Ties, flings or love?

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Kenya
December 28, 2025 1:43am CST
December is a month that's a beehive of activities . Meeting old friends, relatives that we have not seen the whole year. And I have noticed also on December many relationships happen . So am wondering it is casual flings, confusion, lust or true love. Your thoughts are important
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@DaddyEvil (164449)
• United States
28 Dec
I think it's for convenience because people don't want to be alone during the holidays. But those relationships also don't last. When people aren't making the rounds of parties and family gatherings, there's no reason for them to remain a couple.
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• Kenya
30 Dec
I get you I've been seeing many men trying to woo me especially on Christmas Eve now they're gone
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@DaddyEvil (164449)
• United States
30 Dec
@Laurakemunto I think that's silly. If you don't want the person after the holidays, how much love do you think is there? You're well worth loving. Hang on until you find the right man for you.
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• Kenya
12h
@DaddyEvil you very right what I've seen during this holiday and any other Christmas and new year is full of dlings
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@jstory07 (147095)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Dec
It would depend on the two people involved as to what the relationship would be.
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• Kenya
30 Dec
Very true being honest and knowing the intention of the connection is key
@LadyDuck (489778)
• Italy
28 Dec
People feel sad being alone during the Holidays. This is why we tend to want to see people in late December.
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@LadyDuck (489778)
• Italy
12h
@Laurakemunto - I am glad that the charities organize Christmas and New Year events and prepare the lunch for those who are alone.
• Kenya
30 Dec
Yea because it would be so sad to be alone during celebrations and everything
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• India
29 Dec
December definitely feels like a beehive of activity, filled with reunions, celebrations, and emotional energy. Most people meet old friends and relatives; memories and feelings often resurface. The festive mood lowers guards and makes people more open, vulnerable, and expressive. Atleast from what I have seen and experienced. This can sometimes lead to genuine connections, but it can also create confusion. For some, it’s nostalgia or loneliness dressed up as romance. For others, it may simply be attraction amplified by the season and social gatherings. It all depends on the circumstances around the person. According to me, True love usually reveals itself over time, not just in a moment of holiday excitement. December can spark something meaningful, but it also tests once routine returns. So whether it’s love or a fleeting moment often becomes clear after the festivities fade. Enjoy the time!
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• Kenya
12h
Yes well said and you've summed it up well I appreciate your depth insight about this. Wishing you a happy new year
@Tina2026 (25)
• London, England
28 Dec
I would say December is just a normal month, celebrating Christmas and looking forward to the new year.
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• Kenya
30 Dec
That's great it's also a relaxed month in terms of work
@Akutza90 (279)
• Semarang, Indonesia
29 Dec
Holidays are not complete without a partner. Hehe
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• Kenya
30 Dec
But am single hehe
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• Kenya
12h
@Akutza90 haha I haven't seen one so am just here but 2026 I am getting one
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@Akutza90 (279)
• Semarang, Indonesia
16h
@Laurakemunto I hope you find a partner quickly before the new year starts.
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@AmbiePam (109058)
• United States
28 Dec
This is what they call “cuffing” season. People feel like they want to be with someone into the holidays, and they also don’t want to be alone for Valentine’s Day. However, if those are your reasons for being together, the relationship soon runs it’s course, and ends shortly after that.
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• Kenya
30 Dec
Yea it behaves like the seasonal rivers to be precise
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@JudyEv (368211)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Dec
I guess people are a bit more open and relaxed around Christmas time.
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• Kenya
30 Dec
Yes yes it's a time when people are more relaxed no job pressure and everything
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