Where are You/They?
By Toni
@toniganzon (72785)
Philippines
January 28, 2026 6:22am CST
This question enters my mind whenever I come back in mylot after hibernating.
I search for old friends, those closest to me or I start a discussion crossing my fingers they'd see it and leave a comment. Especially those who don't or rarely start their own discussion.
I know that some of the members here have exchanged emails and interacted outside of mylot. I have probably only two but don't interact with them regularly. And when I'm extremely busy, it's just impossible for me to have a chat.
So I apologize to those I have left. One became bitter and almost mute lol! I miss mylot and I miss interacting with all of you.
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9 responses
@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
19h
Saem here. I can't be angry. I don't have that right too when a friend leaves. It might make me a bit sad and miss them. I remember my very first best friend here was Chuyins but we reconnected on fb and even interacted for awhile until he became a dean in one of the Universities in the country, got married and then the communication stopped.
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@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
8h
@LadyDuck That's nice. There was this Indian guy here in the old mylot and one Filipino woman who was on Skype with me long time ago. The woman was older than me and had a crush on that young Indian guy. The three of us would talked on Skype man years ago.
But I don't know where they are anymore. They just disappeared because I was still on Skype even until now that it changed into Teams coz that's where I hold my online meetings.
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@LadyDuck (491807)
• Italy
18h
@toniganzon I am also still in touch with a young Indian man who I met when I still was on Bubblews. He left, but I chat with him sometimes on fb.
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@Ineeddentures (15403)
•
17h
Bitter!! Mute!!
Ah well that's not me
Because I'm chatty and full of glee
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@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
7h
@Ineeddentures The only thing I could think of to shut you up is a kiss.
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@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
9h
Same. Last night, I told my son about mylot and those friends who are no longer here.
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@DianneN (247551)
• United States
5h
@toniganzon I told my husband. One was very close and dear to me.
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@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
9h
True. To have a break is ok because life can get in the way sometimes. But to permanently leave, it's sad.
@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
19h
So you are still here too. Nice to see another old familiar name from the past.
@AmbiePam (111308)
• United States
18h
I am lucky to have email and phone numbers and addresses as well as Facebook connections that keep me in touch with Mylotters outside of the site. I want to make sure I can get in touch with several people in case this site up and ends someday. I’d be sad if I were left floundering without a way to check on them. But I try to remember people are very busy, and have lives. I do try to let people know I’m at least okay if they bothered to get ahold of me, but a long conversation isn’t always possible.
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@toniganzon (72785)
• Philippines
9h
That is nice that you can keep in touch with them and let them know of your whereabouts.
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@celticeagle (184861)
• Boise, Idaho
9h
It is always nice to get your input and views on things. I had one become bitter and incommunicative at one point too. I had gotten busy and wasn't around. I felt bad but life does seem to happen at times.
Happy days with friends ahead for you I hope.
