I’m So Sorry

Thanks so much. She told me a few minutes ago that she will text me tonight if it’s okay to visit him tomorrow. His sister just flew in, and she never flies down.

I saw my friend this morning as she was leaving for the hospital. She’s going to text me when she gets back tonight to let me know if he’s well enough for a visit.

I pray he will be.

@rebelann So do we.

I’m sure she needs the support just as much as he does. I hope he’s well enough for us to see him. She will text us tonight.

Yes, they both do. She’s going to text me tonight on how he’s doing.

She’ll text me tonight if he’s well enough. Saw her this morning.

Thanks. We had such big plans for this year. Saw her this morning and she’s going to text me tonight if it’s okay to visit.

His sister flew in this morning and she never flies in.

I saw my friend this morning and she will text me when she returns from the hospital if it’s okay to visit him tomorrow. I have to abide by her wishes.

@DianneN - It must be very hard to meet people and smile when you only want to rest and to sleep.

@LadyDuck She needs the company, too. We need to see him one last time, because he’s not doing well.

I just saw my friend on her way to the hospital. She’s going to text me tonight if he’s well enough for us to come visit him.

@DianneN Not everybody is the same. I was just telling you what I'd prefer. I hope, for your sake, that he comes out of the hospital a well man. I'm sure you'll choose the right thing for you and them.

I'm with you on that - I want to see people when I'm fit and healthy not feeling like sh*t!

We just pray that he can come out of the hospital. He can only speak in whispers due to being so weak. I ran into my friend this morning. She’s going to text me when she returns from the hospital to let me know if he’s well enough to visit. We’ve been close friends for years and have seen each other at our worst so many times. I’m certain he would love seeing us, especially my husband. They are very close. My friend needs the companionship and support . She’s beside herself.

We hope to. Our friend told me this morning that she will text us tonight if he’s well enough.

He may never be well enough to come home. He has so many horrible heart problems including congestive heart failure, a defibrillator, and COPD. Legs extremely swollen due to fluid buildup, extremely weak, falls asleep in the middle of a sentence when talking, can’t stand or walk, etc…. AAnd all this before his heart surgery. Still the same and barely eating. We already sent a card and a couple of gifts. We’re such good and close friends and have seen each other at our worst. He wouldn’t care what he looked like in front of us. Hubs and I need to see him, especially if he never recovers. Saw my friend on the way to the hospital this morning. She will text me when she returns tonight to let us know if tomorrow will be a good day to see him. She needs our support, too.

Thank you. This is my first time with that possibility. Can you believe it? The friends I’ve lost before had sudden and unexpected departures. His wife, who I saw this morning will text me tonight. We really need to see him as soon as possible.

@MarieCoyle That’s exactly how I feel. Unfortunately, we can’t go to see him, because he is doing so poorly. My friend still hopes to see an improvement by next week. I hope so, too, but none of what she told me sounds very promising. She’s going to call me for a long talk about her cancer numbers and what is really going on with her husband.

@DianneN A long and drawn out illness is hard on everyone. No one wants to give up hope, of course. I have some friends that I consider family as well as my family, and I know I would want to see them one more time, even though it would be very, very hard. I hope you can.

Thank you. That’s very wise of you.

My friend will text me tonight. We really want to see him, because from the way it sounds, it may be our last time

@DianneN .......Sure. Knowing your friends haven't back out is very important. Turn on some George Carlin for him to listen to.

@celticeagle

Thank you. Laughter is the best medicine. He can barely speak now, but knowing we were there would be so good for his soul, I think. I saw my friend today as she was leaving for the hospital. She will text me later to let me know if we can visit tomorrow.

@DianneN I understand that.

To be honest, he’s not doing well at all, so we want to see him before it’s too late.

I will find out tonight.

We can’t visit him. He’s too unwell

@DianneN That’s so sad. I hope he will feel better soon.

Thanks so much. I saw her this morning and met his sister who just flew down. It doesn’t look good, but there’s always the miracle of prayer. My friend will text me tonight to let me know it we can visit tomorrow. We have to see him!!!

@LindaOHio We can’t. He’s very unwell to put it mildly.

@DianneN You're very welcome. I hope you can see him.