My brother in law seems to be very ill.
November 24, 2021 3:47pm CST
Some time ago he was discovered to have colon cancer. Two weeks ago they came to Santiago and he had surgery. I have not been invited to visit him and I won´t ask as he erased me from the family several years ago without my knowledge about what I had done wrong. That´s a long story and I won´t get into it. Still, I love my sister and when they come, she comes to my house alone for a short while. She was going to take a small walk with me today but she called it off as my BIL was not feeling well. And she told me that they would have to be here at least 3 more months. As I see it (I did not ask) my BIL will need other procedures besides the surgery. I´m sorry for him. And I hope that my sister knows that I am here for her.
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He is not in good terms with me. I never knew what he did not like. And he sent my sister to tell me that I was not welcomed to his house. My sister told me over the phone crying. And I told her not to worry, we knew that we loved each other. That was years ago but things did not change even when I had cancer.
@LadyDuck He managed to turn against me part of my family. Even my brother told me why didn´t I "change". I told him then that we did not have to be friends but that we still were family. This was sad because I love my sister. And I know that she loves me. I want him to get well, but my heart goes for my sister more than for him. He had a possibility of mending things when I had cancer. And he didn´t. So be it. I was lucky to be "adopted" by my closest friends.