You are being watched

@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
May 18, 2023 10:25am CST
It always amazes me what people do and don't do in public. Nowadays there's cameras everywhere watching. We have our own security cameras at our homes. All stores have cameras. Light poles have cameras. Traffic lights have cameras. The list goes on and on. Someone is always watching. One young girl challenged me on " we, the management, can see what you are doing." She said "yeah but not in the bathroom." I replied back " that's right, however, I see you going to the bathroom and how do you know that someone else in the bathroom isn't seeing or hearing what you're doing?" The look she gave me....... One kid would ask to go to the bathroom several times on his 5 hour shift, 15 minute bathroom breaks, some thought" well maybe he has a medical condition that he hasn't mentioned." So....me being me..... I seen him clocking in for his shift and I expressed, loud enough that he would hear me in the office with the earlier shift of management about to go home, that I was sick and tired of the cashier's going to the bathroom to play on their phones for 10 minutes or more several times a shift. The other manager said how do you know that's what they are doing, I said I'm not stupid, it's either that or doing drugs because they didn't list any medical conditions when hired. Yes, the application asked if you have any medical conditions. Guess what? That night the kid had one bathroom break and it was 5 minutes. Plus they get their lunch break middle of their shift. Yesterday I had one cashier come in, I seen that look on her face, I asked " are you okay?" She said " I got tightness in my chest" I asked " anxiety?" She said " yeah" I asked " why?" She said " my grandma won't answer the phone and I want to tell her I love her." I told her " leave her a message." Next I told her to take deep slow breaths, she did for a minute or so and said she was ready to clock in. Another young man told me he felt sick and asked for a Pepto tablet. He got his till and went to work, next he began to limp, I asked him if he was alright " yes but my back hurts" a little later, while checking out customers I seen him hit himself in the head a few times, the store manager was in the office with me, I said " oh crap! He is about to lose it, he is hitting himself." I took off to his register and began to bag the groceries for him as he scanned them. In between customers I asked" you okay?" He said" no." After that customer I stood and talked to him. Come to find out he wanted to go home because his grandma was going to be there for a visit, she lives in New York, and he wanted to go out with them. So..... I told him to call and see what time they were going to dinner that I probably could let him off early, his face lit up, he did call, his mom told him to finish his shift and they would go then. Needless to say he was fine after that, back to his normal happy self. He didn't fake sick good anyways. I'm sure you understand that I have a night shift of teens and young adults. I didn't give birth to children of my own but God has given me many children along my journey in life. And that is what is seen, cameras or by someone. How do you feel about being seen?
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@RebeccasFarm (86846)
• United States
21 May
Anyone can check on me as I am completely legit
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• United States
26 May
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
So am I.
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
18 May
As you say, there's cameras everywhere You can't go out without being seen, sometimes I wonder if our computers and TV's are watching us.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
I have wondered that too
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@RubyHawk (99423)
• Atlanta, Georgia
26 May
@andriaperry It’s a little scary.
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@GardenGerty (157675)
• United States
2 Jun
Sometimes I wish I was more seen. I am usually the one who does the seeing. . . and the listening . . . and the talking to.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jun
Me too.
@RasmaSandra (73743)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 May
At this stage in my life, anyone can take a look at little old me. I am who I am and so be it, If someone does not like what I do or look like I don't care, They only one thing I will not agree to is using a web camera, There are survey sites that ask if we have web cameras and I never want anyone to see me on the other side of the PC screen,
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
I agree with you.
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@JudyEv (326222)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 May
You've certainly done your share of 'mothering' along the way.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
You can say that again.
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@LindaOHio (157402)
• United States
18 May
It's like you have to babysit everyone. I'm getting used to be seen everywhere I go. Big Brother is watching.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
Romper room.
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@LindaOHio (157402)
• United States
26 May
@andriaperry Yup. That's what it's like.
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@AmbiePam (85713)
• United States
18 May
I’m not too concerned about people seeing what I’m doing. I’m sure I’ve probably had several ungraceful moments, but I think I’m good. For all the cameras in the world, I do wish my apartment manager would fine all the residents she claims she has on camera not picking up after their dogs. If I clean up after mine, they can too. Instead of her just sending out angry texts, fine the people you claim to have recorded.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
I know I've had ungraceful moments as well
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
18 May
I don't care. I'm not doing anything that would make anyone worry or call the police on me. When I was working, Walmart had cameras on me all the time. They told us we were being recorded... and still associates stole merchandise, money from their register drawer and mistreated customers... all when they knew management could see them. I don't understand people.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
Neither do I.
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@wolfgirl569 (95828)
• Marion, Ohio
19 May
Everything is watching us anymore. Glad you were able to help the young ones
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@Kandae11 (53696)
18 May
I am fine with being seen in public, but no cameras in my house or bathroom. Sometimes l wonder about public bathrooms.....
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
Me too
• Pakistan
18 May
Being seen can evoke different emotions and reactions in people. Some individuals may feel comfortable and secure knowing that they are being observed, especially in public spaces where security measures are in place. It can provide a sense of safety and deter potential wrongdoing. On the other hand, being constantly watched or monitored may make some people feel uncomfortable or invaded in their privacy. It can create a sense of being constantly scrutinized or judged, which may lead to a feeling of unease. The presence of surveillance cameras has become increasingly common in today's society, aiming to enhance security and prevent criminal activities. While it can help deter crime and provide evidence when needed, concerns about privacy and the potential misuse of surveillance footage also exist. It's important to strike a balance between security and privacy. Transparency about the purpose and scope of surveillance, as well as implementing clear guidelines and safeguards for handling and storing surveillance data, can help address these concerns. Ultimately, people's feelings about being seen can vary depending on their personal experiences, cultural background, and individual preferences for privacy. It's essential to respect individuals' boundaries and rights while considering the benefits and potential drawbacks of being observed in different settings.
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
18 May
Sometimes; I like to go to YouTube and see what people get through their door cam.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 May
It's amazing.
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• India
18 May
It does feel strange to be seen by someone all the time but hopefully it can control the crime rate
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 May
It should.
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