Loss A Friend

Photo is from the internet.
@allen0187 (58447)
Philippines
May 16, 2022 9:35am CST
In my previous post, I had mentioned that last Tuesday, I met up with friends from my previous company because , we loss a friend. Monday, a friend in our group chat posted the news. He saw it in the post of the partner of our friend. Our friend was confined the previous week in a private hospital due to hepatic encephalopathy and sepsis. He was transferred to a public hospital because of the cost. Sunday, he was placed in ICU and passed away later in the night. It was heart-breaking to know this. Over that same weekend, I actually screen shot some photos of our team from the FB accounts of friends. Most of those photos had our friend, B in it. During the wake, we recalled our happy memories with B. It was bitter-sweet. The only consolation is that B isn't suffering anymore and is together with his parents. He left his partner and a young son. As a group, we had agreed to schedule regular meet-ups because life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. We also agreed to keep each one accountable in taking care of our health and reminding each one that we have only one life and we should make the most of it.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
16 May 22
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so sad when a young life is taken away. As you can say, at least he suffers no more. May be rest in peace.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
True. That is a consolation, he isn't physically suffering anymore.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
@LadyDuck true. Yesterday, while running an errand, I passed by a hotel that my friend frequently stays during the holidays. I messaged our group about it.
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@LadyDuck (454979)
• Switzerland
17 May 22
@allen0187 - It is the only consolation, I know you miss your friend.
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@MrDenata (12181)
• Indonesia
16 May 22
We all need that kind of group. I'm so sorry for your loss, Allen
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
16 May 22
True. We need people who force us to level up and who cheer for us.
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@MrDenata (12181)
• Indonesia
16 May 22
@allen0187 indeeeeddd
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• Philippines
18 May 22
I lost a classmate a few months back. Didn't realize he had a kidney disease. So sad for him he didn't even had a family of his own.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
18 May 22
Thanks LK. That is why it is important that we check on others to know their current status.
@jstory07 (133754)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 May 22
That is so sad. Sorry for your loss.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
Thanks Judy. I wrote it to cope with the loss.
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@JESSY3236 (18760)
• United States
17 May 22
Sorry for your loss.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
18 May 22
Thanks Jessica.
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@sarik1 (6721)
17 May 22
Sorry to hear.sorry for you loss . be strength .
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
18 May 22
Thanks.
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@much2say (53698)
• Los Angeles, California
16 May 22
Sorry for the loss of your friend. The time is difficult, yet it has brought your group closer - it makes one realize the preciousness of life.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
It definitely brought us closer.
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@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
16 May 22
I am sorry for your loss.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
Thanks Toni.
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@averygirl72 (37544)
• Philippines
17 May 22
It is one of my greatest fear that as time goes by people we know will be taken away from us but that is life so we have to cherish every moment we still have
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
True. Make each moment count.
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@JudyEv (323673)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 May 22
That is very sad indeed and even more so for his partner and young son. I'm sorry you have lost a friend.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
Yeah, sad that he left his young family behind.
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@MarieCoyle (27175)
17 May 22
I am very sorry. It's hard to lose people we care about and share a long history with. Tragic for you and his other friends, as well as his partner and son. No more pain, but I understand he will be greatly missed.
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@allen0187 (58447)
• Philippines
17 May 22
He will be missed indeed. All the good times will be remembered though.