Introverted love / myLot

Kenya

January 3, 2026 1:04pm CST

Can someone love you and still not talk to you? Yes many phycological sources say so. But if your heart wants someone, why don't you act like it? It's confusing right? Happy new year to all mylotters wishing you a year full of joy,love and endless possibilities

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Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (83646)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

3 Jan

Love is one emotion many still don't understand. People show their love in many ways.

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (13791)

• Kenya

4 Jan

Yea but being silent and never expressing it is a killer disease don't you think?

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Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (83646)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

4 Jan

@Laurakemunto No, not really. Love can be expressed without words. Think of babies, they love those who care for them, but can't talk until about a year old. What about deaf and non-verbal autistics, don't you think they don't feel and express love? Love looks different for different people. My husband hasn't told me he loves me since his stroke, but he'll rub my back, watch t.v. with me, asks me to spend time with him listening to music on the porch....

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (13791)

• Kenya

4 Jan

@kaylachan yes I agree you've brought it up so well. I wish you more happy moments with your husband

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George B Vieto

@Deepizzaguy (119462)

• Lake Charles, Louisiana

3 Jan

In my case it is a case of fear of offending someone.

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (13791)

• Kenya

4 Jan

Speaking up your mind in the right way isn't an offence unless it's going to be said in a wrong and disrespectful way

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George B Vieto

@Deepizzaguy (119462)

• Lake Charles, Louisiana

4 Jan

@Laurakemunto You are right.

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Laura

@Laurakemunto (13791)

• Kenya

5 Jan

@Deepizzaguy

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@DaddyEvil (170562)

• United States

3 Jan

Some people can't read the signals others are putting out so don't know the person is in love with them. Most men can't read the signals a woman thinks are obvious. So they don't talk to them or pay much attention to them. Even when a man does pay attention, if the woman doesn't make it obvious, the guy stops because he thinks his love is hopeless. Young people now think everybody hates them so they won't even try.

Happy New Year! I hope everything goes the way you need it to this year!

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@DaddyEvil (170562)

• United States

4 Jan

@Laurakemunto You're very welcome. Most people "falling in love" in the US don't know what love is yet. They're still young and haven't figured themselves out let alone how to appeal to someone else. When they can't figure themselves out, how can they expect someone else to understand them?

Laura

@Laurakemunto (13791)

• Kenya

4 Jan

Thanks a lot for the deep answer and am happy but it's good for a person to seek clarity before just concluding anyhow

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