could hear.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
17 Aug 20
Thank you, 40 more days
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@JudyEv (327605)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Sounds like you are really counting.
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@nela13 (55819)
• Portugal
8 Aug 20
Why would they do that? I would take it personaly, their behave is so rude.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
Yes it is, I agree. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
9 Aug 20
@nela13 I already have a solution, but it won't happen until the end of September. It is their house, if it were mine they'd be long gone.
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@nela13 (55819)
• Portugal
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 You're welcome and I hope you find a good solution. Is it your house or their house?
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@LindaOHio (159659)
• United States
8 Aug 20
I would come right out and ask them what their problem is. Or ignore it altogether.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
8 Aug 20
I am trying to ignore them both as much as I can. Thank you for stopping by and reading, have a wonderful weekend!
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@LindaOHio (159659)
• United States
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 You too!
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@RebeccasFarm (87022)
• United States
16 Aug 20
I pray you would escape. Yes I know what you are speaking of.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
17 Aug 20
Thank you, I am leaving the end of next month.
@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
9 Aug 20
I would definitely take it personally. I love GreatMartin's comment. Kill them with kindness.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
12 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Oh, I bet it was priceless. I would have loved to see their faces.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
11 Aug 20
Yup it did, their expression was priceless. Thank you for reading, have a good one.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49351)
• United States
21 Aug 20
You have a right to take it personal. That is very childish behavior.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
22 Aug 20
Childish behavior for a 54 year old for sure. Some folks just never grow up, do they?
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
17 Aug 20
I missed this due to being away during the hurricane. That doesn't sound like the ideal living situation. I would take it personally, too, and pray I get out as soon as possible. I'm so sorry you have to live like that.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
17 Aug 20
@DianneN That's ok it doesn't bother me much anymore, I let it go in one ear and out the other. Them little white pills the doctor gave me give me a go to hell attitude I am leaving in about 40 days and I won't have to worry about it at all anymore. Thank you for reading and have a great day.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
17 Aug 20
@DianneN Yup looking forward to it.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
17 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 Those little white pills sound wonderful! You can last for 40 more days. Just think how good life will be for you then.
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@Hannihar (129873)
• Israel
9 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 I can understand why you would take that personal. I probably would to. Do you have any idea why they do not want to talk to you?
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
17 Aug 20
They are mad because I am leaving
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@Hannihar (129873)
• Israel
18 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 I am sorry.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 20
Looks like GreatMartin gave you excellent advice.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
11 Aug 20
Yes he did, you should have seen their faces priceless..Thank you for reading have a good one.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
11 Aug 20
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Aug 20
@gr8nana6 That is great to hear. Keep it up!
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