I Reminded Her of Someone

@CarolDM (203396)

Nashville, Tennessee

May 17, 2021 6:22pm CST

Has been a cloudy day today. Snapped these clouds earlier. Looks like rain, but so far nothing. Just clouds. A few errands got done today. While I was out, I passed by a lady who said I reminded her of her late daughter. A very interesting statement that got my attention I walked back to her and told her thank you. She seemed a little surprised at my response. I told her what better compliment to hear from a Mom. Her eyes teared up and she thanked me over and over. I told her it was an honor to hear this from a grieving Mom. And shared I was also a grieving Mom. I told her how amazing it would be if I saw someone that reminded me of my son. She just patted my shoulder and walked away. I hope I helped her in some small way. And I remember maybe twice, seeing someone who did remind me of Dustin. Your heart kind of skips a beat, in a good way for a split second. So I kind of knew how this lady felt. Life is full of those little things in life. Pay attention so you don't miss them.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

18 May 21

So touching for the both of you. Today is the anniversary of my mother’s passing, and at times I have found women who look like her or wear their hair the same way, or have her mannerisms. It’s heartwarming.

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@DianneN (254926)

• United States

19 May 21

@CarolDM I’m sure it was. Yes, I do, always. Sorry for the late reply. Spending so much time outdoors that I am way behind.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

19 May 21

@DianneN Same here.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Yes it was a very emotional few minutes. Remember the good times with your mother.

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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)

• United States

18 May 21

Life needs more moments like these. Where two souls can connect, if only for a brief moment. I am sure you made an impact on her day.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I so agree with you. And most wold have just kept walking. Something about her voice got my attention. I could relate to her instantly.

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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104615)

• United States

18 May 21

@CarolDM Sometimes we just know. I always pay attention when I get those little feelings.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

@ScribbledAdNauseum They don't come along often in life.

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@kaylachan (84815)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

18 May 21

That really is a very touching story. Thanks for sharing that with us.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I had to share. The little things are often missed and they are usually the big things. You are so welcome.

@toniganzon (77183)

• Philippines

18 May 21

I love the last statement to pay attention so we don’t miss it. I would be honored if someone would tell me i remind them of their daughter too I have not seen anybody that reminded me of my parents. I may have a good relationship with my mother in law but i could never see my mom in her at all. You did well Carol.

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@toniganzon (77183)

• Philippines

20 May 21

@CarolDM I believe that too. Sorry I’m not on here often these days. I hardly touch my ipad for being on Mylot. I’m using it more just as a planner these days. And I’m being lazy again. Well only in coming here.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Hi Toni, So happy to see you. This was a very emotional experience, in a good way. Strangers are often angels in disguise.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

20 May 21

@toniganzon No problem, i understand life takes us away. Enjoy life and the moments.

@RasmaSandra (98033)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

18 May 21

I know where you are coming from and I am glad you spoke to and comforted this woman. I have seen only once someone who reminded me of my soul mate Martin and that experience just left me breathless until I pulled myself together,

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I felt it was the only thing to do. I was drawn to her and would have liked to have had a longer conversation. It does take your breath away.

Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (69181)

• Centralia, Washington

18 May 21

That was precious of you to pay attention to that lady. More than once I've seen a man walking down the street and I think its my brother. Of course its not.

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Lenore Plassman

@sallypup (69181)

• Centralia, Washington

18 May 21

@CarolDM Yes there has been a time or two that I'll see a white haired lady in the grocery store and I'll want to go hug her. She reminds me of my Mom. I just see the person and I can barely hold myself back.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

@sallypup I know that feeling, I wish it happened more often.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

There was something almost pulling me to her, very strange. But I think it was her voice, she sounded like me. I could sense the pain. So you know that feeling too, your heart skips a beat.

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@GreatMartin (23670)

• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida

18 May 21

And it are those little things that keep us going!!

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Absolutely they do. Little things are actually the big things in life.

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Vicki, #1 Creek Girl

@1creekgirl (44560)

• United States

23 May 21

I don't think that was a coincidence. I think it was a God-incidence that He knew would bless both of you.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

23 May 21

Thanks! I have to believe you as well. A special moment.

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@moffittjc (128837)

• Gainesville, Florida

18 May 21

That is wonderful that you took the time to approach her and speak to her. You never know, you could have been an angel to that grieving woman.

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@moffittjc (128837)

• Gainesville, Florida

18 May 21

@CarolDM You are. So right. Angels definitely come in all shapes and sizes.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I never hesitated. Amazing moments for sure. Angels come in all disguises you know.

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@Ronrybs (21497)

• London, England

18 May 21

That was nice of you and a different sort of day for you!

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@Ronrybs (21497)

• London, England

18 May 21

@CarolDM A day that worked out good for both of you, can't ask fairer than that!

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

It really did make my day.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

@Ronrybs I have to agree with you. These moments are so rare.

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@LindaOHio (222417)

• United States

18 May 21

Two souls sharing a common pain.

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@LindaOHio (222417)

• United States

19 May 21

@CarolDM I'm glad you didn't keep walking.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

19 May 21

@LindaOHio I am too, for both of us.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Wow, you are so right. I had chills reading your words. Perfectly said. An instant bond.

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@Rashnag (30597)

• Surat, India

18 May 21

It's heart wrenching and heart warming at same time. Have a good day. Take care dear

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@Rashnag (30597)

• Surat, India

19 May 21

@CarolDM your welcome dear

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Thank you!

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (66063)

• Serbia

18 May 21

Those must be hard times, but I'm glad you were with that woman, at least for a moment.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Hard but good at the same time, more bittersweet.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

@Nevena83 I remember that. I always want to hear about my son. But not many left to talk about him.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (66063)

• Serbia

18 May 21

@CarolDM I told you a long time ago that my aunt's daughter was killed when she was 33, and since then my aunt has never mentioned her and none of us have mentioned her.

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@erictsuma (9725)

• Mombasa, Kenya

18 May 21

Yes life is full of suprised and wonders that's why life is beautiful

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Very emotional.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

@erictsuma I am as well.

@erictsuma (9725)

• Mombasa, Kenya

18 May 21

@CarolDM yes and am glad you gave a smile to another mother

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@sjvg1976 (42727)

• Delhi, India

18 May 21

It happens sometimes we see someone who reminds us someone our own .

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Rare times.

@RebeccasFarm (91297)

• United States

18 May 21

Special moments

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Very emotional but in a good way.

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@JESSY3236 (22245)

• United States

18 May 21

That's sweet.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

Thank you!

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@everwonderwhy (7355)

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19 May 21

This is a very sweet story, Carol. I believe God sends people to us and we to them to remind us that God knows and understands, and our loved ones who are not with us anymore are in His Presence. I think you helped made her day. Just where and when God needed you to be at the right time and right place.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

19 May 21

Thank you for your support. It means more than you know. I believe this as well. Such a satisfied feeling.

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@DocAndersen (54399)

• United States

18 May 21

what a kind (but expected) thing you did. amazing. I have seen people that look like people I've lost over the years. It does make you stop.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I was drawn to his lady. Amazing how that happens. Not often enough actually.

@MarieCoyle (59250)

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18 May 21

Sometimes, I think when things like this happen, it is sort of meant to be. You gave her a moment in time she won't forget, and you weren't even trying to. Being a grieving Mom is not an easy task, nor does it ever go away. You always miss your child. It's been many years, and I still miss one of mine. I do try hard to pay attention to the little things, too.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

18 May 21

I do believe this was meant to be. I felt an instant bond with her. I never hesitated to talk to her. Sorry Marie, I unfortunately can say I understand. The feeling never goes away. A forever hole in our hearts.