My Mom's Expectations
@GooglePlus (3828)
January 16, 2022 7:32am CST
If you are born in Indian Society then these are general expectation from your mom -
1) As a student one should score good in 10th and Junior college
2) As a student one should complete this higher education
3) As an adult one should get a job
Lets talk about 4th At age of 28-29th they expect their son to get married and give them grand kids to play with. While I was trying to dodge the question mom was asking as I don't want to get married.
I told my mom - Hey I know your expectation here, I will fulfill for sure.
We adopted 6 puppies few days back. Now she holds them like babies and feed them.
Today while she was feeding them Samolac I told her She this is what you were looking for, I hope you are Happy 
I don't understand why she threw that Samolac box at me 
Am I missing something here 
I don't understand why she threw that Samolac box at me
Am I missing something here 16 people like this
15 responses
@sharonelton (25572)
• Lichfield, England
17 Jan 22
You shouldn't feel pressured to do something you don't want to do. I wasn't intelligent enough to go to university and as for a job I call myself self-employed and stay at home and paint.
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17 Jan 22
Indian society works on pressure only.
We don't study until we know we have exam next week
We don't complete our work until we have deadline on our head!
So one will not take up the responsibility until someone force you to take it up
So one will not take up the responsibility until someone force you to take it up 2 people like this
@GooglePlus (3828)
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19 Jan 22
@sharonelton Actually it's not that terrible you are thinking. 
Its more like you start teasing loving each other after you get married. Process is still the same but in case you messed it up initially then you will have to live with it. (now a days many chose to divorce , old times they used to worry about themselves and after divorce problems alot. )
Its more like you start teasing loving each other after you get married. Process is still the same but in case you messed it up initially then you will have to live with it. (now a days many chose to divorce , old times they used to worry about themselves and after divorce problems alot. )2 people like this
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19 Jan 22
@sharonelton If a relationship is started with a truth and both are ready to leave the past and do a fresh start after marriage, I don't see any problem.
When you start living with such mindset in same room as that of your better half. It will be tough for you to not fall in love with him 
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@mildredtabitha (16086)
• Nairobi, Kenya
16 Jan 22
Why don't you want to get married?
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
I can't fulfill the expectations nowadays girls comes with.
And I am not good with taking up the responsibilities!
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
@mildredtabitha I haven't given up, My conditions and restriction will never match one girl's expectations. Hence I don't keep hopes, But I would take it as surprise if someone matches with all restrictions and conditions and ready to move in with me
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@marguicha (216615)
• Chile
16 Jan 22
6 pupies are just too much. And you should get married to the pups´ mother. She wants a marriage
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
I don't know their mom She might also not like my conditions and restricts I will put after marriage too 
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
I don't have any problem until girl is ready to live in same house
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
I already have 3, Sometimes you don't have option, you see the situation and you react to it. My sister saved 2 of 3 when they were attacked by a stray dog on the road. This happened when we already had a puppy lab named Tom. And the situation was not good for both of them at first so we couldn't let them go!
After staying for 15 days they both recovered and my sister named them too. Honestly it's hard to tell the reason but I feel once you named a person, you get attached to it. And then we couldn't let them go.
I am hoping these dogs shouldn't fight when they grow up and I think we can take care of all
With Puppies total comes to 9 1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (159304)
• United States
16 Jan 22
lol Your mom definitely wants you to have babies!
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
But with puppies in her hand she is having same fun as with Human Babies Don't you think ? 2 people like this
@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
after @LindaOHio I will ask my mom to met you... so both can help change my mom's mind.
Of course two are better then one. 2 people like this
@averygirl72 (37770)
• Philippines
17 Jan 22
I feel pressured thinking of those expectations. Glad here there is pressure but not much. Hope you will get married soon
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@RebeccasFarm (86984)
• United States
17 Jan 22
Well you do the best you can for Mom1 person likes this
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
16 Jan 22
OMG! You're so funny, little brother! Now I know why our mom likes me better than you! 
Have you given her a picture of Pretty and told her that's her granddaughter from her other son? (I'm laughing so hard tears are streaming from my eyes!)1 person likes this
@GooglePlus (3828)
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16 Jan 22
The picture you sent me ... No I can't share that one 
Mom will think something else 
And it will tough to explain. I can show your pic not a girl's pic at this stage 1 person likes this
@GooglePlus (3828)
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18 Jan 22
@RubyHawk Arrange marriages are usually loveless which takes time to understand people once you are married
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@GooglePlus (3828)
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17 Jan 22
You know if you think this way - its more delicate to handle a puppy over a baby. After certain age your baby will talk but puppy will be puppy for you for their entire like as they can't speak
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17 Jan 22
@nela13 "a baby will melt your heart." Mom can say so, not a dad . Am I right with that statement ?
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