Doesn't Anyone Mend Clothing Anymore?

@MarieCoyle (28540)
June 14, 2021 6:07pm CST
When I was growing up, if you lost a button or tore a hem out or such, you fixed it. If you couldn't, maybe your Grandma would. But you fixed it if it were fixable. So why am I shocked that in our throw away society, people actually throw away clothing items because they lost that button, or have a small tear in something? I think this is shameful, it's certainly not hard to learn to do these things. Maybe I am just horribly old fashioned? Just curious to know what people do about these items. Like I said, I was taught to mend clothing. Who knew people would just be able to toss these things?
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
14 Jun 21
Some people might. I just know I make use out of every single piece of clothing I have ever owned. Regular shirts become sleeping shirts. Old shirts and shorts become working shorts. I use everything I own to the utmost fullest. And when I buy new clothes? Often times I get them from thrift stores. I save a TON of money doing it this way.
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
14 Jun 21
I pretty much do the same. I have discovered many nice items, name brand and well made, by thrifting. When things get too ratty, they get turned into rags for a friend's auto shop.
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• United States
14 Jun 21
@MarieCoyle My wife takes ratty clothing and uses them as strips to make braided rugs. She has made rugs for the kids with their own clothing. The kids like it because they recognize their old clothes. The rug in front of my kitchen sink contains pieces of the shirt I was wearing when we met 36 years ago :)
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
15 Jun 21
@Vikingswest1 I've done this before, too. As well as saved some of the fabrics by turning them into quilt fabric pieces.
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@paigea (35695)
• Canada
15 Jun 21
I even mend my socks! I am going to sneak a pair of sandals to the shoe repair guy. Hubby thinks it's not worth it, but I have a hard time finding ones I really like. If he can fix them it's worth it to me.
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
15 Jun 21
I mend socks until they are too threadbare to fix anymore!
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@paigea (35695)
• Canada
15 Jun 21
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
17 Jun 21
That is true. Buttons must be sewn when one falls off. That is why even fashionable clothes come with an extra button. People have become lazy.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
17 Jun 21
@MarieCoyle It's a generational thing. The silent generation lived through the realities of war. They endured. The baby boomers who still comprise a good percentage of the world's population learned to do things for themselves. Gen X was spoon fed but also received the 'do-it-yourself' kind of education. The millennials were cared for absolutely. Probably the Gen X fault because they wanted to free their children of the menial tasks and excel in the booming technology the world was offering. The Gen Zee are deemed 'spoiled' because they know not house chores but look, everywhere, they are rising to the occasion. The old generations are leaving quite a mess of this world to the young generations. I pity the young because they have so much cleaning up to do. I wish the old also considered teaching the young to care for the environment and not just the household.
@MarieCoyle (28540)
17 Jun 21
I think some people may be lazy, but I also think there are an incredible amount of people out there that can't or do not know how to do some basic things--cook a meal. Shop with prices in mind, mend clothing, change a tire, put oil in their car, and on and on the list goes. My Dad wouldn't even let me get a car until I proved to him I could care for one and check the fluids and change a tire. When I was a child, everyone learned to cook. Now, there are many people who can't cook at all, or if they do, they buy boxes and add water, etc. or they slap a pizza in the oven Somehow, we have failed to teach the basics to many. No, I don't know how to fix this.
@kaylachan (57687)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Jun 21
We sadly have evolved into a society that values nothing. Something "new" is literally a few taps away. I know how to mend clothing and while I don't replace buttons (by the time I notice they're long gone) I was tought how to sew, mend things, stich stuff. But kids today don't learn to do those things. They are tought how to shop online. It's sad, really.
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
15 Jun 21
It truly bothers me that we are such a throwaway society. I shop online for some items, but not clothing. I have purchased socks and a pair of shoes online, but not clothing. Lots of household items I need come from online shopping.
@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
14 Jun 21
I can mend clothing if the repair is within reason. Too often I find that if there is a tear in a seam, that the seam allowance isn't wide enough to allow for a proper mend. But buttons and things like that I always repair.
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
15 Jun 21
I was taught when something with buttons is no longer wearable, cut the buttons off and save them (thus, the button box ) and then the item is demoted to a rag or whatever. But I was taught to use the buttons if they could be used.
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
14 Jun 21
i have a cousin who mend clothes. She makes a little money by doing it.
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@MarieCoyle (28540)
15 Jun 21
I taught all of my kids to sew on a button, at least. My sons can manage that much, although they still tend to save the mending for me, LOL. The girls were better students, they can mend tears and such.
@lovebuglena (43077)
• Staten Island, New York
15 Jun 21
I'd still keep wearing that item if I lost a button. I might replace the button if required or I may just leave it as is. I would not throw something out because it was missing a button. But if something ripped I may end up throwing it away. I actually just did that. My jeans ripped in my butt area. One of my favorite pairs. Maybe it was fixable but didn't wanna even bother taking it to a seamstress as they were old anyway.
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
15 Jun 21
I do have a clothing that’s missing a button. I didn’t know what to do with it. Somehow I might have misplaced it. Though I was thinking of donating it or throw it away. Since I watch videos online, I’ve decided to find something to mend a clothing. A step by step tutorial.
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