Tipping is an Obligation in America: What?!?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140443)
Philippines
December 7, 2023 8:45pm CST
In my country, some locals do give tips when eating in a restaurant. I used to do this, but I dropped the idea of giving some tips to waiters and waitresses. It made me like this when I worked in a Chinese fast food restaurant before. The Chinese owners forbid their employees to receive any tips from the clients because it is not good for business. That is why I stopped doing it. Besides, it needs to be done voluntarily.
I read in an article that Americans need to do this because it is their obligation to do so. I am not sure if it is really true.
Is leaving tips customary in your nation? Typically, who do you tip?
Do you think leaving a tip is mostly a duty or a personal preference?
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@LadyDuck (473828)
• Switzerland
8 Dec 23
In the United States waiters receive a very low salary, their "service" is paid with the tips. In Europe we PAY the tip included in the bill, so we also have no choice after all. Despite the "service" is added to the Bill, here in Europe we can leave a tip if we are satisfied with the service, it's not mandatory.
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@porwest (99586)
• United States
8 Dec 23
Tipping is BY FAR out of control these days in America. Typically it makes sense to tip waiters and waitresses because labor laws allow them to be paid less than minimum wage. I will tip them, I will also tip delivery drivers and bartenders...beyond that I don't think tipping is otherwise necessary. But many people these days are tipping all sorts of people that shouldn't be tipped.
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@Shavkat (140443)
• Philippines
10 Dec 23
I am surprised that some waiters and waitresses are being paid below the minimum wage. In my country, the authorities are quite strict with this concern. Speaking of delivery men, we do not give them any tips. I have not attempted it, nor has anyone else here.
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@porwest (99586)
• United States
14 Dec 23
@Shavkat It is a double-edged sword. When you add in tips, most waiters and waitresses make WELL above the minimum wage, and in most polls, waiters and waitresses have been opposed to higher wages with the removal of tips. Bartenders, for example, can make hundreds of dollars per night on tips alone depending on the night and with tips the average wage for a waitress is over $15 an hour.
@youless (113054)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Dec 23
Every country has different custom. Here the giving tips are usually not necessary. Whereas if you give tipping in Japan, they may regard it as an insult
It is the opposite in USA. In fact many waiters and waitress need the tipping because their salary is not enough.

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@snowy22315 (189037)
• United States
8 Dec 23
These days everybody and their brother want a tip here. It gets old.
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@RebeccasFarm (94536)
• Arvada, Colorado
8 Dec 23
Come to think of that, I believe it is in some places..but not here.
I can't afford to tip..so I don't and there is no law that says I have to.
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@TraveOnWorld (854)
• Georgia
8 Dec 23
We used to be religious tippers, but woke up to few things and do not do it any longer. I do not want to sit and do math at the end of the meal. I do not like supporting businesses that do not pay their staff properly. My father was a salesman on commission basis for much of his life, and he never got extra for good service. If restaurants view waiting staff as salesmen, include the commission in overhead, I'm the customer not the bookkeeper. Most of all, I go the restaurant - not the waiter; the restaurant is supposed to provide for the service and make sure their prices include all overhead. I've never in my life seen a review for a waiter in any media, only ever restaurants. Nobody throws a fit on facebook for a bad waiter without penalising the restaurant in the same breath. As for restaurants that add it the 10% or whatever in the bill, we avoid those like the plague.
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@Shavkat (140443)
• Philippines
10 Dec 23
This is also what I am thinking when not giving them any tips. It was like you had mentioned. In my country, waiters and waitresses are being paid the required minimum wage. They will be lucky if I am impressed with their customer service. I might give them some tips.
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@AmbiePam (97927)
• United States
8 Dec 23
Waiters and waitresses do not get paid as much in America as they do in other countries. They count on tips to make up for that. It is customary to at least tip 15%, and if one doesn’t tip, that person is downright rude (unless the waiter was awful to you or something). People from foreign countries come over, don’t realize how little the waitstaff make, and then don’t tip. It is upsetting to the waiters and waitresses.
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@allknowing (145208)
• India
8 Dec 23
I do know of restaurants that have that system. That money is collected and then distributed equally
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@Deepizzaguy (109420)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
8 Dec 23
In my homeland, the suggestion from the restaurant is to at least leave a tip for the server of the meal for a thank you note for their great service.
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@aninditasen (17032)
• Raurkela, India
8 Dec 23
In my country giving a tip at restaurant has stopped because diners have started paying online. This was prevalent when we had to pay cash but not all pay a tip.
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@Shavkat (140443)
• Philippines
12 Dec 23
@aninditasen At some point, I do agree on that matter.
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@aninditasen (17032)
• Raurkela, India
10 Dec 23
@Shavkat That's good. This tip system spreads dishonesty.
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@Beestring (15332)
• Hong Kong
8 Dec 23
In most restaurants here, a 10% tip is included in the bill. We sometimes give the server extra for his/her good service.
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