Good morning mylot...I think.
By Marie Coyle
@MarieCoyle (49077)
September 27, 2025 10:49am CST
Sometimes, the day just doesn't start out right. Today was one of those times.
I woke up early this morning as the phone was ringing. I am always concerned when it rings really early in the morning. My cousin called to say her Dad (my uncle) died this morning. This is the very last family member of the elder generation. I am close with this cousin, so we talk often. Her Dad did not have any quality of life left. He was in a memory care nursing home, as his memories and his mind had been so bad, he had Alzheimer's. He could remember intricate things, but everyday memories were completely gone. His wife died a few years ago of heart failure. In the last few months, he couldn't remember the name of his two adult children, he knew that the faces were familiar, but they had to tell him on their visits that he was their Dad. He was 94. He was such a good fellow, helped me move several times, mowed my big yard when I was sick, etc. One of the best of the really old school generation. I like to think that now he will be reunited with his wife and oldest son, he missed and loved them so much.
We are basically living in a dust storm here, it's harvest time in the Midwest, and the farmers are out day and night. We have had only a few tiny showers in weeks, and we need some rain so badly. All of this dust has affected people with allergies, and I have that problem. Yes, I take meds for allergies, but nothing is strong enough to combat this thick dust and it's just not fun. It keeps triggering me to get migraines, which I hate.
Today, I hope to get some things caught up here at home. I plan to pace myself and not overdo it. I may even take a nap!
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@FourWalls (79043)
• United States
27 Sep
I’m sorry to hear about the passing of your uncle. My prayers and condolences.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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27 Sep
Thank you so much. He was one of the best, he and his wife were married over 70 years. They were good and loving parents and raised some great kids.
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@allknowing (154146)
• India
28 Sep
I know those living will miss your uncle but don't you think he is better off now? RIP
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
I honestly do. As I said, he had no quality of life, was completely bedridden, and he had almost no memory of anything. It was hard to even see him and think about how healthy and vital he was before. Thank you.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
Snowy, you speak the truth here. We do miss them and remember. 

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@arunima25 (92454)
• Bangalore, India
27 Sep
Prayers and Condolences for the departed soul.
Allergies can be really annoying. Sorry that the storm dust is making it bad for you. We had too much of rain here this year, it has been damp for months now. I wish I could send some there.
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@arunima25 (92454)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep
@MarieCoyle Yes, weather these days go in extreme. Most of our states this year have faced monsoon mayhem.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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27 Sep
Thank you.
I wish you could send us some, too. It seems we either have not enough rain, or way too much!
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@Laurakemunto (13252)
• Kenya
28 Sep
Receive my sincere condolences may he dance with the angels. I trust tour meds will help keep the allergy at bay. I do have an allergy too for cold temperatures but I do manage without meds
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
I would rather not take any meds I do not need. But if the allergies are not treated, my eyes are always streaming tears and I am miserable from dust, etc. Medicines help people a lot with allergies.
Thank you, Laura.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
@Laurakemunto
Allergies can be very inconvenient. No one wants to go anywhere if they know that the allergies are in a bad spell and medications can only be taken when needed. I don't like to take meds that I don't need. But I also don't want people to think I am crying all the time, either, not to mention sneezing can be really miserable, too.
@Laurakemunto (13252)
• Kenya
28 Sep
@MarieCoyle aaah sorry Marie I also experience that too my eyes so red and with tears people do ask why but am grateful it's becoming less sever compared to how it used to be while I was growing up. Allergies are very notorious that's what I know most of the time it requires more of management than reliance on medication.
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@snowy22315 (196762)
• United States
27 Sep
Sorry to hear about your uncle...I so hope that he has been reunited with loved ones now.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
Thank you so much, Snowy. He had a very strong faith, as did his wife. I bet he is reunited with my Aunt right this minute.
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@crossbones27 (51246)
• Mojave, California
27 Sep
No day starts right anymore. Why my sister and I just say mornings because if you say good morning one of us will say whats so freaking good about it?
I hope weather calms down not its fall.

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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
I’m so sorry. I hope things are better for you and your family soon.
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@wolfgirl569 (122974)
• Marion, Ohio
27 Sep
Sorry about your uncle.
Hope you get some rain soon
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
No rain yet...but I remain hopeful. Thank you, Eva.
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@RasmaSandra (89366)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Sep
Sorry to hear about the passing of your uncle, Blessings to your family, Oh, they are going to have the happiest reunion on the other side,
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
They were so, so devoted to each other. I agree, a very happy reunion!
Thank you, Rasma.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
I knew he wasn't going to last much longer, but it still hit me that he was gone. But he was ready and couldn't wait to see his wife. Thank you.
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@anya12adwi (10251)
• India
27 Sep
Dust storm?? I am sorry for your and your cousin's loss!
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
Sort of like a dust storm. The dust from the harvesting process is thick and it is very irritating to breathe it.
@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
Memory loss is hard. Hard for the person suffering from it, and hard for the family and those close to the person. Thank you, yes, he is with his loved ones now.
@LindaOHio (201870)
• United States
28 Sep
I'm so sorry to hear about your uncle.
I hope you get some rain to settle the dust.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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28 Sep
Thank you, Linda.
No rain in site as of now. Our air quality here is very poor.
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@AmbiePam (103542)
• United States
27 Sep
I hate to hear of a wonderful human passing away, but I’m so glad he is no longer bound by the cruelty of Alzheimer’s. No longer having to suffer is a huge gift.
You need an air purifier; do you think that would help? Allergies are bad enough, but all that dirt in the air just piles on the bad.
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@Juliaacv (54920)
• Canada
27 Sep
I am sorry for your loss.
I have no living uncles left, only 3 aunts.
I feel badly for your cousins, as losing someone to Alzheimers is losing them twice, once when their memory fails, and that hurts beyond words because they have flickers of memory on their good days, and then when their vessel fails, it hurts some more. At least at that point, mor me anyways, I found it a bit of a relief knowing that her soul, not the soul taken over by the illness (if that makes sense) was with Dad, the love of her life that the illness forced her to forget.
They are combining beans outside of our city and our air is dusty too. Our son lives on the last street of the city, the houses across the street from him back onto a field. I am sure that with the fields being harvested, the field mice will be on the run.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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27 Sep
You are correct in the saying that when memory problems set in, you lose the person twice. Cousin and I were saying that this morning when she called. That’s the hardest part, for everyone involved.
Most definitely harvesting runs the mice and other creatures out of the farm fields. They most generally head for shelter where they can find it.
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@MarieCoyle (49077)
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27 Sep
I am hopeful for that, too. Thank you so much, Lenore
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