Secret between husband and wife

@Nurlia (84)
March 9, 2023 7:42pm CST
In a marriage relationship there are often differences of opinion between husband and wife. even after several years of marriage the relationship feels normal, nothing special, no communication often creates conflict, jealousy and suspicion. How do you think the relationship between husband and wife should be, should we be open to each other, or is there a secret that our partners don't need to know?
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Sexy Girl
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
10 Mar 23
Well here's my opinion based on 25 years with my wife No secrets , be open and honest Learn how to agree to disagree Make special memories by doing things together. Good communication is the key. Hold hands a lot, it reinforces the bond. Never forget why you were first attracted to your spouse. And don't ever think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence
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Nurlia
@Nurlia (84)
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10 Mar 23
Yes, you right don't ever think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence and don't forget to always hold hands even though it's easy or difficult
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Sexy Girl
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
10 Mar 23
@Nurlia Be faithful.
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DE
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
10 Mar 23
How things "should be" and how they are between a husband and wife are often two different things. In my opinion, there shouldn't be any secrets. If there are secrets, then there is a problem and the two shouldn't have gotten married.
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Nurlia
@Nurlia (84)
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10 Mar 23
marriage is a commitment. and you're right secrets only cause trouble
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Ifamous
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 23
Me and my hubby often disagree. I let him with his opinion and he let me in my own opinion. We both are stubborn. But we never have any secret.
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Ifamous
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 23
@Nurlia we often argue about something, but it doesn't mean we break. He knows that I am right and I know that he is right too, depends on how we look at which angle
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Nurlia
@Nurlia (84)
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10 Mar 23
Sometimes it's hard to unite opinions, but I'm sure your honesty is proof of your love. because sometimes not one opinion makes us dishonest and forced to accept his opinion.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86760)
• United States
10 Mar 23
I have no idea about this as I never had a good success.
Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (306266)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Mar 23
A good marriage doesn't have secrets. It's open and honest.
Oleksandr Kornienko
@Gotrix (202)
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11 Mar 23
Understanding, trust, and openness are key qualities of healthy relationships between husband and wife. It is important to learn how to communicate with each other, listen and understand your partner's point of view, as well as express your thoughts and feelings. Secrets in relationships should have no place, as they can become a source of distrust and conflicts. It is important to have openness and honesty in relationships, even if it can be difficult at times. As a result, relationships will be stronger and healthier.
Anna
@LadyDuck (458219)
• Switzerland
10 Mar 23
I fully agree with @JimBo452020, for a good marriage, no secrets and we must be open and honest. You must learn how not to contradict the other even if you disagree. There is always the right moment and the right way to do things.
Faye
@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
10 Mar 23
No secrets maybe, but I don't think that behaviors should ever cross into control
Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Mar 23
It's better to be open and honest in the relationship.