I Declined

@thelme55 (76477)
Germany
September 22, 2022 2:25pm CST
to make 30 pieces of blueberry muffins. I have to make them this coming Sunday and they will be collected on the following day, Monday. I have no time for that day as I have to work in the morning and have a doctors’ appointment in the afternoon. Besides that, Sunday is my free day, my Me day, a resting day for me. That means I will only read, watch tv and blog besides cooking. Do you have a day for yourself alone when you will do what your heart wants? I didn’t decline though for the writing gig that was offered to me by the Pilya Blog Magazine where I am a writer for 7 years now. I have to submit it on the end of this month. We have the 7th year anniversary this coming October. So I am really busy. How’s the weather in your place? This evening, we have only 11C and during the day, we had 16C. It is getting colder every day. We don’t put the heater on, yet. Anyway, thank you for reading. I hope you are all in good health.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
23 Sep 22
Me time or day should be our alone time. Maybe you can accept that job some other time since you are also busy with the anniversary write up for the magazine.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
23 Sep 22
@cacay1 Mine is Monday only.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Sep 22
@jobelbojel , is there no work in your office every Monday?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 22
@jobelbojel, my me days are Saturday and Sunday to relax, and visit sites.
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@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
23 Sep 22
I guess it is not worth not taking it if you are not up to it. So better decline than force yourself to work on it if you have no time to do it and you are pretty occupied already. I think the customer would understand it especially if you do that occasionally.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 22
@rsa101 you're so right she should listen to her body.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
You are right @rsa101. She understood it. I made purple yam cake on her birthday last Oct.3. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
@cacay1 I listen to my body. I always do.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 22
My meday is on Sunday like you as I have an off on Sundays. Its been raining here since night. All the roads are waterlogged and from the morning there were traffic jams. It seems that winter has started here too.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 22
@sjvg1976, it's also raining here, there's flood below the knee on our yard.
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@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
23 Sep 22
@cacay1 my wife went to stop the kids at their tuition center through scooty and they all got wet and came back. Meanwhile, I came back home, both kids changed their clothes and then I dropped them at the tuition center in the car. It's raining hard here too.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Sep 22
@sjvg1976 I'm thankful I work from home or I may get wet in the rain crossing the passage way.
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@rebelann (111073)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Sep 22
16c sounds cold, I prefer it to be over 21c when ever possible but I know that it is almost winter so it will probably start to get colder as January approaches.
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@rebelann (111073)
• El Paso, Texas
6 Oct 22
Ahh yes, if only we could choose the warm regions we want to live in.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
I prefer 21C too @rebelann butI can’t choose the weather unless I choose the warm country. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
@rebelann That is right. Before the pandemic,I used to spend the winter time in Germany in my home in the Philippines. Only going back to Germany when the weather was warm again.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
22 Sep 22
Did you recommend it to anyone you know instead?
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
9 Oct 22
@thelme55 oh wow so you’re the only baker in town?
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
No, I don’t know anyone who could do that for her. Instead, I told her to buy the in the bakery. Thank you @sol_cee.
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@LindaOHio (155568)
• United States
23 Sep 22
I am retired; so every day is a me day. The weather has turned cool; and the humidity is gone. I wish it could stay like this forever; but winter will be here soon. Have a good day.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
That is good that you are retired @LindaOHio. Have a good day to you, too. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
@LindaOHio Thank you. Have a nice Sunday.
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@LindaOHio (155568)
• United States
7 Oct 22
@thelme55 Good to see you here.
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@RebeccasFarm (86515)
• United States
24 Sep 22
You are busy always Thelma. Good luck to all you do. I am tired from moving but hope to get back to normal soon.
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• United States
7 Oct 22
@thelme55 Yes mostly I am Thelma but may be searching for a few needed things still Thank you and hope you are well.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
@RebeccasFarm You are welcome. Yes, I am well. Have a nice Sunday there
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
Yes, I am @RebeccasFarm. Thank you. Are you done with your moving?
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@Juliaacv (48256)
• Canada
22 Sep 22
I am the same way. Sunday is Family Day for us, and we do not make commitments nor do we work on that day. Your baking looks delicious.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
22 Sep 22
I am retired and I do mostly what I want any day. You are right to keep your "me day" for yourself.
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@RasmaSandra (73199)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Sep 22
Lovely cupcakes and tulips in the photo. Still quite hot and humid in Florida and in the 80s at night. I am glad now that I have company three kittens Ringo, Michelle, and Sydney, I was going to only have 2 but when Sydney was born even though she is a girl she reminded me so much of Sid I had to keep her.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
23 Sep 22
@thelme55 Yesterday I was out and it was really nice. I have our Sabbath that I look forward to each week that I rest and am not on the computer and no TV. I love that day but it goes by too fast. You have the right to decline things if you do not have the time or want to do them. Do what is best for yourself.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
Yes,I am doing what is best for myself. I don’t like stressful days. Thank you @Hannihar. Have a nice new week.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
16 Oct 22
@Hannihar Yes, I have a nice week. Enjoy your holiday.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
11 Oct 22
@thelme55 I hate stressful days and stress period in my life so understand what you wrote. You are welcome and I hope you have a nice week too. It is our holiday now so not sure what will be open when venture out.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
23 Sep 22
Cupcakes look yummy. Glad to know your life update. Sorry to know that you declined the cupcakes offer. Take care
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
They were delicious @Rashnag. I declined the muffins order but I made a cake for her birthday last Monday. Thank you.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
@Rashnag Have a good day, too.
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@Rashnag (30598)
• Surat, India
9 Oct 22
@thelme55 Glad to know. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day. Take care
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
18 Oct 22
Everyday; anytime for I'm already retired from the service.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
18 Oct 22
That’s great @Nakitakona. Enjoy your retirement. Thank you.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 Oct 22
@thelme55 I always did. Thanks
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@Beestring (13273)
• Hong Kong
23 Sep 22
The cupcakes look delicious and the tulips are beautiful. It's still hot here. Temperature around 28-32C.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
Wow! That is the weather that I would love to have the whole year @Beestring. Thank you.
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@shaggin (71659)
• United States
9 Oct 22
No I don’t have any days to myself since my kids are still young. I don’t really even have any time to myself at all . The cupcakes in your photo look so good! Exciting about the 7 year anniversary where you work!
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
16 Oct 22
I can understand @shaggin. I didn’t have time to myself as well when my son was still little. Taking care of kids and husband as well as keeping the household is draining our energy. Thank you very much. Enjoy your Sunday.
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@LeaPea2417 (36391)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Sep 22
Yes sometimes we have to say no.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
You are right @LeaPea2417. Thank you.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48886)
• United States
6 Oct 22
We haven’t used heat yet either. Today was a gorgeous day.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48886)
• United States
9 Oct 22
@thelme55 it’s warm in our home too.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
9 Oct 22
It is still warm inside the house to use a heater. Thank you @Tampa_girl7
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@RubyHawk (99425)
• Atlanta, Georgia
22 Sep 22
Your cup cakes look yummy. It’s still warm here but after next week we should have cooler days
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@aninditasen (15719)
• Raurkela, India
23 Sep 22
Lovely muffins. I spend my Sunday evening the way I like. I do a lot of cleaning in the morning.
@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
22 Sep 22
These make such a pretty and delicious photo. Better today. Heatwave yesterday.
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@thelme55 (76477)
• Germany
6 Oct 22
Thank you @CarolDM. We have only 10C at the moment.
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
6 Oct 22
Enjoy. Cooler here now. @thelme55
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