Odd Assumptions
By Amber
@AmbiePam (97950)
United States
May 6, 2023 1:51pm CST
I remember when I was in sixth grade, my best friend came back from visiting her family in Arizona, and she told me about her cousins asking her how far apart her neighbors lived from her (we reside in Oklahoma). They were under the very weird impression that Oklahoma was so sparsely populated that miles of land would go by before you’d get to the next resident. Uh, no. That is not the norm.
I also remember meeting someone from a state I will not name because I don’t want to paint everyone with the same broad brush, that just marveled that I had no accent. He couldn’t believe if I hadn’t told him he would have had no clue what state I was from, especially not Oklahoma. Okay…
Don’t get me wrong- plenty of people in Oklahoma have detectable country or Southern accents. You can tell my dad grew up in the country. But my mom, sister, and myself apparently have no accent (obviously this negates the fact that we all sound American).
It just makes me wonder sometimes. Do people judge others from what they see in the movies? Maybe from a pit stop they made while traveling to another state? Most of these assumptions are amusing, and not offensive. It just tickles my funny bone.
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@Juliaacv (53263)
• Canada
6 May 23
It is kind of funny.
We have cousins in the state of Michigan and as teenagers they would ask us about our igloos during the summer months. And we had the same thing with the accent thing too.
English is English, and unless you are speaking broken English you should still be on the same page.
Funny what people assume.
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@GardenGerty (163399)
• United States
7 May 23
When I was in college in Kansas, people did not believe I was from Oklahoma, they thought I was from back East, and fairly well to do (mom made my clothes, or I did). When I moved to California the only time they could pin point Oklahoma was if I said "Y'all"
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@snowy22315 (189103)
• United States
6 May 23
I never thought about it, but you could be right about that.
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@wolfgirl569 (115761)
• Marion, Ohio
7 May 23
Many people do have different accents according to where they live.
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@allen0187 (58574)
• Philippines
7 May 23
People tend to make general assumptions.
I remember when foreigners hear me speak the first time, they thought I grew up in the States and are surprised that Filipinos speak and converse well in English.
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@allknowing (145274)
• India
7 May 23
Here in India someone speaking impeccable English shows that person is well exposed. And accent matters too.
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@kaylachan (77487)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
6 May 23
I do think most people do, even though they shouldn't.
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@RebeccasFarm (94527)
• Arvada, Colorado
6 May 23
Yeah it is amusing like the question I got years ago when living in a small town in Kansas..it wasn't about accents but it was about how far I would have to drive to get to England from Kansas..
Hahaha for real too, just totally not knowing.



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@andriaperry (118753)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 May 23
People know I'm from the south, I got a huge southern accent.
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@LadyDuck (473943)
• Switzerland
7 May 23
You know, people put tags on other people. When I was asked in the United States where I am from and I said Italian, ALL the time they said "you do not have the Italian accent". I am a northern and in all American movies the Italian accent used is Sicilian, I cannot even understand the Sicilian accent.
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@Tampa_girl7 (52305)
• United States
8 May 23
I’ve lived in Mississippi since 1987. Everyone around here knows that I’m not from here by the sound of my voice. 

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@TheHorse (226269)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 May 23
I actually had the "opposite" experience once in Iowa. I spied a young couple in the line next to me at McDonalds. We were right next to I-80. They were trying to act all cool and cocky, and my thought was "They're not from here. I bet they're from California." After they got their food, and I got mine, I casually checked their license plates. They were from California.
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@LindaOHio (188220)
• United States
7 May 23
Ha ha. I guess we all think in terms of where a person is living and what the "stereotype" is for that region. I hope you're enjoying your Sunday.
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