Question: 'Did you ever go clubbing?'

@Shavkat (137213)
Philippines
December 29, 2021 8:39am CST
To make it clear, I am referring to the word 'clubbing' as going from one club to another. Well, I did try this during my university days. My friends and I usually do this every Friday or Saturday night. It is a way for us to unwind or loosen up. We prefer clubs with live bands. Discos are not in our vocabulary at that time. Honestly, I am not feeling regretful that I had experienced this before. At some point, I considered it as a learning process to be a social butterfly. Have you ever tried clubbing during your early years? Are you a social butterfly? Image Credit: s3.amazonaws.com
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
29 Dec 21
My friends and I always picked one bar/"club" to go to for that evening/night and stayed there until time for us to go home. There were three different bars/clubs we went to the most.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
Since we were still students at that time and had no budget for clubbing, we tend to have the housewarming option instead. It was really fun to be with close friends. Are you still in contact with them?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
30 Dec 21
@Shavkat Unfortunately, no... One night I wasn't feeling well and they went without me. I had always been the designated driver since I didn't like to drink. On their way home that night their car crossed the center line of the highway and into the path of a semi truck. I still think about them at times and wish I had gone anyway.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
@DaddyEvil Are you telling me that they crashed into this semi truck?
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@sharonelton (25036)
• Lichfield, England
4 Jan 22
No, I've never been clubbing. That's not my scene at all!
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 22
Oh, I see. I used not to be liking it. I was being influenced by my peers.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
5 Jan 22
@sharonelton As of now, I am more on being myself at home. I am not into socializing that much anymore.
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@sharonelton (25036)
• Lichfield, England
4 Jan 22
@Shavkat I just prefer the quiet life and to stay in watching the telly!
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
29 Dec 21
NO, I have never been a social butterfly and I never enjoyed clubbing.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
I only do this if I am with my college friends. At some point, it developed my persona as an ambivert.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
@LadyDuck My family left me when entering my freshman in university at that time. But then, I still keep good grades despite having this activity with my friends. Now, I am not into it. If my parents are with me during those days, I am sure I will be a homebody.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
30 Dec 21
@Shavkat - when I was young, my parents did not let me go out clubbing. I was only 20 when I got married and my husband never liked going to clubs.
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@noni1959 (9886)
• United States
29 Dec 21
I never clubbed. I did go to bars and taverns to dance country western.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
Honestly, I prefer bar-hopping to clubbing though. If I am with a group of people who love dancing, I can join in.
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@noni1959 (9886)
• United States
1 Jan 22
@Shavkat I haven't gone in years. My last time was maybe around 2011 or 2012. It wasn't often but was fun.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
3 Jan 22
@noni1959 I can have a punch if being offered.
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
30 Dec 21
Oh yes. I was a club hopper!! My favorite club was this regae club. I went on Wednesdays and danced the nite away!! My favorite club
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
1 Jan 22
@db20747 I feel sorry for those who cannot control themselves when being drunk. The good thing is that I am not liked this before.
@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
29 Dec 21
@Shavkat I cannot remember if I ever went clubbing. I do remember that I went to bars. In college I went to parties.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
I am sure you did great times when doing this before. During my time, we considered bars as clubbing.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
1 Jan 22
@Hannihar I can feel you. If I am in your shoes, I will also feel the same thing. I honestly do not like people who show sarcasm.
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
30 Dec 21
@Shavkat I went with a friend and everyone wanted her and not me. When we were sitting with others they were trying to guess what I was and when I told them I was Jewish then they told me they had Jewish friends and I told them that I do too. I hated bars and did not feel comfortable in them just like I hated dances where I stood off to the side and was not asked to dance.
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@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Dec 21
I was never a social butterfly. I never went clubbing. No regrets. Not something I would want to do.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
I know some people who have never been doing this kind of social event. Those are connected to their religions for not being like it.
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@just4him (306386)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 22
@Shavkat I just didn't want to do it.
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@Gabugs (1895)
• United States
30 Dec 21
@shavkat In my early college years, I did socialize and go to get-togethers. However, I have not gone clubbing.
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
I can understand what you mean. Originally, I am an introvert. I turned to a new leaf by socializing with others. Now, I am an ambivert.
@Janet357 (75656)
29 Dec 21
Never entered a club. :)
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
30 Dec 21
I guess bars? We sometimes call it bars. How do you hang out with your friends before? If I may ask...
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
31 Dec 21
I feel so jealous. I missed that one and I regret it.
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
4 Jan 22
I also missed socializing offline.
@youfiq (2572)
• United States
3 Jan 22
I never go clubbing
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@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
3 Jan 22
That's okay. Clubbing is not for everyone.