We have a couple of big holes in our hearts

@GardenGerty (157552)
United States
April 4, 2021 5:43pm CST
I have not shared, but cannot really keep it in. Last Monday night Mickey was hit by a car and killed. From the looks of things, it was deliberate. Someone I know, who told me about seeing a dead cat just out of sight from my front door said he was driving past at 6 p.m. and saw the body. It was not even dark at that time, and there is not that much traffic here. It looks like someone drove up in the yard next door to do it. If that is not bad enough, Tinker is gone. Just gone. He moped around, looking for Mickey. We kept him inside and would not let him out. He was annoyed with us. He got out about two days later and did not come back. Mickey was Bob's favorite. Tinker was a fun big old boy. I still have hopes he just got mad and took up with someone else, or got confused and does not know how to find his way back. We have called for him and left food out for him. I have heard that if you lose a cat you need to put their litter tray outdoors and they will follow the scent home. We will try that I guess. Trouble is, he mostly did his business outdoors. If I put the scoopings from the litter tray out, it will smell like the other kitties. Someone just a few blocks from here posted his family pet cat has gone missing as well. I was not going to put this in a post just yet, but it is all that is on my mind. Bob has buried Mickey back where we have buried Princess. I am getting too old to keep losing pets.
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@RasmaSandra (73408)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr 21
I am so sorry to hear this, I pray for animals too so I will put Tinker in my prayers and hope he comes back home,
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
I appreciate that my friend.
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@Juliaacv (48415)
• Canada
4 Apr 21
I'm so sorry, that is terrible. Things like this seem to go in streaks. I remember my parents had a pup, right after they got the dog spayed she went missing. Shortly after that they read where a local college was picking up dogs to experiment on.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
That is awful.
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@AmbiePam (85469)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Oh my. I am so so sorry, Heather. That is heartbreaking.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Tink could still come back.
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@marguicha (215389)
• Chile
4 Apr 21
I´m so sorry! I hope Tinker comes back
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
We hope so too.
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@marguicha (215389)
• Chile
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty It is not easy to lose a pet.
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty I am so so sorry and my heart goes out to you both. That is also terrible that Tinker is gone too. I wonder is someone is taking the cats. I know how you feel about losing pets. It is so sad that there are terrible people out there that hurt animals but there are. I was out this morning and this cat was out and he looked like something could be work with that he was walking slow. This guy said something and I said he is not bothering you and this female looked at me. There are those that care about animals outside of the zoo and those that only go to the zoo and see the animals in a cage and feel safe but outside of the zoo they know nothing about animals. That is how it is where I live right now.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
My impression is that this community in general dislikes cats but there are lots of strays. It is said that people who are cruel to animals will also be cruel to people.
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@Hannihar (129430)
• Israel
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty That could be very well true. I am an animal lover. I had a dog and cat and now I have a cat so i really like both dogs and cats.
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
5 Apr 21
I am so sorry! I know they were special to you.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
I am a softy for cats and I hate to think someone deliberately hit Mick.
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@BarBaraPrz (45484)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Apr 21
So sad. Maybe Tinker is out looking for Mickey. Hope he comes back soon.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
I wonder if he is. I also think he knew something happened as he came and got in my face in my sleep the night we were missing Mickey.
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@kaylachan (57631)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
4 Apr 21
I am so sorry for your losses and hope the best for Tinker's safe return. Baring that, pray someone decided to take him in.
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@jstory07 (134433)
• Roseburg, Oregon
5 Apr 21
I hope he comes home. Sorry for your loss.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Thank you, we are keeping our eyes out.
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Apr 21
So sorry. Hope Tinker shows back up soon. He could still be looking for his friend.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
@wolfgirl569 I think Tink is annoyed at the new ones, and then got upset when he could not find Mickey. We had Tink neutered last year.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Or someone could have adopted him. I know cats will sometimes go house to house getting extra love and attention.
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@wolfgirl569 (95136)
• Marion, Ohio
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty I had one that moved to the neighbors house after I got him fixed But now he is back here most of the time.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
4 Apr 21
I am sorry to know this.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Thank you.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Apr 21
@sallypup (57849)
• Centralia, Washington
5 Apr 21
This is horrifying. This loss is so hard to bear. I walked up to my dear Leah with my hubby this afternoon. We needed to say Easter greetings even though its just her shell laid to rest. Hugs from us. This deeply hurts and I am sorry.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
I have a flower bed for Princess and now Mick.
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@noni1959 (9886)
• United States
5 Apr 21
My heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry and hope you find Tinker. Did you post a lost cast photo on FB?
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Yes, I did. I am of course getting lectured that I should never let my cats outside because it is too dangerous.
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@noni1959 (9886)
• United States
6 Apr 21
@GardenGerty You don't need the lecture. I'm praying your baby is found soon.
@Deepizzaguy (94498)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
4 Apr 21
I share your pain since it feels bad losing your pet. It is painful.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
And worse to lose two.
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@Deepizzaguy (94498)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty I understand how you feel.
@rebelann (111163)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Apr 21
My condolences for your loss but I pray Tinker will come back. Karma will get the jerk that's killing kitties, I hope it's as bad as what he did.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Yeah. Some people really dislike cats.
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@rebelann (111163)
• El Paso, Texas
5 Apr 21
I have no problem with people not liking either cats or dogs but there's no excuse for killing Gods creatures for that reason. Ummmm, well, I would kill ticks cuz I really don't like them but to me that's ok, they are dangerous to the health and wellbeing of most animals.
• United States
4 Apr 21
I am so sorry. There's a hole in our hearts where our pets live. Tinker may smell the other cats and recognize them. Let us hope this brings him home.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
I hope so. I do have him posted on FB.
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• United States
5 Apr 21
@GardenGerty Can you call the Humane Society and Local Vets to have them put a picture of him up? That might help with the search.
@Fleura (29127)
• United Kingdom
5 Apr 21
How horrible - especially if someone did do it on purpose! I really hope it was an accident. And I hope Tinker turns up again soon, maybe he just needs a bit of time out too.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
We are doing what we can so that Tinker can find his way home.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
6 Apr 21
Did, Tinker come back...I hope so. Sorry to hear about Mickey, Saint Gertrude, patron saint of cats, please protect Tinker and keep him safe and fed & bring him home, and care for Mickey in heaven, thank you, amen.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
9 Apr 21
Tinker was hiding out in my shed. I checked there at least three times and he did not answer. I was putting stuff away in it and he called out to me.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
10 Apr 21
@oahuwriter Yes, we are glad to have him back.
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@oahuwriter (26780)
• United States
10 Apr 21
@GardenGerty What a relief! He must be missing Mickey?
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 Apr 21
Oh my goodness Heather. So very sorry. So hard to get through these losses. I do hope Tinker returns soon.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 21
Why would they do that to Mickey? Were they annoyed at him? I hope Tinker returns. Maybe you can post his pictures on Facebook or print and post them on your street?
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
5 Apr 21
Some people absolutely hate cats or just do not care about any creature.I have a post up on the local FB page.
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