In distress

@aninditasen (18198)
Raurkela, India
July 15, 2021 3:54am CST
Lost my husband recently and have to move around with my sons leaving my home. They don't want me to live alone. I am mentally in distress.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
15 Jul 21
I’m so sorry to hear that sad news. My deepest condolences to you and your family. You have wonderful sons that love you.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, I do have wonderful sons.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
16 Jul 21
@aninditasen That’s a huge help.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
@DianneN Yes I know that which we can't find these days in India.
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@anya12adwi (10292)
• India
15 Jul 21
I am so sorry for your loss Ma'am!! I am glad that your sons want to take care of you!! Please look forward to the future!
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
I am only hopeful about that but am uncertain.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
@anya12adwi Yes I know that. I love cooking but can't cook for long these days. I used to love reading a lot but can't do that for long because of my eyesight. Cultivating hobbies at old age is a problem.
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@anya12adwi (10292)
• India
16 Jul 21
@aninditasen Hobbies can help you Ma'am with these uncertainties of life and time!!
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
16 Jul 21
Sorry for your loss. My uncle expired 13 odd years ago. Her kids shifted her to safer flat. Nowadays, househelps can be unreliable. They would know you are alone so they could pass on information about you to undesirable elements. They could also sweet talk you. Children have their jobs and stress. They cannot shuttle between their home and yours. That is the reason they are taking you. But yes, it means adjusting to things you are not accustomed to. Hope saibaba makes it alright for you. Hugs.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
I understand that and so have agreed to move around with my elder son who is posted in India. At least I can visit my home sometimes.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
23 Jul 21
@Lindcurtins Yes, that's why I am staying back with my elder son in India and not going to Denmark with my younger son.
22 Jul 21
@aninditasen that's nice. At least you can always visit home sometimes
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
15 Jul 21
My condolences. I hope that you will find some interesting activities to pass time.
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@id_peace (17036)
• Singapore
16 Jul 21
It will take time which I believe that you will eventually find.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
@id_peace Thanks for those encouraging words.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
I am searching for such an activity with which I can pass my time.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
3 Aug 21
You have my deepest condolences. Rest in Peace to your dear husband. What happen to him?
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• United States
3 Aug 21
@aninditasen I believe that ..the hospital is where one may contract other illness. This is most unfortunate this happen to him. Thank you for telling me. I am glad you have sons to be around for you.
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• United States
5 Aug 21
@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
4 Aug 21
@RebeccasFarm Yes that's my good luck that my sons are always close to me.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
17 Jul 21
I am sorry for the loss of your husband and sorry because you have to move with your sons. My deepest condolences.
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@LadyDuck (502573)
• Italy
17 Jul 21
@aninditasen I am sure that your sons will do their best to help you.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
18 Jul 21
@LadyDuck Yes they are helping me out.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
17 Jul 21
Thanks for your condolence.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
16 Jul 21
Sad to know you lost your husband. I think your sons should give you a bit of time before you take that decision.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
16 Jul 21
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, time is the best healer and with time I shall learn how to deal with the situation.
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@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
3 Aug 21
So sorry to know about you. I can understand through what situation you may be going on. It's better to live with your sons rather than living alone unless you cause you problems.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
4 Aug 21
It's the problem of worrying about my house that my husband has built and both of us lived. If my sons worked in this same city I would have been very happy but they work in other cities and so I have to roam about with them.
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
15 Jul 21
So sorry for the loss... you have good son's to take of... you are lucky..
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
16 Jul 21
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, I am lucky enough to have such sons.
@franxav (14591)
• India
15 Jul 21
Sorry to know. I am praying that you may find consolation and strength. Open your heart and receive .
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Thanks for those encouraging words.
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
15 Jul 21
Sorry about your loss. My heartfelt condolences. You have got caring sons who don't want to leave you alone. You can look forward to that.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, I do have caring sons.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
16 Jul 21
@aninditasen Take care
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@Sojourn (13833)
• India
15 Jul 21
That's a great loss. But your sons are so nice to take you along with them.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, my sons are nice.
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@Anqaya (3031)
• United States
15 Jul 21
I'm sorry you have to leave your home. But it's a good thing that your sons don't want you to live alone.
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
16 Jul 21
Yes, it is so.
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