Odd Assumptions

@AmbiePam (85730)
United States
May 6, 2023 1:51pm CST
I remember when I was in sixth grade, my best friend came back from visiting her family in Arizona, and she told me about her cousins asking her how far apart her neighbors lived from her (we reside in Oklahoma). They were under the very weird impression that Oklahoma was so sparsely populated that miles of land would go by before you’d get to the next resident. Uh, no. That is not the norm. I also remember meeting someone from a state I will not name because I don’t want to paint everyone with the same broad brush, that just marveled that I had no accent. He couldn’t believe if I hadn’t told him he would have had no clue what state I was from, especially not Oklahoma. Okay… Don’t get me wrong- plenty of people in Oklahoma have detectable country or Southern accents. You can tell my dad grew up in the country. But my mom, sister, and myself apparently have no accent (obviously this negates the fact that we all sound American). It just makes me wonder sometimes. Do people judge others from what they see in the movies? Maybe from a pit stop they made while traveling to another state? Most of these assumptions are amusing, and not offensive. It just tickles my funny bone.
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@Juliaacv (48468)
• Canada
6 May 23
It is kind of funny. We have cousins in the state of Michigan and as teenagers they would ask us about our igloos during the summer months. And we had the same thing with the accent thing too. English is English, and unless you are speaking broken English you should still be on the same page. Funny what people assume.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
6 May 23
Igloos?! That is hilarious.
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@Juliaacv (48468)
• Canada
6 May 23
@AmbiePam I could see it if the person did not live north of where we are geographically. Today that kind of a comment would be considered discriminatory.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
6 May 23
@Juliaacv Yes, definitely.
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@GardenGerty (157710)
• United States
7 May 23
When I was in college in Kansas, people did not believe I was from Oklahoma, they thought I was from back East, and fairly well to do (mom made my clothes, or I did). When I moved to California the only time they could pin point Oklahoma was if I said "Y'all"
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
Ha! Every couple of years I’ll throw a “ya’ll in my vocabulary, and it tickles my dad to no end.
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@snowy22315 (170727)
• United States
6 May 23
I never thought about it, but you could be right about that.
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@Treborika (17348)
• Mombasa, Kenya
7 May 23
Maybe
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@wolfgirl569 (95933)
• Marion, Ohio
6 May 23
Many people do have different accents according to where they live.
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@Treborika (17348)
• Mombasa, Kenya
7 May 23
That's true of the matter
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@Dena91 (15927)
• United States
7 May 23
People do make some of the oddest assumptions about others. I just like to accept them as they are, try not to put them in any sort of box because they have an accent, live in the country vs city, etc.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
7 May 23
I have the Georgia accent but it’s fast dwindling away.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
I love an accent from Georgia.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 May 23
@AmbiePam It’s not as pronounced as it used to be. The accent is fading away
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
7 May 23
People tend to make general assumptions. I remember when foreigners hear me speak the first time, they thought I grew up in the States and are surprised that Filipinos speak and converse well in English.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
It is obvious from being on Mylot that Filipinos are very well versed in the English language.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
7 May 23
@AmbiePam yeah. That assumption caught me off guard.
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@allknowing (130216)
• India
7 May 23
Here in India someone speaking impeccable English shows that person is well exposed. And accent matters too.
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@kaylachan (58463)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 May 23
I do think most people do, even though they shouldn't.
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@RebeccasFarm (86908)
• United States
6 May 23
Yeah it is amusing like the question I got years ago when living in a small town in Kansas..it wasn't about accents but it was about how far I would have to drive to get to England from Kansas.. Hahaha for real too, just totally not knowing.
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@Fleura (29236)
• United Kingdom
6 May 23
The simplest assumption is that other people think like you/ see the way you do. Then you find that they don't at all and it makes life much more difficult!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 May 23
People know I'm from the south, I got a huge southern accent.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
7 May 23
Glad to know. Hope the confusion is cleared finally. Have a good day. Take care
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@Treborika (17348)
• Mombasa, Kenya
7 May 23
You too
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@Neil43 (3172)
7 May 23
I am just imagining now the neighborhoods in each state that you have mentioned. I watched some series and the country really interests me like the ones I saw in Smallville series, which is in the state of Kansas.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
Kansas has a lot of flat stretches of land, certainly open fields, but just like the rest of the United States there are bustling cities, and cozy neighborhoods too.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
7 May 23
Yes most of the people believe on what they see in the movies. But they are wrong, not everything is true in the movies.
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@jstory07 (134740)
• Roseburg, Oregon
7 May 23
I have lived around the world and I never judge anyone from where they are from. People are the same around the world.
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@LadyDuck (459629)
• Switzerland
7 May 23
You know, people put tags on other people. When I was asked in the United States where I am from and I said Italian, ALL the time they said "you do not have the Italian accent". I am a northern and in all American movies the Italian accent used is Sicilian, I cannot even understand the Sicilian accent.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
We learned so much h about Italy in school. I feel like we learned nothing about Sicily.
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@LadyDuck (459629)
• Switzerland
7 May 23
@AmbiePam In most Mafia movies you only hear people talking Sicilian. Many Italians I met while visiting the United States were from the south of Italy, they have a strong accent.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49154)
• United States
8 May 23
I’ve lived in Mississippi since 1987. Everyone around here knows that I’m not from here by the sound of my voice.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
8 May 23
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@TheHorse (206887)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 May 23
I actually had the "opposite" experience once in Iowa. I spied a young couple in the line next to me at McDonalds. We were right next to I-80. They were trying to act all cool and cocky, and my thought was "They're not from here. I bet they're from California." After they got their food, and I got mine, I casually checked their license plates. They were from California.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
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@TheHorse (206887)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 May 23
@AmbiePam They kind of ticked me off.
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@LindaOHio (157568)
• United States
7 May 23
Ha ha. I guess we all think in terms of where a person is living and what the "stereotype" is for that region. I hope you're enjoying your Sunday.
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@AmbiePam (85730)
• United States
7 May 23
I am, and I hope you are as well.
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@LindaOHio (157568)
• United States
8 May 23
@AmbiePam Thank you very much.
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