So he talked to me / myLot

@carebear29 (31961)

Wausau, Wisconsin

January 14, 2021 6:00pm CST

So my boyfriend of 4 months today told me that after his court case that he will more in likely be moving away and leaving me. He wants away from this city and state and my son's dad won't let me take our child anywhere. I'm happy he told what's going to be happening but said he's not breaking up with me until then because he may or may not change his mind when the court case is done. I do have a plan B but at least he told me what's going on. I understand him and his reasons. It is what it is....we are happy together though so we'll see what happens

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LindaOH

@LindaOHio (156114)

• United States

15 Jan 21

I hope it all works out for you.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

me too thanks

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (57858)

• Centralia, Washington

15 Jan 21

I hope it works out for everyone, including for your son.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

me too thank you

Heather Echola

@GardenGerty (157551)

• United States

15 Jan 21

I am glad he was upfront about it.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

yes he is

Amber

@AmbiePam (85484)

• United States

15 Jan 21

I'm sorry to hear he has legal trouble.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

its only minor stuff

Tina Dalasinski

@Tina30219 (81540)

• Onaway, Michigan

15 Jan 21

Sorry to hear this but like you said you are happy together. I hope your plan B is good and it works out for you.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

thanks me too

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rakski

@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

2 Feb 21

at least now it is all out in the open, no sugar coating. I hope you all well

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

2 Feb 21

hes always open but he always says different things. he has behavioral autism

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

3 Feb 21

@rakski me too thanks

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rakski

@rakski (112925)

• Philippines

3 Feb 21

@carebear29 You mentioned it before. I hope it all works out for the two of you

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Notlilie

@prinzcy (32322)

• Malaysia

16 Jan 21

Always have plan B. It will help you when the first one fail.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

yuppers

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Jabo

@jaboUK (64361)

• United Kingdom

19 Jan 21

That's a sad situation for you. Can your son's dad prevent you from leaving?

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

yuppers

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Jabo

@jaboUK (64361)

• United Kingdom

19 Jan 21

@carebear29

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Jim Bauer

@porwest (78761)

• United States

19 Jan 21

It seems beyond me that a man would choose a life over something like this. Honestly, if this is the basis for his decision, I don't think he is worth keeping around. I know it seems mean and harsh, but it's a reality I think. He obviously does not love you, because if he did, this would not even be a choice. So, really, you are just playing house and nothing more. There isn't much more to it than that.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

he dont wanna leave yet because he dont want to put me in a financial bind until im stable...understandable though.

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UpbeatRae

@carebear29 (31961)

• Wausau, Wisconsin

19 Jan 21

@porwest right and i know and thank you.