Elderly Couple Used Morse Code to Escape Facility

@CarolDM (203451)
Nashville, Tennessee
May 2, 2021 1:18pm CST
I was amazed to read this local Tennessee story about an elderly couple who used morse code to escape their assisted living facility. The husband learned morse code in the military. He would listen to the staff punch in the numbers for the electric door locks. And figured out the combination. They were only gone about 30 minutes before someone recognized them. And they were returned to the facility. Kind of sad but amazing to know the man was still able to use his morse code to figure out the lock.
The couple succeeded in unlocking a door using a keypad and wandering away, in what a report on the incident branded an "elopement."
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@rebelann (111322)
• El Paso, Texas
2 May 21
Now I am wondering if assisted living is just a way of saying imprisoned due to age.
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@rebelann (111322)
• El Paso, Texas
2 May 21
I thought assisted living was for those of an age that might need a little help but were otherwise capable of functioning on their own. Anyone with diagnosed dementia and especially Alzheimer's should be in a nursing facility.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Well, they both have dementia and Alzheimer's, so maybe they didn't know where they were. I was impressed at his morse code ability.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
@rebelann It depends. There are patients there on different levels. My neighbors are both in an assisted living facility with dementia. It also depends on how much money you have. These types are very expensive. The facility was fined for not keeping a closer watch.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
2 May 21
The knowledge he gained proved rewarding.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
2 May 21
@CarolDM thank you for sharing the link to the article
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Yes it did.
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@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
2 May 21
I`m just wondering why they are trying to escape They are not happy there?
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
They have dementia and probably do not know where they are, sadly.
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• Germany
2 May 21
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• United States
2 May 21
That is simply precious. It also shows that that part of his brain is still very active. I hope they will allow him AND his wife more walks. How sweet was it that he took his wife along too?
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• United States
2 May 21
@CarolDM Yes, very impressive. I hope it also makes the family realize they need to try to reach out more. I know the pandemic has made visiting difficult or different, but it's no reason not to reach out more.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
@ScribbledAdNauseum I agree. Missing my family.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
I know. I was in no way making fun, since they both have dementia, but was impressed at his skills. Touched my heart.
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@sallypup (58211)
• Centralia, Washington
2 May 21
Wow. Those two should live some where else.
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@sallypup (58211)
• Centralia, Washington
2 May 21
@CarolDM Dementia is an odd hot mess. It can come and go in waves.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
@sallypup I know all too well unfortunately.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Well, they both have dementia, so who really knows what they were thinking. Maybe they just wanted a walk.
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• India
2 May 21
But nobody tried to know why he wanted to escape in the first place. That's sad.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
They have medical issues, I was only pointing out the part about the morse code ability he still had even in his condition.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
@Prabhatsingh With these mental issues, we do not know what is going on in their minds. Maybe he just wanted to go for a walk.
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• India
2 May 21
@CarolDM No no that's actually great how he could still remember his training. But I just wanted to know why he would have to take such a step.
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@snowy22315 (170798)
• United States
2 May 21
My friend who has dementia broke a window in his facility in an attempt to escape. It seems like the couple in question might not need an Assisted Living Faciity all that much.
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@snowy22315 (170798)
• United States
2 May 21
@CarolDM I guess they got that done!
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
I have no idea about their details or medical condition. The report only mentioned dementia. Maybe they just wanted to go for a walk.
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@RebeccasFarm (86905)
• United States
2 May 21
I saw that..what a bond they had..amazing story!!
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• United States
2 May 21
@CarolDM Yes so precious and they were so brave.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Not far from here. So special.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
2 May 21
He is brilliant to still remember the method and was able to apply it.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
2 May 21
@CarolDM same here.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
I was very impressed at his skills.
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@jstory07 (134755)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 May 21
Most are locked inside for their safety but they do need to go outside once in awhile. Where my mother in law was. The women in her room went outside and fell and broke her arm. She also caught the end table on fire. One lady called her friend all the time and went out the door and left with her friend for a couple of hours.
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@jstory07 (134755)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 May 21
@CarolDM Some are like any place. You have some that are good and some that are bad.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
That is sad to fall and break your arm. Many of these places have areas you can walk.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
@jstory07 Very true.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
2 May 21
Interesting that he still remember the "Morse Code"
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
That is what got my attention to share this story. Amazing actually.
@Ronrybs (17925)
• London, England
2 May 21
No keeping people down!
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Glad they were found safely.
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@Chellezhere (5363)
• United States
2 May 21
I read this article about an hour ago and shared it with a few of my friends and relatives. It truly is amazing what his mind is still able to remember.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Yes I was amazed for sure. Glad they are both safe.
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• United States
2 May 21
@CarolDM, I am glad they are safe as well.
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@Belexhanns (3431)
• Kampala, Uganda
2 May 21
Its wonderful,the skill he learnt helped him
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
Very impressed.
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• Kampala, Uganda
2 May 21
@CarolDM that's it
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@wolfgirl569 (96024)
• Marion, Ohio
3 May 21
At least they had a little freedom.
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@wolfgirl569 (96024)
• Marion, Ohio
4 May 21
@CarolDM They can be very sneaky about getting out. The last one I worked at had bracelets on the dementia patients that would set off an alarm if they went out a door. Even in wheel chairs they will get a door open.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 May 21
Yes they did, 30 minutes.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 May 21
@wolfgirl569 They are suppose to get more strict now as they were fined.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
3 May 21
good thing they were seen and found by the stranger
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
4 May 21
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 May 21
I agree.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
2 May 21
What a lovely story & thank God they came to no Harm. It must have been terribly worrying for the staff & families when they got out.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
They were only gone 30 minutes thankfully. And found safely together.
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
3 May 21
@CarolDM I would say good for them for escaping but bad that someone recognized them and they had to go back. Now, I understand more that maybe it was good that someone found them and returned them. Good thing it was someone that did not harm them. If he knows morse code couldn't he figure out the new codes and they could escape again?
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
4 May 21
@CarolDM I understand with those two things yes it is safer for them to be there than out wandering around and not knowing things. I wonder if they have trouble remembering each other. I hope they will watch them closer to make sure that they are inside and not outside and hope they are safe inside.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
4 May 21
@Hannihar I have no idea the details.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 May 21
It was for their own safety to go back with he dementia issues. He could try it again. They will watch them closer.
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@nela13 (55761)
• Portugal
2 May 21
Wow, it's amazing his capacity to use the Morse code. Great story.
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@nela13 (55761)
• Portugal
2 May 21
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 21
I was so amazed. Glad they are safe.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
3 May 21
Good to know. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day. Take care
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
4 May 21
@CarolDM your welcome dear
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 May 21
Thank you!
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