Just call people what they want to be called

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I just can't with the MAGA hate for transgender individuals and their insistence on dead-naming them. Why can't people just address others by the name that they want to be called? The name that people know me as is not my legal first name. My parents gave me a first name and no one could agree which nickname to call me so I was a baby who responded to no name. My mother was like "just call her NJChicaa! You can't mess that up!" My parents never once called me by my first name even when they were all mad and trying to use my full name. The only people who use it are strangers and telemarketers. Ron DeSantis' Florida government is trying to punish teachers for using student names that don't match their registration name. I think I even saw that a teacher has been fired for respecting their student's wishes. Seriously? I have several students this year who want to be called something else and none of them are transgender. (well maybe 1 is but they don't talk to me so that is speculation on my part) I don't see what the issue is with calling someone by the name they prefer. That is just a basic matter of respect. A couple of years ago I saw someone that I've known for many years. He expressed interest in teaching but said he wouldn't be able to address a student by a different name. I whipped out my drivers license and showed it to him. I said "will you now be upset by still calling me NJChicaa?". That shut him up pretty fast. I saw a meme today about how the world will now call someone (the new pope) by their chosen name and look how easy it is to do. I thought that was perfect. People are fine with calling Robert Prevost "Pope Leo XIV" but they won't call someone "Sarah" or "Aidan". It costs no more energy to use someone's preferred name than it does to be offensive and rude.