How to move on with the pain?

May 24, 2023 4:01am CST
Soon, we will be commemorating my brother's 4th year death anniversary. Yes, the pain never dies. It's been always there, you will just get used to it. It feels like having a heavy block in your pocket that you carry around. There were just four of us - 2 boys and 2 girls. So, when he passed away, I was not able to contain my emotions that day when they were about to bury him. I don't want that "scene" to linger in my mind for the rest of my life. All that I wish to remember is his handsome face just in deep sleep. Yes, I can move forward but I can't move on. He was just 52 when he passed away. Oh, I miss him a lot!
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@DaddyEvil (137251)
• United States
24 May
It's always hard to lose family... But we still have to live our lives and move on. I'm sorry you've lost a brother.
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24 May
Very true, indeed
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@DaddyEvil (137251)
• United States
24 May
@leighnyork I've lost five brothers and one sister since the pandemic began. I know how difficult it is.
@Shasha_ (1017)
• Envigado, Colombia
24 May
Ohh, I can imagine how tough it is to let go the emotions. I'm still struggling, too. I'm sorry for your lost.
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
24 May
I'm sure he is now resting in peace. Be strong, and be the brother that he wishes you to be. So sorry for your loss.
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@banksim (5196)
26 May
always hard to loose family person
24 May
So sorry for your loss. Talking of fond memories you had with him to your other siblings may help.
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@leighnyork (1880)
24 May
It is always sad, but brother all the best
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@LadyDuck (454953)
• Switzerland
24 May
I am very sorry, I know how sad it is to lose someone of the family that we loved.
@just4him (303392)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 May
I'm sorry for your loss. We were the same in my family. I'm the oldest and my brother next to me in age passed away in 2014 at 59.
@MarieCoyle (27149)
25 May
I lost my only sibling. We were very, very close and it was hard. I still think of her, and still miss her. I'm sorry for the loss of your brother. Try to remember the good times you shared together if you can. That really helps me.