~He Left To Another State~ / myLot

Valdosta, Georgia

January 19, 2026 6:34pm CST

Hey there! I know it's been a while since I have been here again. As I said last time I was planning on divorcing my narcissistic husband. I was praying for months about where we would go and what I would do. Well...the Lord worked it out as I stayed faithful in prayer. The "husband" left for his home state. I didn't have to leave, figure things out, worry, or anything. GOD did it! Has anything worked out for you while you stood in faith? On another note, I made steak for the first time the other night and it came out so yummy! Have you made anything delicious lately?

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Marie Coyle

@MarieCoyle (55605)

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20 Jan

Starting over can be tough but staying married to someone who is like that is horrible. It’s so much better for you and your family to be on your own in this case. You sound like a strong woman and you can get through this and build a better life, I’m sure of it.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

21 Jan

@MarieCoyle 100%! My children and I are SO much happier and my kids behavior has improved so much since he's been gone as well. I cannot believe the difference, and I am so grateful for it! Thank you very much. Most days I don't feel strong at all, but I'm trusting the Lord through it all.

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Marie Coyle

@MarieCoyle (55605)

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24 Jan

@LovingMyBabies That's the best way, to trust in Him. He's carried me through so very much. I am glad the children and you are all happier now, I know how much that means. Take good care!!

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ShannyBananny

@shaggin (74816)

• United States

20 Jan

I’m glad that situation turned out in your favor! Are you still doing photography? I’m not on instagram much to see.

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ShannyBananny

@shaggin (74816)

• United States

20 Jan

@LovingMyBabies it’s a great hobby/passion

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

20 Jan

@shaggin Hey there! Thank you. I am doing photography, it's such a blessing. =)

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Anna

@LadyDuck (494826)

• Italy

20 Jan

Hello Jennifer I am glad to hear from you. I remember you wrote about your narcissistic husband. Now you are free.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

20 Jan

@LadyDuck Yes ma'am, so glad to be here. I am free and so are my babies. I'm so grateful! Narcissistic abuse is so so awful.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

20 Jan

@LadyDuck Me too, thank you!

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Anna

@LadyDuck (494826)

• Italy

20 Jan

@LovingMyBabies - I am so glad you do not need to stay with that man anymore.

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RasmaSandra

@RasmaSandra (94991)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

21 Jan

Glad the situation got settled in your favor and as they say you are now free and that is most important, Are you all together with your family?

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

27 Jan

@RasmaSandra I grew up in a home my whole life with abuse, so I would never go back there. Me and the kids are living in the house we have been in for a few years now. =)

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Gayle Harrelson

@2ndchances24 (11802)

• Cloverdale, Indiana

20 Jan

"Has anything worked out for you while you stood in faith?" God works in a lot of ways most don't think about, so they think it's just luck, but I can surely tell you all he has done in my life that isn't & wasn't just luck, & I'm grateful to be alive.

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

20 Jan

@2ndchances24 Oh yes! I am SO much more independent, I have learned to set boundaries, I have grown in faith, I am learning to drive and the Lord has taught me to lean more on Him and not my own ways. I am so grateful! Every little thing in this world is a blessing and a miracle-we just have to be open to see them.

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Gayle Harrelson

@2ndchances24 (11802)

• Cloverdale, Indiana

22 Jan

@LovingMyBabies Amen, that's no joke.

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Jimbo45

@Ineeddentures (20535)

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20 Jan

Send me some Steak please. Haven't had a Steak in over a month. I did cook Fish and Chips tonight which I posted about. Im glad.you didn't have to leave

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

20 Jan

@ineeddentures I would if it would taste good still! It was my first time cooking it because it's so expensive so I definitely don't usually buy it but I treated me and the kids. =) Thank you, me too!

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Jimbo45

@Ineeddentures (20535)

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20 Jan

@LovingMyBabies Expensive here too. We used to have a steak every week, not now. I like my steak quite rare. Basically of it's say about two inches thick Use a very hot pan, 4 minutes on each side and let it rest. I rub it with oil, salt, pepper on both sides and leaves it at room temperature prior to cooking

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Amber

@AmbiePam (114191)

• United States

20 Jan

Even though you needed to get away from the narcissistic loser, I know divorce is still sad. No one ever goes into marriage thinking it will happen. But you have obviously grown in your relationship with Jesus, and I am glad to hear that because it is the most important thing. I pray nothing but blessings come your way soon!

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85822)

• Valdosta, Georgia

27 Jan

@AmbiePam Thank you so much! That is very true, I have grieved that part (losing the marriage) for a couple of years already. I feel as though as I have been divorced for years already to be honest. Thank you for praying for me and my babies, that means the world to me!

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