I´m waiting for my sister.

@marguicha (228830)
Chile
October 18, 2025 7:45am CST
My sister is in Santiago as my BIL will have a cactaract procedure. She will come alone, as usual, as my BIL does not want to see me. Nor, after over 10 years do I want to see him. They either stay at my brother´s house or at my BIL´s sisters´ home. And my sister comes for a little while to say hello. It is weird that I feel closer to people that are not blood relatives than to people of my own blood. I even feel closer to many of you, mylot friends, than to them. Do you have problems with your blood relatives?
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@LadyDuck (485186)
• Italy
8h
Yes, I have problems with my brother, even if yesterday he sent me a message... I hope he needs nothing.
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
8h
I know that your brother is like ny brother. He knows everything in the world.
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
6h
@LadyDuck Weird.
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@LadyDuck (485186)
• Italy
7h
@marguicha Exactly. Yesterday it was my brother's birthday. As I always did, I sent him a simple "Happy Birthday". He never thanked, but yesterday he thanked and asked if I am well. I am concerned.
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@snowy22315 (197543)
• United States
9h
Not like that no. Did you have a fight with your bro in law?
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
8h
He never said what bothered him.
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@snowy22315 (197543)
• United States
8h
@marguicha Maybe you should ask your sis I know I would be curious even if it didn't change anything
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
6h
@snowy22315 It seems that my BIL told her then that if he saw me again, he´d have heart problems. Later on, several years after we had stopped seeing each other, he had open heart surgery. Not my fault, I thought.
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@Tampa_girl7 (53545)
• United States
7h
We all get along well. I am close to my sister’s. Our brother doesn’t come around much. We feel that his wife doesn’t care for us. He will occasionally get together with us minus her.
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
6h
My sister comes to see me alone.
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@wolfgirl569 (123699)
• Marion, Ohio
7h
I am closer to friends than a lot of my family
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@marguicha (228830)
• Chile
6h
It happens the same here.
@RasmaSandra (89917)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
39m
No more realtive to have problems with and the few I have are in Latvia. Glad your sister will be able to visit with you.