Question: Have you ever encountered difficulties when dining abroad?

@Shavkat (137221)
Philippines
January 24, 2023 7:23am CST
Table manners are a crucial component of hospitality, as is being welcomed as a guest. Having good table manners and etiquette demonstrates attention to detail and consideration for others. Therefore, it is important to understand and use excellent manners. The difficulty is that, despite globalization, there is still a lack of a truly international set of manners. Image Credit: thumbs.dreamstime.com
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@LadyDuck (458730)
• Switzerland
24 Jan 23
You cannot have International Table Manners, because people have different habits from the ancient times. Just looking at the image above I horrify. NEVER place your fork and knife in a way to show a CROSS!!!
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
I also find it weird to put them into cross. I have not seen people do this in real life yet.
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@LadyDuck (458730)
• Switzerland
24 Jan 23
@Shavkat This is something extremely rude and anyway those "suggestion" are almost all wrong.
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• Canada
24 Jan 23
@LadyDuck I don't know what the universal signal is, but generally I put my cutlery off the plate when I am finished the course and a corner of my napkin on the plate when I am finished my meal
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@Adie04 (17360)
25 Jan 23
Maybe because I read a lot including table manners and such, I don't seem to have problems during dining. Plus, it's my practice at home to flip the utensils after eating.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
27 Jan 23
At some point, my mother also taught me and my siblings how to use them when going to a restaurant. It is not that often though.
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@Adie04 (17360)
28 Jan 23
@Shavkat That's good to hear that you have been taught beforehand. That will give you an upper hand later on.
@rebelann (111236)
• El Paso, Texas
24 Jan 23
I have not been to a foreign country in decades and when I did go it was mostly to Juarez Mexico but not to dine. I do not go to restaurants here either and whenever I did I never noticed anyone paying any attention to table manners, people just eat the food and leave.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
This is what I am familiar with. I agree that we do not need to follow such norms, but to be comfortable eating something in a restaurant occasionally.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Jan 23
I didn't half the meanings of the above photos. I really just know the one for finished or not finished.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
27 Jan 23
I also did not know some of them in the photo. For such a situation, it is better to be familiar how to use them when eating in a restaurant abroad.
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@Sojourn (13836)
• India
24 Jan 23
Table manners are entirely different from west to the east. The table manners are part of the culture of a country, so they couldn't be wiped out.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
Indeed. We need to know the differences and see what we can do when dining out with them.
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@MrDenata (12195)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 23
Thanks for remind me this table manners things, i still remember a few LOL. I never been in fancy resto's in abroad so like i said before, thanks for remind me. How are you today?
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
As for me, I am not into fancy restaurants. Whenever I am in such a situation, I don't feel comfortable doing these things. I am doing great so far. And you?
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@MrDenata (12195)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 23
@Shavkat Me? Fine as always, me too, i'm not into this table manners thing (my case, i dont have the money to pay it, LOL) fast food or local foods are my top list.
@ptrikha_2 (45543)
• India
24 Jan 23
I think generalizing table manners is difficult. In India, some of our goods like Roti, Dosa, Utthapam etc are meant to be eaten by clean hands. Eating them with knife and fork is possible, but then it would make eating much more cumbersome. Yet someone from some other place would not understand that. Similarly, many in India would find it tough to use knife and fork, but they still have good table manners. I once had a difficulty in England with foreign clients as we had to eat with a knife and fork and the Pizza was hard, not the kind that I was used to. Still, I was able to manage somehow!!
@allknowing (130063)
• India
24 Jan 23
Having a set of cutlery for different activities at a dining table is a thing of the past. It could just be a fork and spoon and that is not difficult to handle
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@franxav (13605)
• India
24 Jan 23
Thanks for bringing it to focus. Though I thought I knew table manners there are things I still don't know.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
24 Jan 23
I also think that way. There are some table manners that I am not familiar with yet.