About My Old Job

@porwest (99524)
United States
May 4, 2025 7:02am CST
My dad and I were talking recently when we were camping, and somewhere in that conversation my old job came up. "Would you ever go back?" he asked me. I hesitated. As a general rule, I never go back to a former employer. And there were circumstances that didn't feel good at all when I decided to pack it up and hand in my resignation. There are even some fairly deep wounds still there. But I did finally say, "Maybe. If he called me, I might consider it." At the same time, the conditions upon which I'd return would have to be considerably different, mostly regarding compensation. I have different goals and different plans, of course, and at the same time I know things after the fact that I didn't know then. I also think a new pay structure, while it would probably be a bit of a pay cut for me, might be more conducive to the office's success overall. At the end of our conversation, I generally concluded, "I'd be open to having a discussion with him." But I did also tell him that I was doubtful that 1) that phone call would ever come, 2) that too many egos were clashing and 3) that my former employer has ever once even considered it.
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@NJChicaa (122682)
• United States
4 May
My ex wound up being called by a former employer several years after he left the company. He wound up running the steel fabricating factory that he had worked at for so long. I was so proud of him because when we met 20+ years ago he said his goal was to run his own place. Unfortunately the company decided to shut that place down. He still works for the company but no longer is the boss.
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@NJChicaa (122682)
• United States
4 May
@porwest He is doing fine with the job he has now which is what he did for most of his time with that company anyway. I'm just glad he was able to stay with them and not have to go find a job somewhere else.
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@porwest (99524)
• United States
4 May
@NJChicaa Over the years what I found was that leaving a job was usually the best path to better opportunities. Nearly every job I have ever had was better than the last one. I am not sure that will be the case this time around since I am retired and not looking for a career anymore, and don't need the money like I did at one point in my life. But who knows? I've never not been ambitious.
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@NJChicaa (122682)
• United States
4 May
@porwest He has a similar view as you. He was never concerned about being laid off or going somewhere new. It has always worked out well for him. Me? Nope. I have my job and job security so I'm not going anywhere else.
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@lovebuglena (46162)
• Staten Island, New York
4 May
Would you want them to ask you to come back?
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@lovebuglena (46162)
• Staten Island, New York
20h
@porwest What do you think the chances are (percentage-wise) of them calling you to ask you back?
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@porwest (99524)
• United States
6 May
I am 50/50 on that, honestly.
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@porwest (99524)
• United States
18h
@lovebuglena I would have to go with zero. lol
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@moffittjc (124109)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 May
Two times over my career I received a phone call to come back to a job I had left, and both times I said no. My thought is, there were reasons I left the job in the first place, and although they could promise me things would be different the second time, in reality would they be any different? Maybe for a little while, but my bet is that things would go right back to the way they were when I decided to leave. So, with that in mind, I probably wouldn't go back to any of my former jobs.
@lovebuglena (46162)
• Staten Island, New York
4 May
If you were laid off and then they called saying they want you back would you come back?
@LindaOHio (187873)
• United States
5 May
I was pissed when I left my last job. I had been there for 15 years and planned to retire from there. They purposely went bankrupt and were bought out by another company. My boss, who said I was one of the family, treated me like #### the last few months I was there. I wouldn't go back.
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@porwest (99524)
• United States
6 May
I would have to say that the circumstances that began my first last day were not at all...rewarding or comfortable. I did write a post about it, or at least part of it a while back. Even if I did go back, that series of events would still weigh quite heavily on me. They do to this day. It's the one part of my departure that will never find its way to ever being fully mended.
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