Meet my ex - Pinoy boyfriend, LOL
@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
September 22, 2021 9:51am CST
We were in a relationship shortly. It seems my feelings and interest fade away. The guy is so sensitive and I don't like that kind of attitude. He does not talk to me when he feels jealous. He's jealous of my students who sometimes escorted me to the parking lot. Parking lot in school is always full so I park my car in Lim Ket Kai Center just a walking distance.
He's so unreasonable, so we better call it quits to have peace of mind and heart. It's not good to feel jealous and sensitive without knowing the truth. Our mood is always affected and mind is troubled. Sometimes I feel I'm a prisoner of love, so I better remain single, no compromise, no one to look at me sharply because of jealousy.
I deserve respect and peace of mind. If you love someone, trust her or him to make love grow and develop fully.
Am I right to my decision? Thanks for feeling me. Have a good night from Philippines. See yah all tomorrow. Keep safe.
The photo image is me and my ex bf Jared and co-teacher.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
22 Sep 21
Yes ..you did right...
Such relationship is like prison...
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@prashu228, 
yes so toxic relationship means stressful mentally and emotionally. Why suffer such kind of mentally absurd kind of your love.
yes so toxic relationship means stressful mentally and emotionally. Why suffer such kind of mentally absurd kind of your love.@prashu228 (37526)
• India
23 Sep 21
@cacay1 No use of such relationship...better avoid it...
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@prashu228, yes true instead of feeling inspired, expired due to emotional and mental stress
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@just4him, thanks Valerie such kind of boyfriend doesn't deserve to be sacrificed for. Better stop it while it's not yet at the extreme pain of losing the man. It hurts but the more hurts I will endure should I tolerate him.
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
22 Sep 21
Yes. You did the right thing. It is hard to feel miserable like that your whole life. I`m sure you can still find a much better and matured person. 
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Sep 21
@m_audrey6788, thank you dear but it seems I like to remain single for life has freedom without someone to question me. I like being alone heart at peace.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@m_audrey6788 I am at peace mentally and emotionally.
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@much2say (53959)
• Los Angeles, California
22 Sep 21
You gotta go with your gut feeling. It's not easy dealing with someone who gets too jealous often . . . kinda stressful, right? It's too much to live feeling like you are always walking on eggshells. Yah, better not to be in such a situation - people like that mostly likely will not change.
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@RebeccasFarm (86755)
• United States
22 Sep 21
You are right to the maximum..keep your free spirit rather than be dominated by a jealous insecure person. Even if he has a charming smile
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@RebeccasFarm, yes it's hard. Men are born to be polygamous and being jealous per se a justification of their own making. It's just their make believe.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
23 Sep 21
Seems like you made the right decision.
Relationships should help you grow as a person not impede your growth.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Sep 21
@allen0187, thanks Allen for siding me. At least many of you approved of my decision to junk that kind of relationship. Jealousy is normal, but if it's successive, it's not right. It disturbs my work and blocking my desire to be happy. I cannot anymore handle a toxic relationship, better call it quits.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@DianneN, It's a toxic relationship stressful. It's suffocating. Almost every meeting jealousy strikes and dispute strikes. Better end that kind of insecure and immature love. I'm 3 years older than him. It should be me to feel jealous so ironical
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@brokenbee, good yes. I'm emotionally relieved. We been in relationship 2 years ago for 8 months period. I don't him accusing me of something I didn't do. It's normal to have many student friends for I am their teacher.
good yes. I'm emotionally relieved. We been in relationship 2 years ago for 8 months period. I don't him accusing me of something I didn't do. It's normal to have many student friends for I am their teacher.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@brokenbee yes true, we can feel the pain. We feel untrustworthy 
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
23 Sep 21
@cacay1 Yes, I don't like that too; to be accused of something I didn't do... hmmm
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@db20747, I have explained that to him and he promised not to be jealous again. But again his natural kind doesn't hide, he remains the same no matter how I explained. He's also jealous to my male co teachers and doesn't want me to laugh while with them and forbid me to attend parties with or without him. I'm not his slave nor be a lifetime prisoner of an absurd love.
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@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
22 Sep 21
Maybe, it's not meant to be and the best is yet to come. Don't give up my friend. Giving up is not an option at the moment. You are young and beautiful.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@asianlady, thank you so much my friend. I already told him honestly that he's causing me sleepless nights and troubles. There's no peace. I ended our toxic relationship. There's no chemistry of feelings.
thank you so much my friend. I already told him honestly that he's causing me sleepless nights and troubles. There's no peace. I ended our toxic relationship. There's no chemistry of feelings.@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@asianlady, thanks for your strong words and very impressive moral support. He's the loser not me. A heart becomes hard as stone if experience many hardest battle of love.
@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
23 Sep 21
@cacay1 I know you are a smart person and your decision is for the better. It's not your fault because you are just dealing with what's right for you. You are not a loser in this case, instead you are brave enough to protect yourself. I really admire you for sharing this experience. Not many people can do this. Cheer up and you have my moral support 100%.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
22 Sep 21
No point in having a relationship where there is no trust.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@allknowing, so true. Love refuses to develop and grow. It's so emotionally and mentally stressful. It's not good to deal with a toxic relationship.
so true. Love refuses to develop and grow. It's so emotionally and mentally stressful. It's not good to deal with a toxic relationship. 1 person likes this
@rebelann (111168)
• El Paso, Texas
30 Sep 21
I agree with you. Jealousy causes so much harm that it is best to stay away from those who have those emotions.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 21
@sol_cee, yes agree with you. Somehow I was amused when he was jealous but after some weeks I realized that he's always that way. It's so stressful. I cannot concentrate on my work and my family does not approve him because of his hidden attitude. Yes too much jealousy killsm.
