Fear of the past

@Nevena83 (65280)
Serbia
November 23, 2020 3:30pm CST
Good evening friends It's 10:25 pm and I'm feeling sleepy, I think I'll go to bed soon. I didn’t have a lot of commitments today, so I did the training. I'm watching a movie, and it's not interesting, but I think I'll wait for the end. The mother leaves the child to the father, and he takes care of her until she is 7, when the mother appears and wants to take his daughter away. I am angry when I watch such a movie, because I can't imagine it happening to my son, leaving me and going to my father. Are there any things from the past that scare you?
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Jeff Moffitt
@moffittjc (118546)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Nov 20
The only thing that scares me is when I look in the mirror and see my reflection! lol
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
24 Nov 20
@moffittjc Don't tell me!
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Marlina
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
24 Nov 20
Same here
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
You must be kidding.
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Ken
@kanuck1 (4394)
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24 Nov 20
I know someone whose wife did exactly that!
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Ken
@kanuck1 (4394)
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25 Nov 20
@Nevena83 It was hard for the man but he was a sensible man and he adjusted. The happiness of his children was very important to him.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
25 Nov 20
@kanuck1 I would die.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Oh, that's awful. What happened?
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
24 Nov 20
I try not to think to the past, better to forget and move on. I think that your son is old enough now, you should not worry.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
24 Nov 20
@Nevena83 I hope his father will not come around.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
@LadyDuck A few days ago, he stopped the car several times, letting his daughter ask if Philip was there. But he was not there. I am furious that someone is waiting for a child to become an adult to start approaching him.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
The past always bothers me. I'm not sure I'd put up with his father starting to approach him.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (307029)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Nov 20
I'm sure that kind of movie would be scary to think about. I can't think of any right now.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (307029)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Thank you. I'm working on it.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Yes, that movie really worried me and made me angry. I know, now all that matters is that you fully recover.
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Miss S
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
1 Dec 20
I am glad to see you. I am not so active here.
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Miss S
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
1 Dec 20
@Nevena83 I think i will not be much active here.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
1 Dec 20
Will you be more active?
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
23 Nov 20
Seeing my son die is the one event I think of.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Oh, I believe it's the hardest moment of your life.
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Nov 20
@Nevena83 Absolutely
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
@CarolDM I don't know the details, so please don't blame me for the question, but was his father present in his life?
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (134546)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Nov 20
I do not think of the bad things in my past. I live for today and care about what is happening now in my life.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
I wish I could not think about the past too.
MARILYN
@Marilynda1225 (79963)
• United States
23 Nov 20
I try to leave the past in the past but sometimes something will trigger a memory and bring back those feelings
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
My grandmother used to say that you should never look back (to the past), but I never succeeded in that. I think I've always lived in the past.
DianneN
@DianneN (247191)
• United States
28 Nov 20
Sounds like an interesting movie.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
30 Nov 20
Yes, the film was really interesting, but I always avoided such films.
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Jessica
@JESSY3236 (18953)
• United States
8 Dec 20
Yes there are some things, but I have learned to move on.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
10 Dec 20
Oh, sometimes it's very hard, isn't it?
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Nov 20
Movies can sometimes trigger old memories.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Yes, that happens to me often, so over time I learned to avoid such movies, but I started watching this movie by accident and I was interested in what would happen, but I felt bad.
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A R
@rz3300 (357)
• United States
23 Nov 20
Movies have the same effect on me...I should just get into the story but cannot help but relating it to my own life.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Oh yes. Movies always affect me emotionally. I avoid watching emotional movies because of it.
sophie a
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 20
yes i do have fear from past but i try to face it if it ever come back again
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 20
Does that mean you had a difficult past?
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sophie a
@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
25 Nov 20
@Nevena83 nope not really
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