Obviously we have different ideas
By Fleur
@Fleura (34927)
United Kingdom
October 28, 2023 5:14pm CST
A friend just called round and brought a colleague from work with her. The colleague had just been to look at a potential place to rent, as they need accommodation for a few weeks, because the flat they were renting was being renovated. It should have been finished by the start of November but everything has been delayed. So basically they just need somewhere to stay for two or three weeks.
I mentioned that they could come to us, as we have spare rooms and we have many times talked about possibly getting a lodger but then never done it. But the friend said ‘Oh no it’s OK, he’s going to come to us.’
Considering she lives in a small three-bedroom house I was surprised. It already houses herself, her husband, their four children (two girls, two boys), her cousin and his partner. And since it’s a very modern house the rooms are really quite small. I asked ‘Are you sure you really have enough room?’ And she replied ‘Oh yes, there’s still the kitchen!’
Obviously she (and presumably her colleague as well) have different ideas to mine concerning the need for space. I don’t think I’d want to spend more than a couple of days sleeping in someone’s kitchen, on the seat the children need to sit on to eat their breakfasts (and have often spilled food on!). And with nowhere to put anything, unless he takes a very small bag of clothes that could double as a pillow, in the manner of minimalist camping.
I guess it depends on whether free accommodation of any kind is better than your own space. What would you choose?
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11 responses
@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
29 Oct 23
I'd take your offer... I can manage sleeping on someone's floor but would feel awkward if it was in a high traffic area of the house. And definitely wouldn't be happy with someone coming in when I was trying to sleep to get a midnight snack.
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@RasmaSandra (97912)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Oct 23
Well, of course, I would be reasonable and take up your offer but perhaps there is some other reason the colleague wants to stay with them,
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
29 Oct 23
Oh I would like to stay with you.
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@BarBaraPrz (51811)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
29 Oct 23
How odd...
Is that a picture of your house or your friend's? I guess there's always the garage, too.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
29 Oct 23
I don't like to be in a crowded setting. I need my space.
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@snowy22315 (208746)
• United States
29 Oct 23
@Fleura It's uncomfortable having to trip over other people or their things.
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@xFiacre (14782)
• Ireland
29 Oct 23
@fleura I need as much space as possible, and privacy. Certainly wouldn’t relish sleeping in a kitchen. When I lived in Rotterdam I slept in a large wardrobe. There were three of us who slept in it. We all worked different shifts in the same factory so while one was at work another was in bed/wardrobe and the third one was up and about.
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@LindaOHio (222222)
• United States
29 Oct 23
That's a lot of people in a small house! I would prefer to stay with you! I hope you are having a good day.
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