Question: Do you plan family get-togethers?

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
March 7, 2024 7:02pm CST
When I was a young kid, I did not have good memories with my relatives, especially on my father's side. We were treated like outcasts until we reached adulthood. When my old man died, the treatment was more sour, and I did not want to attend the family reunion with them. Before the pandemic, my family and I cut the tie with them, and it became official when my grandmother died. Thus, there is no reason for us to be connected with each other. On some occasions, they reach out to my other siblings randomly. Perhaps out of guilt for abandoning us after my father's death.Since then, we have never had a family reunion with them anymore. Do you have any pleasant recollections of your kin? Image Credit: i.pinimg.com
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
8 Mar 24
I had great parents and a few relatives I liked, but I never liked large family get-together.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
I never liked it, either. It is because I will see how they treat us differently. I do not want to see them as often as possible. It is most likely to happen now and in the future.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
12 Mar 24
@LadyDuck I can feel you. At some point, we have not been on good terms lately. Perhaps they were influenced by their biological parents.
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@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
10 Mar 24
@Shavkat - Not all my relatives are "nice people", better alone than in bad company.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
9 Mar 24
My family is very close knit. Even with my parents both gone my sibs and I get together and visit, go out to dinner, or barbecue during the summer.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
Since they are in heaven now, I do miss my biological parents. We just cannot keep in contact with our relatives on both sides.
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@dgobucks226 (37621)
10 Mar 24
@Shavkat I see.
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@marguicha (230334)
• Chile
8 Mar 24
My relations with my kin are what I´d call "sweet and sour". It is much easier for me to relate with what I call "my adopted family".
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
You have a point. We are closer to other families than our own relatives. I just felt bad that we needed to deal with them on some occasions.
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@kaylachan (84701)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
8 Mar 24
No. My family was pretty toxic. I would have to dig deep to find something plsent.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
There are no problems with my cousins on both sides of my parents. I am not sure if they have changed now. Regardless, I do not care if they do.
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@JudyEv (381739)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Mar 24
We had family get togethers but now there is just my sister. One of her sons are estranged which is very sad. Vin's side of the family are close and we see quite a bit of all of them.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
I felt bad that one of her sons was like this now. I hope they will reconcile sooner or later. At some point, we can still have a family reunion on my mother's side.
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@Beestring (15373)
• Hong Kong
8 Mar 24
I have a very close relationship with my family members, including my siblings and their families as well as cousins. We have a Telegram group, chatting frequently.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
10 Mar 24
It is also the same with my immediate family members. We just have bad familial relationships with our relatives.
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@JESSY3236 (22199)
• United States
12 Mar 24
We have family get-togethers on holidays. It's of my mother's side of the family. I don't know my father's side of the family. My mother, though, now refuses to go to the family get-togethers. I always have to make excuses for her.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
13 Mar 24
At some point, we are still lucky because we can have get-togethers on my mother's side. On my father's side, it is impossible to happen now.
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