Question: "What kind of lover are you?"

@Shavkat (137238)
Philippines
May 1, 2022 10:56am CST
I find it not cute to ask a child this question. It is like having double meanings. Let me clarify that I am referring to having an interest in something like a meat lover, plant lover, etc. I am glad that my child's student online can able to get my point about this concern. What kind of lover are you then? Image Credit: i.pinimg.com
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
1 May 22
This is a strange way of asking what a child loves. I'm not even sure that it is correct English if you want to hear what a child likes to eat. The answer to "What kind of lover are you" should be, "I'm a passionate / boring lover". In my opinion the question should be, "What do you love to eat?/ Which flowers do you love?"
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@JudyEv (326446)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 May 22
I agree that there are much better and more appropriate ways to ask this question.
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
2 May 22
@MALUSE I fully agree with you, his questions is not appropriate for a child.
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2 May 22
@LadyDuck or anyone lol for that matter
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1 May 22
I wouldnt ask anyone that question lol
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@58lordstreet I asked because I wanted to see the reaction of the student. But I did rephrase it eventually.
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
2 May 22
I agree, it is rude, should someone ask me this I would reply "none of your business".
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
2 May 22
@58lordstreet It is a rude question, I would feel offended.
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@RebeccasFarm (86905)
• United States
2 May 22
I think this question should be rephrased for asking a child what he or she loves. In this way, I would suggest this: What is it that you love best to do? Asking in the way you have in English standards here in the States would constitute inappropriate for a child.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I agree. I just asked once and the student seems uncomfortable. Then, I rephrased it.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@RebeccasFarm Thank you.
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• United States
3 May 22
@Shavkat You did right Shavvie
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@sabtraversa (13070)
• Italy
2 May 22
Lover is the person who performs the action of loving. Asking what kind of lover someone is equals to asking how that person loves, more or less, it has nothing to do with what they love. "Meat" and "plant" are nouns, not adverbs or adjectives. Funny though.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I find it funny. Sometimes English is a weird language to learn. Even the grammar rules are not that perfect.
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@sabtraversa (13070)
• Italy
28 May 22
@TheHorse I guess you rely on what feels right and care less about the grammar. After all, you speak a language to communicate, not to solve complex equations or whatever. Our elementary schools teach a lot of grammar, it must be "heritage" from the times where Latin was a compulsory subject.
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@TheHorse (207021)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 May 22
AS an EFL (English as a first language person), I have little trouble "intuiting" English grammatical rules, and also nuances of meaning. But I can't necessarily describe how.
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
2 May 22
Well, I would never formulate a question to a child asking "what kind of lover are you" it is ambiguous. Ask instead what are the things you like more, it sounds a lot better.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I wish I could do that. I am using the company's prompt sentences. Since I am not a passive teacher, I can rephrase it.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@LadyDuck I did but they will just ignore it. They are not good at this part.
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
5 May 22
@Shavkat - Well, what if someone sue them because they do not know English and pretend to teach English online? Be sure that I would.
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@JudyEv (326446)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 May 22
I agree with @MALUSE that this isn't really an appropriate way to phrase such a question for a child. 'What do you love to eat? What do you really love? What is your favourite this/that/ or the other would be a better way of framing the question.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@JudyEv I agree with her. I raised this question with our company's admin. They need to rephrase the prompt sentence from the lesson.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@JudyEv Yes, it is.
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@LadyDuck (459735)
• Switzerland
2 May 22
@JudyEv There are many way to ask, "What kind of lover are you?" is the most inappropiate
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
3 May 22
I really do not know how to respond to this question. I think a child might not get it as well. I didn't even think that refers to whether I like to eat meat or vegetables... Good that you managed to get the student understand at last. Are you teaching online now?
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
28 May 22
@Shavkat That's good. Teaching online sounds challenging.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
28 May 22
@kaka135 It is not challenging to me anymore, except when dealing with rude students online.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
26 May 22
I teach online every day. I am glad that I was able to explain it well to this kiddie.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
26 May 22
I am a fruit lover.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
26 May 22
Those are healthy ones.
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@jstory07 (134754)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 May 22
I love the ocean and like to go and see it all summer. I love all seafood and pork spare ribs.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
2 May 22
I am also a sea lover but was not able to go there last month. Hopefully, we can do it for this month.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@MALUSE Let me check it then.
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
2 May 22
@Shavkat You're not a 'sea lover'. You 'love the sea'. Look at the comment above mine from Judy Story. She has written, "I love the ocean' and not 'I'm an ocean lover'. You can't change the rules of the English language.
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@TheHorse (207021)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 May 22
You are obviously a degenerate and a pervert. I congratulate you. I suggest you ask this question to a bunch of 2- through 5-year-olds. Safety and ice cream will be on their lists. But not the photo you attached.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
25 May 22
I guess the writer of the lesson is at fault for this idea then.
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@TheHorse (207021)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 May 22
@Shavkat What led to this post? With a little kid, you ask "What are your favorite things?" I believe the song was in "The Sound of Music." But I'm not sure.
@Neil43 (3172)
2 May 22
I am very submissive and I give all.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
2 May 22
I think you need to love yourself first before loving others.