Every person tells lies several times in his lifetime

@Jenaisle (16568)
Philippines
May 3, 2023 8:17am CST
Whether these are white lies or dark lies, every person lied or will tell a lie several times in his lifetime. Can anyone honestly claim that he/she has never lied? When a priest lied to the Nazis that there were no French resistance fighters inside his chambers, he lied, because there were even three of them. When a mother tells her little kid that his illness was not serious, so as not to alarm him, she lies. Many people tell lies to protect the ones they love, Can we eschew them and consider them liars? Tell me, if you have NEVER lied and I will applaud you to high heavens. What's your take on this?
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@rebelann (117281)
• El Paso, Texas
3 May 23
Yes, I have lied. When I was a small child I lied so that mom would not punish me and when I got older I lied because when asked the question 'do I look fat to you?' I just could not say yes.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Good answer. Many of us did this.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
4 May 23
Yes, I lied too when someone asked me if she was fat.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
4 May 23
For me telling lies would be the last resort and that too if they are harmless.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Right, most of us do this to protect some one.
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@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
3 May 23
Yes why I am only 21 years old and wear hot pink bikinis.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
You got me there.
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• United States
4 May 23
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 May 23
I’m sure everyone has lied to protect someone’s feelings, probably more than once.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Yes, that's right. We do.
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@RubyHawk (99367)
• Atlanta, Georgia
4 May 23
@Jenaisle I wouldn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.
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@aninditasen (18202)
• Raurkela, India
3 May 23
A lie that's told to save or cure someone is more a medicine than a lie. You can't call such a person liar.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
4 May 23
@Jenaisle I agree it’s still a lie
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
@shaggin Yes, it is.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
So, you can't call it a lie? I wonder what others can say about this. I still call it a lie but it's a white lie because it is told to cure or save someone, as you said. Thanks.
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@Kandae11 (57231)
3 May 23
A woman asks her husband if she looks fat in the dress she is wearing. It is obvious that she does look fat, but what would be his most likely answer? Of course the husband who does not mind being subject to the silent treatment for a couple of days might speak truthfully.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
You're absolutely right, so he has to lie to avoid this sad scenario,
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@AmbiePam (121237)
• United States
3 May 23
After all, the only One without sin, without lies, is Jesus.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
I have to agree.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
4 May 23
I hate lies but once in awhile I say white lies like telling the baby her scribble drawings are pretty .
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Yes, each of us does this.
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@snowy22315 (209207)
• United States
3 May 23
People tell a lot of white lies.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
Indeed, each one of us always do.
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@psanasangma (7910)
• India
3 May 23
it looks like You knows, they knows I think everybody lie for some good reason
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Yes, I know. absolutely.
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@LindaOHio (222898)
• United States
3 May 23
I've told many white lies in my lifetime.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
Same here,
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
6 May 23
Yes, although lying is a bad trait there are circumstances where a white lie can be a good thing. Here's something to think about: You are never more truthful when you acknowledge that you lied...
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
6 May 23
That's a good thought to ponder. I will remember that, Thanks.
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@pitsipeahie (5758)
4 May 23
It is impossible to never lie during one's lifetime even if we made all the effort not to. Even if we keep the best intention to be truthful we would still catch ourselves lying. The only arguable point here is not everyone lies frequently.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
4 May 23
Yes, and not everyone tells dark lies, most people tell white lies.
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@Fa_Maverick (9491)
• Australia
3 May 23
Everyone has lied and perhaps not even consciously, omitting details that are relevant is a form of lying. In fact by them omitting the fact they have failed to disclose relevant information before is lying in itself.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
3 May 23
Right! That's true, especially if it's on purpose. The sin of omission is a form of lying
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
6 May 23
We have the benchmark that we should try to live up to: "Instead, let your message be ‘Yes’ for ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ for ‘No." from the Christian Bible, Mathew, chapter 5, verse 37. Lies generally come forth from a mind disconnected from truth. We need to let our words be true words, but speak them from love, and they will never hurt anyone.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
6 May 23
Yes, they say that it is not what you say but how you say it that hurts the most.
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@Jenaisle (16568)
• Philippines
6 May 23
@innertalks "The word is God" is a good reminder that each word in the Bible is a gem. That's why they say that we can no longer take back spoken words. I agree with your analogy about truth and lies. Thank you for such an informative post.
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@innertalks (23745)
• Australia
6 May 23
@Jenaisle Yes, and I would mostly agree with that too. I agree with Judaism, though, that tells us that words vibrate with meaning, and so the words themselves carry some power within them, whether spoken forcefully, or not, sacred texts, use their words powerfully, because the words themselves carry power within them too. The Bible says that the word is God, and so we should carefully choose each word that we say, to be sure, it carries God, and his truth within it, not lies, and devilry instead.
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