Bygone Days

@Juliaacv (53856)
Canada
June 15, 2025 2:39pm CST
Today, Father's Day is bittersweet for me. I know that I am not alone. Anyone who has lost a Dad or who is surviving the loss of their children's Dad, knows this feeling. I spent alot of time today in 2009. That was my own Dad's last Father's Day in his earthly life. He was so very sick. I hardly recognized him when he came into the living room on that day. He was hospitalized the following day for the very last time. And he went on before us on July 4, 2009. And although that was alot of years ago, it feels like it was a heartbeat ago. ~Photo is mine
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@wolfgirl569 (117590)
• Marion, Ohio
14h
Time passes way to fast. I miss mine too
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
13h
You must have had amazing parents too. My Dad was my favorite person in the entire world.
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
12h
@wolfgirl569 My mother was a strange read. She preferred her 3 sons over me, her only daughter. I was fortunate enough that my Gramma recognized this and took me under her wing and taught me so many things that I needed to know.
@wolfgirl569 (117590)
• Marion, Ohio
12h
@Juliaacv My mom was
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@LadyDuck (476434)
• Italy
1h
We celebrate father's day on March 19 and the last father's day of my beloved Dad was March 19th, 1976, a so long time ago, but I still remember.
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
1h
I am sorry that he passed so young.
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
19m
@LadyDuck Ron's family went through that when George passed away in his sleep while napping before supper all of those years ago.
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@LadyDuck (476434)
• Italy
1h
@Juliaacv - It was so unexpected, we were all shocked, hard to recover.
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• United States
15h
I agree that Fathers day is bittersweet. My dad passed away in 1981 and that also feels like a heartbeat ago. A day hasn't gone by that i don't miss him
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
14h
We were both very blessed to have been born to such loving and wonderful Dads.
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• United States
11h
@Juliaacv absolutely
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@JudyEv (356048)
• Rockingham, Australia
11h
I'm sorry for your loss. It's really hard to lose those we love. Our 'Irish' son rang last night. It's Father's Day in Ireland but not in Australia so we get two special days each year as Mother's Day is different too.
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
1h
You are lucky to be able to enjoy 2 days. I hope that the Irish son is doing well these days.
11h
Do you visit 2009 quite often Sometimes I get lost in 2005.
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@Juliaacv (53856)
• Canada
1h
Yes, I do. I know that you told me that was a terrible year, I can imagine. I get stuck in 1991, that was the year that our daughter passed.