A long day

@ElicBxn (63235)
United States
October 23, 2023 9:14pm CST
I do not object to going to the doctor. I'm not a hypochondriac, but I'm also not the healthiest person around. I have a monthly appointment with the pain doctor. I go to the dentist regularly. I've started back with the eye doctor, as much as that one does actually pain me - not literally. I go to my GP, I get my vaccines, I do it. And, as my friends here know, I fell and broke my nose. Not badly. My GP told me that I needed to go to the ENT, that Ears, Nose and Throat for those who don't get some of the less common initial doctors. And, today was that day. I mean, it was the only appointment until almost Thanksgiving (the 20ths of November for those who don't know.) I told the appointment setter that by then I wouldn't need to see an ENT. My appointment was at 3. A nurse came out at 3:15 and asked who was there to see this doc, me and another gent said we were, he was at 2:45. Then she said he was running an hour late. An Hour Late! I had broken off with my best friend to go to this appointment, I was there on time. If I had known it was going to be after four I could've spent another hour with her. Didn't they know he was running late before three? By the time I got out, rush hour had started. Austin is the tenth largest city in the United States! This office, while not exactly on the whole other end of town from where I live, is much further south than I normally drive. In fact, this office is next door to where I actually worked for four years from 1980 to 1984. At least I knew back ways to get home that wouldn't require me to get caught in the bumper to bumper traffic of either the Interstate or the other two normally higher speed ways north. Still, I would've loved to spend more time with my best friend. Yes, we send emails all the time and even call, but it really isn't the same. So, would you have been more than a little annoyed?
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@xFiacre (12607)
• Ireland
24 Oct
@elicbxn My dentist reserves the right to charge patients for being late to appointments but we can’t charge him for running late.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
24 Oct
@xFiacre I've heard of that, but not run into it myself. At many of my appointments with my doctors if I got there early and the next appointment was running a bit behind, they'd take me in. I've already got the habit of being early, something I got from my parents, and it has happened that if I'm there, the 'next' patient isn't there, I'll get treated. Not as much as it used to, but most of my doctors are in large clinics so people know they really need to be on time or early.
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@LadyDuck (458549)
• Switzerland
24 Oct
I would have been more than annoyed. I can understand that often doctors are some minutes late... but hours NO, that is not acceptable.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
25 Oct
Well, the good news is I won't have to see him again...
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
25 Oct
@LadyDuck the thing with doctors is you just never know what is going on in the back... I have never had a doctor who ran late because he wasn't doing anything. My urologist has a sign that says if there is an emergency she would have to take care of that. It hasn't happened to me, but I suspect there are times when they will try to make a new appointment for someone. I am not working, but I'm not as young as I've seen some of her patients.
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@LadyDuck (458549)
• Switzerland
25 Oct
@ElicBxn That is a good thing, I hate people who do not respect our time.
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@BarBaraPrz (45514)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
24 Oct
I hate when that happens... One time, I got to my appointment on time but my doctor had been called out to attend to a birth or some such other unscheduled thing. Rather than going home and coming back in an hour, I just took a nap on the examining table...
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
24 Oct
My friend Connie, who had been known here as Maggiepie, had that happen, except I was in the waiting room, missing work, because she didn't drive.
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@RebeccasFarm (86767)
• United States
24 Oct
With the things that are going on here, no it would be the least of my annoyances. I hope the appointment went okay though.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
25 Oct
It went fine. He thinks, since I can breath through the nose and it isn't horribly disfigured, he won't have to see me again.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
24 Oct
I hate being late to an appointment and hate it even more when the doctor is running late. I have other things I want to do during my day. My GP is 10 minutes from my house but the other four doctors I have to see are all an hour drive away. A boring hour drive each way... Luckily, the other four only ask to see me once every six months now.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
25 Oct
That's good. My GP is a bit further, but even this doctor's office was only about 30-40 minutes away - depending on 'normal' traffic, not rush hour traffic! It too almost an hour to get home and that was because I didn't get on any of the highways.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
25 Oct
@DaddyEvil I live in a big city, 10th largest in the U.S. I try to allow 30 minutes to get to most places. If I had been driving from my house, I'd've probably given it an hour. I would've done the interstate, but not at rush hour. I would rather wander my way north driving the many neighborhoods I grew up driving in than suffer the frustration of rush hour. Let's see... the doctor's office was NEXT door to where I worked from 1980 to 1984. On Holy Days of Obligation, I would sometimes go to the noon mass, and I drove the streets until I was almost there. I turned and drove past my best friend's folks house. I did go for a while on one of Austin's major streets, then turned off and proceeded to get over to get on one of my favorite side streets. Amazingly I discovered about 12 years ago, my brother's best friend lives on that street, but it only made my pleasure more. Then I turned onto one of those streets I love to drive on, lots of ups and downs, then drove by the house my folks built in 1955-56. More of the way to another street, went under 'Mopac' and then turned and drove by the house the folks built in 1963. Shoal Creek Blvd. is really one of the main streets I learned to drive on, and I took that over, cut east, tried to find gas, no luck and went home. Lots of old times there...
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
25 Oct
@ElicBxn I'm not at the stage where I won't drive on the Interstate highway yet. But, I sure don't like to drive in rush hour traffic, no matter how near or far I have to go. If I don't drive on the Interstate, my drive home would take almost an hour and a half...
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@sallypup (57993)
• Centralia, Washington
24 Oct
That is not a respectful way to treat you.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
24 Oct
@sallypup I have rather come to expect stuff not unlike this but after my previous doctor split I needed to find one ASAP.
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