Would you marry a ghost ?
By Traceyjayne
@Traceyjayne (6644)
United Kingdom
September 8, 2025 5:55pm CST
I watch some daft programmes, I really do !
At the moment I am watching a programme called “ First Dates “
This is where single people go to a restaurant for a blind date, a nice meal and a few drinks. It’s all recorded.
At the moment one if the people on a date is a lady who I have seen on other programmes …..
As she married a ghost !!!
It’s one thing saying you believe in ghosts, and also you have seen a ghost …..but to say you had a relationship with a ghost and married them …..not sure I can accept all of that ….
What do you think ?
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@DaddyEvil (161923)
• United States
9 Sep
There is a ghost in this house. She looks to be a lovely young lady but I don't see how anyone could marry or have a relationship with a ghost. The ghost here is usually sitting on the edge of my bed when I wake up and then walks out of my room through the closed bedroom door if I move or say something to her. (My bedroom is always dark. I have blackout curtains over the windows.) The first time I saw her watching me, I thought she was Pretty watching me sleep and couldn't figure out why she was in my bedroom... I asked "What are you doing?" and was shocked when the ghost got up and walked through my closed bedroom door.
We do see her in other rooms of the house. A lot of the time when I'm cooking in the kitchen, the ghost stands in the corner, watching me chop onions or stirring something on the stove. (When I first mentioned the ghost to Pretty, she thought I'd lost my marbles until she saw the ghost watching the fishies in their tank in the living room.)
We do see her in other rooms of the house. A lot of the time when I'm cooking in the kitchen, the ghost stands in the corner, watching me chop onions or stirring something on the stove. (When I first mentioned the ghost to Pretty, she thought I'd lost my marbles until she saw the ghost watching the fishies in their tank in the living room.)@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
That’s very interesting….do you recognise her ….or do you think she used to live there before ….?
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@DaddyEvil (161923)
• United States
9 Sep
@Traceyjayne The age comments wouldn't be as fun if I wasn't older than you. 
I think so, too. She's always wearing a pale green dress with those little shoulder sleeves that don't connect to the dress in the front or bottom. They're just for looking pretty, I think. The dress doesn't reach her knees, either, but it's not very short. The hemline is just above her knees and the dress looks floaty, if that makes sense to you.
I think so, too. She's always wearing a pale green dress with those little shoulder sleeves that don't connect to the dress in the front or bottom. They're just for looking pretty, I think. The dress doesn't reach her knees, either, but it's not very short. The hemline is just above her knees and the dress looks floaty, if that makes sense to you.@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
@DaddyEvil the sleeves that are not attached to the dress are not to look pretty but because she didn’t have much money and couldn’t afford whole outfits, the sleeves could be added to different dresses ….dresses without sleeves were cheaper …so if they hadn’t much money they would buy dresses without sleeves then just one pair of sleeves to wear with all dresses..
I am old so I know that !
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@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
I think ghosts are different to genies …..
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@May2k8 (19274)
• Indonesia
10 Sep
@Traceyjayne exactly right, Ghosts are very similar to humans, while genies can change shape to resemble whatever they want.
@Orson_Kart (7872)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
I don’t watch First Dates, but I’ve seen clips on Gogglebox. Not heard about the woman marrying a ghost, but I did read about a woman marrying a rag doll. She’s even claimed to have had a rag doll baby too. I think that’s just as bizarre as marrying a ghost. There’s some crazy people out there! 
@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
I remember her from a clip I saw when she was on This Morning, talking about marrying a ghost. I recognised her when I saw her on First Dates, she mentioned a relationship but not that they had married. She may be had been told to tone it down.
@RasmaSandra (90973)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Sep
I happen to know there is a world beyond and unusual things can happen but in my case I have been longing to have my husband return in spirit and spend some time with me, I have had contact and been with him but want so much more, I would not marry a spirit.
@RasmaSandra (90973)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Sep
@Traceyjayne and the best thing is that I know he's out there and that means a lot,
@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
Can you tell me more about how you have had contact ?
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@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
@RasmaSandra that’s so lovely x thank you for sharing x
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@aninditasen (17814)
• Raurkela, India
9 Sep
That's very strange. I believe in ghosts but haven't seen one and don't want to see one.
@Traceyjayne (6644)
• United Kingdom
9 Sep
Do you think all ghosts will scare you ? Do you not think they might be friendly ?
@rsa101 (40482)
• Philippines
9 Sep
That’s definitely one of those stories that makes you stop and shake your head. Believing in ghosts is one thing, but marrying one takes it to a whole new level! I guess for some, it’s more about the symbolism or the emotional connection they feel rather than something literal.
Personally, I’d say it’s entertaining to watch, but hard to truly accept as reality. Still, shows like *First Dates* thrive on these unusual stories—that’s what makes people keep watching!
@Deepizzaguy (116235)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
9 Sep
I could never marry a ghost if she was friendlier than Casper the Friendly Ghost,
