Indebted to Someone.
By Gilbert Jaco
@BeeWeezer (18)
May 22, 2023 9:37pm CST
When I was totally broke, one of dear friends pulled me out from the pit. I stayed under her care until now but I am about to leave their place by end of June to be with my family for good. The main reason is to take care of my bedridden mother. They are in construction business and since I am good at office works, I could tell that I have been a great help to them.
Of course, nobody's perfect. There were times that it seems they have abused my goodness to them (because I owe them a lot). In your own perspectives, if you are deeply indebted to someone, does it have an expiration?
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@zainkhan121 (671)
• Pakistan
23 May
Firstly, communication plays a crucial role. It's essential to have open and honest conversations with your friend to express your gratitude and discuss the evolving circumstances of your life. This will help ensure that both parties have a clear understanding of the situation and can align their expectations.
Secondly, it's worth considering the nature of the assistance provided. If the support was given with the expectation of reciprocity or a specified timeframe, then there might be an implicit understanding of when the debt is considered fulfilled. On the other hand, if the help was offered purely out of goodwill, it becomes more subjective and open to interpretation.
Lastly, personal circumstances and priorities can also influence the expiration of indebtedness. In your case, the responsibility of caring for your bedridden mother holds great significance, and it's understandable that you would prioritize that commitment. It's important to communicate this change to your friend and express your gratitude for their support while explaining your decision to be with your family. 
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@BeeWeezer (18)
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23 May
There are some things better left unsaid. I always consider more the weight of person's goodness than her imperfections. Yes, I agree with you. It is my responsibility of caring my bedridden mother that has somehow saved me from my current situation.
@marguicha (215154)
• Chile
23 May
In those situations I won´t think that the word "abuse" applies. But you know more.
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@sallypup (57717)
• Centralia, Washington
23 May
Life is a circle; a never ending opportunity to love in our need for each other.
@ihasaquestion (8274)
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24 May
Nope..there is no expiratory date. They will always be in my prayers and good thoughts.
@jiwonnie (443)
• Philippines
23 May
I think that if you want to help someone, you shouldn't expect something in return.
@Fa_Maverick (9458)
• Australia
24 May
Yep it has an expiration when they were just playing saviour to make themselves look good for looking after a "cretin"
That or when theyre an a$s
