I disappeared not on my own will.
@id_peace (16843)
Singapore
September 14, 2025 2:10am CST
I had disappeared for nearly 2 weeks. I had overtime for the work that I am currently doing. Still no news on the other company when they will release a headcount. I had to wait.
1. I had a lot of overtime and despite of that, my work still could not be cleared. I was faced with many queries as I did not have a way to resolve things. I turned to the specific departments who decided to push the information back to me. There were some loud disagreement and some nasty words were used. My department head seem to be avoiding me over the extended period of time. it was as if he was there to make me the scapegoat should the project fail.
2.It was on last Thursday that my Endocrine Specialist decided the Hormone replacement pill which I am taking every day was too strong. He decided to reduce my dosage by a little and see what happen from there. I will see him in 3 months time.
3. After my father's cancer treatment which spend about $80,000 through insurance, we are due for the insurance renewal. We are to pay for $13,000 in total for the medical insurance. That translate to $4,500 per person. It is around $380 per month to be paid to the insurer. Tough but we will have to pay the money.
4. I will continue to be busy with my job. I can only come in once awhile till the projects are over. Or I get fired. Whichever that comes first.
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@LindaOHio (204683)
• United States
14 Sep
It's good to see you again. How is your father doing? Thank you for the update.
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@id_peace (16843)
• Singapore
20 Sep
@LindaOHio Not mental challenges but mental fatigue. Almost on overtime everyday.
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@LindaOHio (204683)
• United States
17 Sep
@id_peace I'm sorry you are having mental challenges. I hope you feel better soon.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (17052)
• China
14 Sep
Hope everything will work out fine and you will get an ideal job !
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@DaddyEvil (160478)
• United States
14 Sep
That is a lot of money but yeah, bills have to be paid. I hope your dad is doing better now.
I hope the medicine change works for you. I had to call my doctor about a med change for my thyroid problems last week. I needed an increase in the medication.
It always makes it harder to do your job when you can't get all the information you need and others withhold it from you. A boss should be available when you need them... I hope your boss isn't setting you up to take the blame for anything. Can you go over your direct boss's head to his boss for the answers/help you need?
You're fine here. Whenever you have time and can come here is okay. We'll always talk with you and listen if you need to talk. 
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@DaddyEvil (160478)
• United States
16 Sep
@id_peace Your boss should care, though. You're a productive member of his team. If he really doesn't care, then he's not running his department right and somebody needs to go over his head and tell the CEO about the problems.
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@snowy22315 (198019)
• United States
14 Sep
Oh, lot of news none of it very good. I'm sorry 
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@annierose (21660)
• Philippines
14 Sep
Wow, you’ve really had a lot on your plate these past couple of weeks. I really hope things at work ease up soon and that you don’t end up carrying all the blame. How are you managing to cope with everything?
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@id_peace (16843)
• Singapore
16 Sep
Mentally I am probably like a forgetful mad scientist, having to do a lot of things all at once.
@allknowing (154176)
• India
15 Sep
Hope your job issues are sorted out and you will be at peace
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@xstitcher (36204)
• Petaluma, California
8 Oct
I hope that your father continues to do well and the projects will go quickly.
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@id_peace (16843)
• Singapore
11 Oct
Ah yes, he is definitely doing well. The projects are going better than expected.
