My Son was in Town for a Visit

@kobesbuddy (74608)
East Tawas, Michigan
March 17, 2024 3:32pm CST
I got a surprise phone call this morning. Chad, my 51 year old son came to Tawas, for his friend Jerry's mother's memorial service. They have been friends almost all their life. When Chad was in high school, Arlene use to cut his hair:) He wanted to know if I'd like to go out for breakfast this morning. Jay had already gone to church, so I said yes, I'd love to go out with him. We went to Burger King for a breakfast sandwich meal and coffee, it was good! And we had a very nice visit, for about an hour. They lost their female dog just before Christmas. Ahna was only 5 pounds and such a wonderful pet! Murphy the pit bull bit her neck and she bled to death:( Anyway, it was wonderful to see my son, it had been about a year since I'd seen him:) Photo: Taken by a friend, it's Chad and Kristine
14 people like this
13 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Mar
So nice that you got to spend time with your son today. It is always so special when we get to spend time with our grown children. Sorry about Ahna that is so sad and tragic.
3 people like this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Mar
The vet who has examined Murphy for a year, came to a decision. She said Murphy is playful, but he doesn't realize the strength in his jaws, that he was born with. It's more powerful than a vice grip. He picks up toys and vigorously shakes them. He did the same exact thing, to Ahna.
2 people like this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
17 Mar
@Happy2BeMe Murphy is playing all the time. But, he has such a powerful grip, the other dogs are in danger around him.
3 people like this
@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Mar
@kobesbuddy that is heartbreaking. Pòor Ahna. I cant even imagine how devastated tjeynust have been. Hope Murphy doesn't hurt anybody else.
2 people like this
@Juliaacv (48421)
• Canada
17 Mar
I am happy for you that you had a nice visit to catch up with Chad. There is something very special about the bond between a mother and her son.
3 people like this
@Juliaacv (48421)
• Canada
17 Mar
@kobesbuddy It must have felt right for him to talk about Ahna's passing to you, who better to trust then their own mother, and a dog lover at that is even more understanding. I hope that Murphy doesn't hurt any of the other dogs or anyone.
2 people like this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
@Juliaacv Murphy is very sweet with people, but with other dogs he can't be trusted.
1 person likes this
@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
18 Mar
I am so glad that you have seen your son. I am so sorry they lost their dog, pit bull dogs are so dangerous.
3 people like this
@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
19 Mar
@kobesbuddy - Some dogs cannot get along well with other animals. I know that my uncle had to get rid of a German Shepard who attacked humans.
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Their first pit bull was very meek and loyal. Mackie protected his family and the other dogs, at all times. This pit bull, Murphy, is a totally different temperament. He's wonderful with people, he doesn't like other dogs. Kobe was the same way, he hated other animals.
1 person likes this
@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Mar
I'm glad you had a good visit with your son.
2 people like this
@just4him (306523)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Mar
@kobesbuddy I'm glad you did.
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
It was so nice to visit with him for a while. We really had a good chat!
1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
18 Mar
I'm glad you got to spend time with your son. How awful that the pit bull killed Ahna. Have a good day.
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Ahna was so inoffensive, she was a meek and very quiet dog. Murphy being young and strong, nobody saw this coming:(
1 person likes this
@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
19 Mar
@kobesbuddy That's so sad.
@LotusEyes (2716)
• India
18 Mar
I am glad that you spent a good time with your son
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Thanks, we only do this once in a while. I was pleased to go out for breakfast with him!
1 person likes this
@LotusEyes (2716)
• India
18 Mar
@kobesbuddy That's so great. Hope you enjoyed breakfast with him
@celticeagle (159173)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Mar
Sounds like a nice visit. Sorry, they lost their dog. I hope you get to see him again soon.
1 person likes this
@celticeagle (159173)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Mar
@kobesbuddy ......Oh, good.
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
We will be visiting them again, very soon:)
1 person likes this
@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
18 Mar
That's nice Kharla.
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Chad is such a sweet young man, I really enjoyed his visit:)
@wolfgirl569 (95352)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Mar
Glad you got to see him. Lovely couple.
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Spending time with Chad was great.
1 person likes this
@RasmaSandra (73505)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
18 Mar
Nice photo, Glad you could catch up with your son,
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Mar
I am very proud of my kids, Chad is my firstborn.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
That must have been so special to see your son after so long. That's a lovely photo of the two of them.
1 person likes this
@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Mar
@kobesbuddy Will he need much time off work?
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Chad works 7 days a week, he doesn't take much time off. Tomorrow will be one of those days.
1 person likes this
18 Mar
great to know you spend time with your son
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
After almost a year, I was really glad to see him.
@Beestring (13335)
• Hong Kong
18 Mar
I'm happy for you that you got to see you son and spent time together.
1 person likes this
@kobesbuddy (74608)
• East Tawas, Michigan
18 Mar
Chad is such a wonderful young man, I'm very proud of him:)
1 person likes this