Plan B at my house. Anita won´t come to work.
By marguicha
@marguicha (230350)
Chile
October 23, 2024 9:54am CST
Anita called me and told me that she wasn´t feeling well. She won´t come to work today.
I am very much worried about her. I do know that she has cancer (again) but she doesn´t know what´s next. She had surgery in her lung a couple of months ago and she is taking what she calls some pills while the doctors make several tests.
I do know that with her basic health insurance she has to have a big illness if doctors make such fuss about her and she has immediate appointments for PET scans and the like. But she is both optimistic and ignorant and I won´tsay anything that might worry her. I only tell her that she can work only if the doctors let her. And if they don´t and she is bored at home, she can call me and come to lunch but not to work.
Today she was feeling as if she had a cold. And she was coughing over the phone. I don´t know how dangerous that is if you just have had a lung surgery.
I don´t have much to do here. I have some pots to clean and I´ll make a light lunch. Yesterday I asked Mario to fill the big bag of food for Luna at the terrace because I can´t do it and Anita shouldn´t do it either. He did it in a jiffy.
I still have some baked trout in the fridge. I´ll boil a couple of potatoes and will make a green salad. That will be all.
The only other important thing I have to do today is to cream my face and be happy that the cheeks are getting softer.
What will you do today? I´ll now go to my notifications an to your posts. See you.
I don´t have much to do here. I have some pots to clean and I´ll make a light lunch. Yesterday I asked Mario to fill the big bag of food for Luna at the terrace because I can´t do it and Anita shouldn´t do it either. He did it in a jiffy.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Oct 24
I worry about Anita as you know. I can do most of the house work, as you know. So I won´t get another maid as long as Anita things that she can come.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Oct 24
@LadyDuck My way of dealing with that is trying not to invite anyone. My house doesn´t get dirty when I´m all alone. Mario takes care of the garden. If he does not come I let it turn into a forest. I can´t work there. But neither can Anita so it is Mario or noone.
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@LadyDuck (502654)
• Italy
23 Oct 24
@marguicha - You cannot do everything, you need someone to help you.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
23 Oct 24
i'm sorry to hear that about Anita, hope she gets better.
enjoy your meal and your skin/care routine
i don't have any special plans for today. i just want to go look for some presents later today
i don't have any special plans for today. i just want to go look for some presents later today
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Oct 24
Being retired and living alone means that I just do what I want to do. Except for the doctors orders.
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@wolfgirl569 (135910)
• Marion, Ohio
23 Oct 24
Hope she feels better soon. Thinking of her.
I didn't do much today
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Oct 24
I wouldn´t mind if Anita´s ailment were just a cold. But I dread that it could be more.
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@wolfgirl569 (135910)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Oct 24
@marguicha I am thinking of might be too.
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@wolfgirl569 (135910)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Oct 24
@marguicha I would be worried too.
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@LindaOHio (222623)
• United States
24 Oct 24
I'm so sorry that Anita is not feeling well. Today my husband's 2nd cousin is taking me to a routine dentist cleaning appointment.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
24 Oct 24
I went to the dentist last week and she was on vacation. I decided to wait insted of getting another dentist.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
27 Oct 24
@LindaOHio No. I went there and she wasn´t there.
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@LindaOHio (222623)
• United States
25 Oct 24
@marguicha They didn't let you know that she was on vacation????
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@MarieCoyle (59306)
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24 Oct 24
I’m sorry to hear she is feeling badly. You are a good friend to her.
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@MarieCoyle (59306)
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24 Oct 24
@marguicha
I hope she can beat the cancer again, Marga. Very concerning, so sorry.
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@snowy22315 (209080)
• United States
24 Oct 24
That is too bad about Anita. I hope she can make it in to have lunch with you one day.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
24 Oct 24
You are so kind that you have asked Anita over not to work but to have lunch with you.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
24 Oct 24
She has been nice to me even when she started to work and didn´t know me much.
@RasmaSandra (98072)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
23 Oct 24
I was writing and searching things on my PC and also took an afternoon nap, I will put Anita in my prayers,
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
23 Oct 24
Thank you dear. I believe in colective prayer no matter from what faith.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
24 Oct 24
I am worried about Anita because the doctors will not tell her what comes next.
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@marguicha (230350)
• Chile
27 Oct 24
@JudyEv Thankfully Anita just accepts everything and prays for God to solve it all. I´m not that way.
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@JudyEv (382357)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Oct 24
@marguicha It's very annoying when doctors won't tell you much. For some people, it means they get very anxious.
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