Death of a friend

@1creekgirl (44085)
United States
July 12, 2025 2:32pm CST
We just learned that a lifelong friend of ours passed away last night. It was rather sudden, she seemed fine not too long ago. Not sure, but I think it was cancer that she just didn't know about. She was about 83. Vivian was one of those quirky people that kept everyone laughing. Her first husband and I were third cousins and our small group of friends all had babies about the same time. We'd party at each other's homes, sometimes dancing at the local Moose Lodge. One time after a get together at Vivian and Gordon's, we were leaving around midnight and Vivian was in the kitchen sweeping and mopping the floor. I don't think she ever slept. Our boys were best buddies in school and Boy Scouts. Gordon and Dale were close friends, too. Dale said Gordon was his first friend when we moved to NC. Our community won't be quite as much fun without Vivian. She was a character for sure. But I know she's with Jesus, probably making Him laugh about something.
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• United States
12 Jul
I'm very sorry for your loss. It's hard to lose friends of so many years. They are at peace now. Your story was sweet. You clearly loved her. My condolences, Vicki.
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• United States
12 Jul
@1creekgirl I guess we're never prepared for old age.
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• United States
12 Jul
@1creekgirl I am hoping to make it to Medicare, lol.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
12 Jul
@Vikingswest1 You're right, 83 isn't young, but I still don't feel especially old at 77. Well, most days anyway.
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@Juliaacv (54812)
• Canada
12 Jul
I am sorry for your loss, of both a dear friend, fellow cancer battler and family member. May she RIP
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@Juliaacv (54812)
• Canada
13 Jul
@1creekgirl You're welcome Vicki, she will be waiting for you and the rest of your friends when your turns come up.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
@Juliaacv I do believe I'll see her again one day.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
Thank you, Julia, I appreciate it.
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@AmbiePam (102261)
• United States
12 Jul
Oh, Vicki. I’m so sorry you lost such a tremendous person in your life, but thank the Lord she’s with Jesus. And thank you for sharing with us about Vivian.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
12 Jul
I appreciate your kind words, Amber.
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@LeaPea2417 (38323)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Jul
I'm sorry to read this
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@LeaPea2417 (38323)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Jul
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
Thank you so much.
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@RasmaSandra (88534)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Jul
So sorry for your loss, Always sad to lose friend, I lost my best friend for whom I moved to Florida to live above her and her family and this year I cannot believe she has been gone already two years. I feel like she should still be here, Virtual hugs,
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@RasmaSandra (88534)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Jul
@1creekgirl thank you and their problems are over and they are much happier up above. BTW the book has helped a lot I read passages one per night and looked up verses in the Bible, Really enjoyed.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
12 Jul
Times goes faster every day. I'm sorry about your friend, too.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
12 Jul
@RasmaSandra I'm so glad you're enjoying the book! I pray it continues to bless you.
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@LindaOHio (199559)
• United States
13 Jul
I am so, so sorry. It's tough to lose someone that you've known for so long. Thank you for sharing your memories of her with us.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
I appreciate your kindness, Linda.
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@LindaOHio (199559)
• United States
13 Jul
@1creekgirl You're very welcome.
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@snowy22315 (195347)
• United States
13 Jul
Aww, it is hard to lose a friend. RIP Vivian!
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
Thanks, Snowy!
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@DaddyEvil (158495)
• United States
12 Jul
My sincere condolences for the loss of your friend.
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@sallypup (65853)
• Centralia, Washington
12 Jul
I'm sorry for your loss.
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@JudyEv (362217)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Jul
I'm sorry you've lost such a good and funny friend. I'm sure she'll be very much missed.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
She was one of a kind for sure.
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• Phoenix, Arizona
13 Jul
I am so sorry to hear that. It sounds like she had a full life and was very loved. I am glad she is at peace and that you were able to share such lovely memories of her with us.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
Thank you for your kind words.
@Shiva49 (27496)
• Singapore
13 Jul
Some of my acquaintances have left for good beyond this shore. I often recall our friendships. I am sure Vivian will carry with her the humor and zest for life.
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@1creekgirl (44085)
• United States
13 Jul
I believe there will be people in heaven who will be happy to see her.
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