Self-confidence! What is that?

@Nevena83 (65287)
Serbia
November 8, 2020 11:21am CST
Good day friends Today is another lazy day for me, but I decided to clear the notifications here, but I'm fighting a real fight, because I'm deleting the ones that are coming, and that's good, just keep it up. It's 6pm now, and I haven't done the training yet and I'm angry about it, but I'm not going to go to bed until I do the training. I promise. I wish I was more persistent in life. I think I always lacked self-confidence. Do you have self-confidence and are you persistent in life?
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@CarolDM (203478)
• Nashville, Tennessee
8 Nov 20
I have learned to have self-confidece in my life over the years.
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@CarolDM (203478)
• Nashville, Tennessee
8 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Yes that is what we all have to do.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
@CarolDM I don't think I'll ever be able to learn that. When I was younger, I may have had self-confidence, but over time it got weaker. Whenever I wanted to do something, my mother always told me that I couldn't do it, that it wasn't for me ... When they were last year, I realized that I had become insecure, scared ...
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
Do you believe that self-confidence can be learned?
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@Hannihar (128912)
• Israel
8 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Right I am trying to find out who I am and what I want to do. I have had set backs and not sure of anything right now.
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@Hannihar (128912)
• Israel
8 Nov 20
@Nevena83 So so true.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
@Hannihar I think we need someone who will be with us and help us understand that we are still worth it.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
I know how you feel. It’s hard to regain confidence when we lose it.
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@LadyDuck (451980)
• Switzerland
9 Nov 20
NO, I do not have self-confidence, not at all and I often I am not persistent. I try to stick on a schedule, at least I do what has to be done.
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@LadyDuck (451980)
• Switzerland
10 Nov 20
@Nevena83 I am not, I force myself, but I am not very good in self confidence.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
Really? You seem to me like a person who is very confident in himself.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
10 Nov 20
@LadyDuck Do you think that people are simply born or not with self-confidence?
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@Shivram59 (30974)
• India
11 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Self confidence means believing in yourself,believing that you can.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
11 Nov 20
Yes, you are right. But sometimes it’s hard to be confident.
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@Shivram59 (30974)
• India
11 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Exactly.It is difficult,but not impossible.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
11 Nov 20
@Shivram59 I believe that self-confidence can be exercised.
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@JimBo452020 (42639)
• United Kingdom
9 Nov 20
No I totally lack self confidence.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
Really? I'm surprised because I thought you had a lot of confidence.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
@JimBo452020 I don't know, you seem very confident to me as we talk.
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@JimBo452020 (42639)
• United Kingdom
9 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Not me. What gave you that idea?
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12 Nov 20
I'm introvert
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
@GodServantme Oh, and I think a lot and I think that’s my biggest problem.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
Have you always been closed in on yourself?
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12 Nov 20
@Nevena83 yes introvert. Hate going outside and I think a lot
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@RebeccasFarm (82149)
• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
10 Nov 20
Yes for me it is hard to be persistent anymore. Good luck. Yes I mostly have some confidence.
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• Wheat Ridge, Colorado
10 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Not really no. Now I am older I am more confident
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
10 Nov 20
@RebeccasFarm That's good.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
10 Nov 20
Did you have more self-confidence when you were younger?
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@SHOHANA (16096)
• Bangladesh
9 Nov 20
I'm not sure about my self confidence, sometimes I'm confident and sometimes I'm not
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
Does it depend on the situation?
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@SHOHANA (16096)
• Bangladesh
9 Nov 20
@Nevena83 yes because we are not expert in all sectors. Sometimes people of our surrounding makes us uncomfortable and we may lost confidence
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
@SHOHANA Yes, I agree with you.
@moffittjc (117789)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Nov 20
I have both confidence and persistence in my life. When I was younger, I lacked self-confidence, but sometime over the years I learned to have a lot of confidence in myself.
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@moffittjc (117789)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Yes, but it takes practice.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
That's really wonderful. Can it be learned over the years?
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
@moffittjc I believe it is difficult.
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
8 Nov 20
I stick to a schedule, so it helps me with lots of things. My confidence level fluctuates. It's normal for that to happen.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
Based on talking to you, I always felt you had a lot of confidence. Has it always been that way or have you been building it for years?
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@DianneN (246452)
• United States
8 Nov 20
@Nevena83 I have a low self-esteem problem. Always have had it. I think that interferes with my self confidence, but I am getting better with building the confidence just living life.
@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
@DianneN I hope that someday I will regain my self-confidence.
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@JudyEv (322049)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Nov 20
It's hard to say if I'm persistent or not. I certainly don't have a lot of confidence.
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@JudyEv (322049)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Nov 20
@Nevena83 It's hard to say but probably I have.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
Have you ever had more self-confidence than now?
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@Raj7779 (3656)
• Canada
8 Nov 20
Before i was not very self-confident and persistent but after that I started reading some self help books and youtube videos.it helped me a lot in building my self-confidence. I think you should try it.best wishes
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@Raj7779 (3656)
• Canada
8 Nov 20
@Nevena83 noo try to implement those tips in your life.if one tip doesn't work then try another keep doing this.following are the books which might helps you. 1)Atomic habits 2)one thing
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
That helped you? Really? A few years ago I tried to read some books and it affects my thinking, but only until the moment I read, but the moment I close the book, I feel like it has nothing to do with real life.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
@Raj7779 Probably my insecurity is holding me back, but you're right, I need persistence. The problem is that I feel like I'm in a cage, like I'm trapped.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
29 Nov 20
I am still learning to be persistent in life. My self confidence is higher as time pasts.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
1 Dec 20
@Nevena83 I understand you because my confidence was lower before. Since i started to work on job my confidence is higher.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
1 Dec 20
@Moon24 Does that have anything to do with money?
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
30 Nov 20
Oh, I envy you. My confidence is zero.
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16 Nov 20
I'm. Shy to stand. Talk. Infront of lots of people
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
16 Nov 20
I am also very shy and I am always nervous.
@prinzcy (32326)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 20
I think I am just stubborn. At times I can be easily influenced, most of the time I'll just stick to whatever I want to to the end.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
I used to be very stubborn, but I don’t think I am anymore.
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@jaboUK (64363)
• United Kingdom
8 Nov 20
i am self-confident bjut don't always persist with things.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
8 Nov 20
I envy you for your confidence. I became very insecure.
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• United States
9 Nov 20
I didn't have as much self-confidence when I was younger as I do know. I think the older you get the more confidence you get.
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@Nevena83 (65287)
• Serbia
9 Nov 20
I hope that happens to me too. When I was younger I had more self-confidence, but over time people and situations made me lose it.