Question: "What kind of lover are you?"

@Shavkat (141905)
Philippines
May 1, 2022 10:56am CST
I find it not cute to ask a child this question. It is like having double meanings. Let me clarify that I am referring to having an interest in something like a meat lover, plant lover, etc. I am glad that my child's student online can able to get my point about this concern. What kind of lover are you then? Image Credit: i.pinimg.com
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1 May 22
I wouldnt ask anyone that question lol
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
2 May 22
I agree, it is rude, should someone ask me this I would reply "none of your business".
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
2 May 22
@58lordstreet It is a rude question, I would feel offended.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@58lordstreet I asked because I wanted to see the reaction of the student. But I did rephrase it eventually.
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@JudyEv (382337)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 May 22
I agree with @MALUSE that this isn't really an appropriate way to phrase such a question for a child. 'What do you love to eat? What do you really love? What is your favourite this/that/ or the other would be a better way of framing the question.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@JudyEv I agree with her. I raised this question with our company's admin. They need to rephrase the prompt sentence from the lesson.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@JudyEv Yes, it is.
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
2 May 22
@JudyEv There are many way to ask, "What kind of lover are you?" is the most inappropiate
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
3 May 22
I really do not know how to respond to this question. I think a child might not get it as well. I didn't even think that refers to whether I like to eat meat or vegetables... Good that you managed to get the student understand at last. Are you teaching online now?
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@kaka135 (14994)
• Malaysia
28 May 22
@Shavkat That's good. Teaching online sounds challenging.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
28 May 22
@kaka135 It is not challenging to me anymore, except when dealing with rude students online.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
26 May 22
I teach online every day. I am glad that I was able to explain it well to this kiddie.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
2 May 22
I think this question should be rephrased for asking a child what he or she loves. In this way, I would suggest this: What is it that you love best to do? Asking in the way you have in English standards here in the States would constitute inappropriate for a child.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I agree. I just asked once and the student seems uncomfortable. Then, I rephrased it.
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• United States
3 May 22
@Shavkat You did right Shavvie
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@RebeccasFarm Thank you.
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
2 May 22
Well, I would never formulate a question to a child asking "what kind of lover are you" it is ambiguous. Ask instead what are the things you like more, it sounds a lot better.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 May 22
I wish I could do that. I am using the company's prompt sentences. Since I am not a passive teacher, I can rephrase it.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
4 May 22
@LadyDuck I did but they will just ignore it. They are not good at this part.
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@LadyDuck (502653)
• Italy
5 May 22
@Shavkat - Well, what if someone sue them because they do not know English and pretend to teach English online? Be sure that I would.
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@TheHorse (238342)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 May 22
You are obviously a degenerate and a pervert. I congratulate you. I suggest you ask this question to a bunch of 2- through 5-year-olds. Safety and ice cream will be on their lists. But not the photo you attached.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
25 May 22
I guess the writer of the lesson is at fault for this idea then.
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@TheHorse (238342)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 May 22
@Shavkat What led to this post? With a little kid, you ask "What are your favorite things?" I believe the song was in "The Sound of Music." But I'm not sure.
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
26 May 22
I am a fruit lover.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
26 May 22
Those are healthy ones.
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@jstory07 (148749)
• Roseburg, Oregon
2 May 22
I love the ocean and like to go and see it all summer. I love all seafood and pork spare ribs.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 May 22
I am also a sea lover but was not able to go there last month. Hopefully, we can do it for this month.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
3 May 22
@MALUSE Let me check it then.
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@Neil43 (4521)
2 May 22
I am very submissive and I give all.
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@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
2 May 22
I think you need to love yourself first before loving others.