Why I will not donate anymore

@mrki444 (15150)
Croatia (Hrvatska)
January 12, 2021 5:40am CST
In Croatia we had several earthquakes and many people needed help. People from rest of country and from world collect help in food, clothes, money. Donations were transfered into affected area and we are very grateful for it. Especially for help from other countries. But there is bad side of it. Many people try use this help even they don't need it. Here is example. I saw and I ad for Audi 2010 car. That car is premium model in Croatia. Not cheap, expensive for maintaince. But in comments for car, people recognize a couple, who was on TV begging for help and people brought them everything including money. That couple was asking about price and equipment of car. So they lost everything and three weeks later they can buy premium model of car? Now people attact them to return back part of help. If they were bid for some cheap model it would be ok but buy very expensive model is just not right.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
12 Jan 21
There will always be black sheep. But that should not mean that people should not help others in need.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
12 Jan 21
@mrki444 This also happened in Germany many years ago. It was a big scandal. Maybe it's best to help on a low local level and not a big organisation. For example, send things to the priest of a village who can distribute things. Something like that.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
@MALUSE People went by them self into affected area and personally give food but some take it even they have money for expensive cars and secong house in another town.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
This is not first time in my country. Even Red Cross organization is to dirty.
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@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
I get it. A lot of people like that. It's sad. But for me if I want to do donation, I just do it. If people lie about their needs, it will be their business with God. People like that will get Karma.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 21
I can't wait on God.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee I am not worried because of money than of purpose it was used. If it is used in good purpose I would not say anything.
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@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
@mrki444 that's okay. Everyone have their own choice. If we keep worrying about money that we donated, it's better to not donate at all.
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@Shavkat (137300)
• Philippines
12 Jan 21
Some people are becoming so greedy.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
Like always but I am enough of it.
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@Shavkat (137300)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
12 Jan 21
Greed is a bottomless pit
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@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
12 Jan 21
@mrki444 some people just abuse other’s kindness but I believe in karma
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
To bad we can't see it at first.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
@sol_cee If they bought that Audi, I hope it is worst Audi ever.
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@Janet357 (75656)
12 Jan 21
What? They still manage to own this car in the midst of crisis?
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
They want buy it so they have money for it. But on TV they beg for food.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
12 Jan 21
Many people have used someone else's help in such situations and it is sad.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
There should be some law to take everything back from them.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
13 Jan 21
@mrki444 I don't think that will ever happen.
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 21
There's always people who try to take advantage of others I hope you can find people who really need your help.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
Many people use situations like this.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
12 Jan 21
Some people know how to cheat. A pity. We still help others in need, but make sure our donations don’t go into the CEO’s pocket.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
12 Jan 21
@mrki444 Such a shame that it happens.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
This was even personal donation to person in 'problems'. Nobody was between and still good people were scammed.
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
12 Jan 21
I remember a family here who used their young son to get donations and help. Turned out the son recovered nicely long before they stopped begging for help. They wound up with a new mobile home and two new vehicles. They also got into a lot of trouble.
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@Namelesss (3368)
• United States
12 Jan 21
@mrki444 I am not sure exactly how/what happened. But in the end they will spend a long long time paying back a lot of money.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
@Namelesss At least something. In my country this couple will not probably return nothing.
@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
12 Jan 21
Did they finish on court and turn back some money?
@Deepizzaguy (95483)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
12 Jan 21
There are many horror stories of so called charities around the world that have been called out for stealing the donations from donors.
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@Deepizzaguy (95483)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
13 Jan 21
@mrki444 There are horror stories in America of thieves in the American Red Cross among other charities that not all of the money goes to the needy.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 21
@Deepizzaguy I read especially situation is in Africa and in country where war is active.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
13 Jan 21
In Croatia we have such organizations and people.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
29 Jan 21
Sometimes people indeed abuse and take advantage of the generosity of others.
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@dgobucks226 (34520)
28 Jan 21
Some will always try to take advantage of someone's kindness and good heartedness. Scammers have made a living preying on the elderly and other's who want to donate to a good cause.
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@ellie925 (46)
20 Jan 21
It's always a pity when individuals like that ruin other people's will to help those who need it.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Jan 21
And most they end up with money and never get it back.
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@rebelann (111468)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Jan 21
I agree with you. A person should not take donations if they are not in dire need.
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