The best and the worse of life

I'm sad to hear that, how can your sister continue to eat foods that are against her arthritis?

This reflection on the contrasts of youth and old age resonates deeply. It's a reminder to cherish our vitality and make wise choices for our future. I empathize with the struggles shared, and it reinforces the importance of taking care of our health and planning ahead. Thank you for sharing this thoughtful perspective.

I’m so sorry. It is so tough to see loved ones suffer, especially when their suffering could be lessened if they changed some of their habits. A lot of people don’t understand that what you eat certainly can affect your arthritis in a negative way. SO many foods make inflammation worse, and we know arthritis certainly causes inflammation. Maybe since she knows nothing will make her walk without pain completely she thinks why bother at all. I feel for her because I have arthritis throughout my spine, as well as in my hands; which is not nearly as bad as your sister. Sometimes I feel hopeless because of the pain. However, watching her must hurt your heart so much. Age can be very cruel. I am 42, and feel very old, so I can’t imagine how she feels. Has she ever thought about joining an online arthritis support group? Perhaps she could get inspiration from other sufferers, and it might motivate her to change her lifestyle. In the meantime, my heart goes out to you both, and I am happy she has you to care for her wellbeing.

Now, I'm thinking of saving for my old age. My family provides for me now, but I would like to have my own stash of "gold" when I really grow old and could not support myself. Well, hubby can always do that because he's a pensioner too, and he has savings but I would like to have my own.

The younger years often bring energy, aspirations, and a sense of freedom, allowing us to enjoy life without many obstacles. It is wise to plan, stabilize ourselves, and build wealth early on to ensure financial security and a comfortable old age. On the other hand, it can be challenging when one becomes older, financially dependent, and faces health issues, like arthritis, which may restrict mobility. It's important to take care of our health and adapt our lifestyle to age gracefully.

That is sad but at least she has you and you care about her.

Some people don't care to be responsible for their health. I am a foodie and eat what I like. I live with arthritis too. I do try to eat some healthy items as well as the junk I like too.

I have enjoyed both the phases. I am financially sound and that is a blessing when one is a senior

I do not mind being old as I have an attitude that I can still do the things that need doing except now it just takes a little longer.

This is very sad Erly I am sorry about your sister.

Your sister cannot be considered "old", at 60 people are still considered young here. Of course there is the saying "you are what you eat".

i am sorry about your sister's health, 60 isn't old yet. Maybe if she changes her diet it could help her.

Sorry to hear about your sister. I think it depends on how you maintain your health physically and mentally. Old age is tough but many people are able to live happily as they have financial stability and good health

My wife has an arthritis. I pity do much for she's suffering from the pain. I even cry. I bring her to a doctor and she's given meds. Hope she'll get well.

This is life. There are up and down times.

I am still young now, and I value a company's social security very much. Many companies do not pay social security to their employees. Social security is the five types of insurance, including maternity insurance, pension insurance, work-related injury insurance, medical insurance, and unemployment insurance. This is crucial for my elderly retirement life.